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Justaman, 37

Encino, California, USA

Hello. I'm 37 yrs old and single. I'm honestly looking for someone to have fun with.

I love to please. I'm active. Love to connect but at the moment I am not looking for a relationship. But I'm ready if you are. 😉 Love oral, vaginal, and anal. Curious to what turns you on, so what's yours?

Interests: Oral Sex, Creampie, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Ready Now

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SparklingSportyefefae, 58

San Diego, California, USA

Calm Authority. Deep Control. A Woman Who Leads With Intention.

Discretion, consent, and chemistry matter to me. I’m drawn to men who are self-aware, emotionally grounded, and curious about surrendering control in a meaningful way. If you appreciate a woman who knows what she wants, moves with quiet confidence, and leads without raising her voice — we may align beautifully.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Lingerie, Pegging

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Phanny, 30

Atherton, California, USA

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of everyday life"

Playing it and living it, is all part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Roleplay, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Couples, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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mistress julliette, 37

Los Angeles, California, USA

Looking for a loyal partner to explore kinks

Looking for that special older one, who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been lost in my past relationship. Someone willing to assist me and ready to live the alternate kinky BDSM lifestyle with me secretly.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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XOAdventures, 27

Sacramento, California, USA

Looking to connect with the right person to spoil and cherish as a 3rd!

We’re a laid-back couple who have been together for over 10 years and have built a strong, solid relationship. We enjoy keeping things easygoing, having fun, and exploring new experiences together with an open mind.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Threesomes, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, New Friends / Platonic

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SweetDreamercfhchf, 62

San Diego, California, USA

Let me serve you suck you till you squirt all over me spank me and tie me up and bend me over

When goddess straps on a big one then pegs that ass hard

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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Posh, 24

Los Angeles, California, USA

Playing it and living it is part of the lifestyle

Your local ray of sunshine ☀️. Are you fun enough to be my new distraction? Let's find out." · "Professional over-thinker and under-dresser. Are you good at giving compliments? Your application is pending." ✨

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, en Femme, Full Time, Stealth, Transfan, Dairy Queen, en Homme, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, Oral

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Mistress, 45

San Francisco, California, USA

I’m a mistress looking for a sub

I’m a mistress looking for a sub am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent woman, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with. Honest sub only.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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CaptivatingStylist, 46

San Francisco, California, USA

Elegant Queen & Strap On Goddess

Whether you crave the sting of my whip, the firm guidance of my voice, or the deep, relentless thrill of my strap on expertise, I will guide you to the edge of your limits and beyond. I excel in strap on play, pegging, role reversal, chastity training, tease & denial, bondage, discipline, humiliation (light to intense), foot worship, and full sensory control. My style is a perfect mix of seductive elegance and strict dominance – I know exactly how to break you down and build you back up, leaving you addicted and craving more.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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JoyfulFoodie85aa4d, 35

Bakersfield, California, USA

Hello cute couple looking for a female to have some fun with

Im Happy when I get to just relax and go on hikes and be able to live naturally and have no worries

Interests: Masturbation, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Lingerie, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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alljayy, 54

Inglewood, California, USA

Seeking friends, lovers.... mature....sexy ... passion

I'm 53 years old, living in the Inglewood region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman aged between 36 and 99.

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Groups, Massage, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, FFF, MFM, FMF

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shejhh, 38

Santa Clara, California, USA

Seeking a genuine connection & good conversation. Looking for my partner in crime for life's adventures.

Seeking a genuine connection & good conversation. Looking for my partner in crime for life's adventures. Hoping to find someone who loves dogs as much as I do. Ready for a real relationship, not just games

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Beginner, Expert, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Swinging, Findom, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships

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SluttyProfessor, 58

Oceanside, California, USA

Cute sub daddy learning what i like

Sensual Pegging and Female domination make me both excited and happy

Interests: Roleplay, Sub, Pegging

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SmartWarrior93ff9c, 41

Sacramento, California, USA

I'm new here. Looking for friends

Hi, I'm new here and I'm looking for friends who like it this way.

Interests: Cuckold, Roleplay, Sub, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Chasity

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HonestCreator05ade, 28

Los Angeles, California, USA

Seeking a genuine connection & good conversation. Looking for my partner in crime for life's adventures. Hoping to find someone who loves dogs as much as I do. Ready for a real relationship, not just games

Seeking a genuine connection & good conversation. Looking for my partner in crime for life's adventures. Hoping to find someone who loves dogs as much as I do. Ready for a real relationship, not just games

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Posh, 26

Los Angeles, California, USA

Playing it and living it is part of the lifestyle

Your local ray of sunshine ☀️. Are you fun enough to be my new distraction? Let's find out." · "Professional over-thinker and under-dresser. Are you good at giving compliments? Your application is pending." ✨

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Full Time, Transfan, Queer, Transman, Trans, Anal

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DelightfulPainter, 62

Lemon Grove, California, USA

Dominate me

I'm a married man that is sex deprived for years. I need sex because it’s a release. I hope to find some women that would take advantage of what I have to offer.

Interests: Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Switch, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Open to Whatever, Ready Now, Nudism

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Mistress, 45

San Jose, California, USA

I’m a mistress looking for a sub

I’m a mistress looking for a sub am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent woman, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with. Honest sub only.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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TRANS DESIRE, 30

Marysville, California, USA

Trans woman looking for someone serious

Trans desires always on my mind, lets fuck together

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, en Femme, Full Time, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Dairy Queen, en Homme, F2M, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Transman, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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Sexyjordan, 48

Chico, California, USA

Looking for good time and good vibes

Cooking, living life, going shopping. Smoking tree, love my boyfriend.

Interests: Parties, Threesomes, Roleplay, Couples

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