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Mistresstammy, 28

San Jose, California, USA

I’m a lovely Goddess and I’m nice to text

I don’t take people for granted and I hate to be messed with.

Interests: Sissy, BDSM, Full Time, Transfan, Trans

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Kylie, 35

San Jose, California, USA

A dash of dominance a pinch of sweetness- I'm here to lead you on a playful journey where control meets care.

The dance of power and tenderness drives me. Nothing excites me more than commanding with care and forging real connections. I'm a dom ready for bold play ❤

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Vincent94, 31

San Jose, California, USA

Imma Super Freak and I want to show you.

I'm 31 years old, living in the San Jose region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 20 and 60. I'm a fun person. You’ll be amazed with me.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, Smothering, Belly Dancing, MILF, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Oral

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julian, 36

San Jose, California, USA

I am a woman who believes that real connection is built not only on attraction, but on depth, energy, and the ability to truly see each other beyond the surface. I can be soft and warm, but at the same time I have a strong inner core and a clear

I am a woman who believes that real connection is built not only on attraction, but on depth, energy, and the ability to truly see each other beyond the surface. I can be soft and warm, but at the same time I have a strong inner core and a clear understanding of what I want from life. I appreciate meaningful conversations, emotional intelligence, and those rare moments when two people feel comfortable even in silence. I enjoy the beauty of simple things a slow morning with coffee, a genuine smile, a look that says more than words.

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BBW / BHM, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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milkablay, 51

San Jose, California, USA

Hello, My name is Tracy.

Hello, My name is Tracy. I am very honest and discreet. Looking for some good lovemaking. I am obedient, submissive, attentive, and loyal. I enjoy oral.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Sub, Exhibitionism, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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lovelifemusicdie, 40

San Jose, California, USA

Looking for an irl with a woman. Open to whatever may come of it.

Please dont hesitate to message me and ask. I'm an open book.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Sub, Switch, Chasity, Collaring, gags, Pegging

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AffectionateBeauty, 33

San Jose, California, USA

Hoping to traverse my fantasies with the right person

I love to have fun we should discover new fetishes and kinks together

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Erotic Fiction, en Femme, Transfan, Dairy Queen, F2M, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Transman, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+

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Drop Those Breeches, 55

San Jose, California, USA

Spanko Couple Seeking Red Bottoms!

We love spankings and hope to find others as well!

Interests: Spanking / Whipping

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Bwithus, 64

San Jose, California, USA

We are 64 years old, living in the San Jose region. Sls,aff same id

I'm 64 years old, living in the San Jose region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman aged between 45 and 70. I'm with a few extra pounds body shape. Socially drink, female don't drink or smoke.

Interests: Massage, Lace, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Swinging, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Naughty Games

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Phompy, 65

San Jose, California, USA

Seeking discreet connections for fun and friendship.

I'm a 65-year-old man, 5'8", looking for casual encounters and friendships with trans women or fabulous ladies. I enjoy online chats and the thrill of discreet meets. If you're seeking a straightforward connection without the drama, let's see where things lead.

Interests: Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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ElegantConnector, 28

San Jose, California, USA

Here to explore my wildest kinks and fetish

Here to explore my wildest kinks and fetish.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Collaring, Contract, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Unicorn, 39

San Jose, California, USA

Dominant mistress is seeking for sub

Ready to rule and dominate sub who’re willing to serve.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Electro-Play, gags, Pegging, Findom

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Rose, 36

San Jose, California, USA

I am a gentle, kind, compassionate, romantic, well educated, sometimes opinionated but not in a necessarily negative way

1 am kind loving smart hard working supportive intelligent sweet romantic easy going fun to be around lady

Interests: Massage, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Dirty Talk

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Flacko Aaliyah, 28

San Jose, California, USA

We’re looking for a third female 😍😍🍑

We’re a married couple trying new things, looking for a third to join us in the bedroom and spice things up 🔥🍑

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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Trans Patricia, 26

San Jose, California, USA

I’m down for Hookups 🥵🔥 Proudly a trans 🏳️‍⚧️

I wish we have this together 😘. I’m interested in meeting a transgender person or a man aged between 35 and 94.

Interests: Masturbation, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Feet, Leather / Latex, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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KilaueaPlaya, 42

San Jose, California, USA

Bringing respect, communication, humor, situational awareness and good vibes to the table.

SJ /bay area is where I stay but the entire world is home. Minimum vacay time should be 1mo and international even thru these weird times. I’m a security consultant for for all types personal V. I. P. and commercial needs.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Friendship, Lingerie, Dirty Talk, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates

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Dcrick07 , 62

San Jose, California, USA

Mature fun male looking for fun and friends.

Fun,friendly mature male. Looking for fun and friends. I'm not interested in anything serious. I'm kind, considerate and caring. Love all types of women.

Interests: Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Oral, Naughty Games, Gilf

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2in1domination, 36

San Jose, California, USA

Two women yearning to dominate a serious submissive male

If you’re wanting to try new limits or you think you can take on two bloody mistresses you’re needed in the red room.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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InspiringRunner87a34b, 26

San Jose, California, USA

Exploring naughty time and doing naughty stuff

Getting naughty every kind and I always wanna explore every day do lot of naughty stuff

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Contract, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Ladyempthatic, 46

San Jose, California, USA

I’m someone who finds joy in the little things quiet mornings, meaningful conversations, and making the people I care about feel seen and appreciation

I have a gentle heart, a playful sense of humor, and I believe kindness is one of the most attractive qualities a person can have. I value honesty, emotional depth, and laughter that comes naturally. I’m always growing, always learning, and I’d love to share moments both simple and unforgettable with someone who enjoys warmth, connection, and a bit of magic in everyday life.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Anal, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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