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Drop Those Breeches, 55

San Jose, California, USA

Spanko Couple Seeking Red Bottoms!

We love spankings and hope to find others as well!

Interests: Spanking / Whipping

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Mistress, 45

San Jose, California, USA

I’m a mistress looking for a sub

I’m a mistress looking for a sub am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent woman, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with. Honest sub only.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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DeeCastro1983, 42

San Jose, California, USA

Just love to dress in tight slutty short outfits.. my greatest attributes are my ass and legs hence everything tight and short

Just here for fun. Again love tight and short outfits to show off my nice ass and legs

Interests: Latex, Lace, Underwear, Pantyhose, Padding, Sissy, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Lingerie, Part Time, Crossdress, Trans, Leather / Latex, Open to Whatever

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KilaueaPlaya, 42

San Jose, California, USA

Bringing respect, communication, humor, situational awareness and good vibes to the table.

SJ /bay area is where I stay but the entire world is home. Minimum vacay time should be 1mo and international even thru these weird times. I’m a security consultant for for all types personal V. I. P. and commercial needs.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Friendship, Lingerie, Dirty Talk, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates

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Larryreg, 67

San Jose, California, USA

Fun guy looking for adventures !

Union airline employee well versed and traveled ready for FUN ! Let’s meet up & chat !

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Friends With Benefits

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Subforall, 68

San Jose, California, USA

Mature sub looking to serve.

I crave the opportunity to serve men and women. My favorite activities are eating pussy and sucking cock. I also love feeling superior men fucking me bareback and filling me with their hot cum.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Cuckold, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever, Cuckold Roleplay, Interracial Cuckolding, Bi-Cuckold

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GlamorousInnovator59b8ae, 43

San Jose, California, USA

I feel am a woman of integrity and a family provider.

I feel am a woman of integrity and a family provider. I think I am kind in heart and tender of soul. I am proud in the quality of what I do and responsible., I believe in taking care of a man and treating him as a gift that God meant him to be. I also have understand that making love is not just a physical act of two bodies,as i will do anything for my man.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Leather / Latex, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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julian, 36

San Jose, California, USA

I am a woman who believes that real connection is built not only on attraction, but on depth, energy, and the ability to truly see each other beyond the surface. I can be soft and warm, but at the same time I have a strong inner core and a clear

I am a woman who believes that real connection is built not only on attraction, but on depth, energy, and the ability to truly see each other beyond the surface. I can be soft and warm, but at the same time I have a strong inner core and a clear understanding of what I want from life. I appreciate meaningful conversations, emotional intelligence, and those rare moments when two people feel comfortable even in silence. I enjoy the beauty of simple things a slow morning with coffee, a genuine smile, a look that says more than words.

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BBW / BHM, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Debbie28, 43

San Jose, California, USA

Im all new to the dating website, looking for something genuine and easygoing.

im debbie, a laid back woman looking for something pretty long term

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun

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Mr. laypipe, 26

San Jose, California, USA

Here for fun let’s see where things go

Casual here for fun down for whatever message me and let’s see where things go

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Swinging

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Presh, 35

San Jose, California, USA

I’m a Dom looking for sub to train and play with as my personal sub and toy

I’m a Dom looking for sub to train and play with as my personal sub and toy

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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isosxyfm, 53

San Jose, California, USA

Want to spend time with someone and maybe party with

We will have to come back to this question, I'm not very good at questions like this

Interests: Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Exhibitionism, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Leather / Latex, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Available This Weekend

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graciistella3, 57

San Jose, California, USA

I am a kind, compassionate, and driven individual looking for a partner to support and grow with. I value open communication and respect in a relationship and am excited to get to know someone who shares these values

I'm a kind-hearted, sociable, and fun-loving girl who believes in spreading positivity and joy wherever I go. My friends often describe me as someone who is always there to lend a helping hand and bring a smile to their faces. I thrive on meaningful connections and love meeting new people from diverse backgrounds. Engaging in conversations and sharing laughter is what I truly enjoy. Whether it's a deep discussion about life's mysteries or simply having a good time, I'm always up for it. Ambition drives me forward, and I'm constantly striving to achieve my goals and dreams. I believe in personal growth and love exploring new opportunities to expand my horizons. With a strong sense of determination, I embrace challenges and never shy away from pursuing what I desire

Interests: Massage, Sub, A Relationship, Friendship, Mature, Dirty Talk, Tickle Play

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Trans Samantha, 31

San Jose, California, USA

I'm a dominant trans woman looking for loyal subs and submissive daddies

I'm Samantha, a dominant trans lady but also loving and super nice. I love to fuck and dominant older men make them suck my cock and thank me. Say thank you, Samantha, while I blow my load down their throat. Are you that sub? Send a message now.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Creampie, Roleplay, Hookups, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Open to long-distance relationships

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Good boy , 23

San Jose, California, USA

Obedient Good Boy Seeking Generous Sugar Daddy to Pamper Me

Daddy’s Good Boy – Rewards Make Me Even Better”

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders

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Spicy Couple, 49

San Jose, California, USA

Spicy couple iso sexy ingredient

We are a very secure married couple wanting a sexy single female we would be open to a female couple(F/F)who is looking for a Poly family. We would consider a Male (str8)and (bi)Female couple as friends and if thing happens we would be open to it. We still have yet to find that extra spicy to our lives as well as share our world with. You: Must be drama free and your tried of the BS in the world and your looking to settle down in a long term totally committed relationship or a long term partnership. Size curvy. We are looking for someone who is into the adult pleasures of giving and receiving massive explosive intimacy from not only a man but a woman as well. And maybe looking to build something solid as a Rock or stronger.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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2in1domination, 36

San Jose, California, USA

Two women yearning to dominate a serious submissive male

If you’re wanting to try new limits or you think you can take on two bloody mistresses you’re needed in the red room.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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StylishKing581ed9, 45

San Jose, California, USA

I want love but I’m just there and got a lot of things on my heart

I want to love and be loved because that all that makes me happy

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Bondage

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SweetMummy, 34

San Jose, California, USA

💖 — turning your private dreams and hidden desires into moments that make your heart race and your soul sigh. ❤️ — where desire meets devotion, and every whispered wish becomes a deliciously real adventure.

The magic, darling, happens when you let go of every worry and show me your true self… that’s when the shivers start and the fantasies bloom. I get excited by curiosity, devotion, and a little daring… a mind that plays as much as the body. What makes me happiest is seeing you surrender just a little, feeling your warmth, and knowing I’ve stirred a fire inside you that’s all my doing. Every whispered thought, every longing glance—that’s my playground, and oh… how I love to watch it awaken.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Contract, Pegging

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LuvSquirters247, 45

San Jose, California, USA

Just an average guy that's loves women and needs to fuck

I love squirters. Just something about seeing a lady quiver as she cums is so hot

Interests: Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Online, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Real Life Story, Current Affairs, Site Improvements, Meetups, Mature, Dirty talk to me, Vlog, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games

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