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Annygreenwood, 29

San Diego, California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training others

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quenched in my past relationship.

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Contract

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SparklingSportyefefae, 58

San Diego, California, USA

Calm Authority. Deep Control. A Woman Who Leads With Intention.

Discretion, consent, and chemistry matter to me. I’m drawn to men who are self-aware, emotionally grounded, and curious about surrendering control in a meaningful way. If you appreciate a woman who knows what she wants, moves with quiet confidence, and leads without raising her voice — we may align beautifully.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Lingerie, Pegging

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Henry_Britt1326, 38

San Diego, California, USA

Couple here looking to experience new things with other couples or a third add in. Open minded new to this world but excited to try it out together.

What makes us happy is the thought of adding someone to our already amazing sex life. To experience this outrageous fun together.

Interests: Threesomes, Hookups, BDSM, Couples, Swinging

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CenValleyBull, 38

San Diego, California, USA

Respectful, experienced traveling bull open to consensual adult play.

Driven by respect, chemistry, and connection. I bring experience, discretion, and a focus on shared pleasure. Open to local and travel meetups. Let's keep it real, safe, and unforgettable.

Interests: Anal Sex, Groups, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Video themselves, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Open to long-distance relationships

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Bet, 41

San Diego, California, USA

Smooth talker with a wicked streak. I crave new experiences, darker desires, and the thrill of the unknown. Tempt me.

Confident. In control. Dominant by nature. I crave deeper submission and higher limits mentally, physically, and beyond. If you're ready to surrender, I'm ready to take you there.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, gags, Pegging, Findom

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bbc995, 54

San Diego, California, USA

Ready for fun and sex in public

Love to try new things.adult bookstores and anything that sounds 😜

Interests: Oral Sex, Watching, Creampie, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friendship

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King&queen, 60

San Diego, California, USA

Couple looking for some intimate fun.

Seeing my girl happy and excited. Letting fantasies happen whether I’m involved or not. She is very bi-curious and never been with a woman. Want to fulfill her desires.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Lingerie, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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Energeticrunners, 47

San Diego, California, USA

My style walks the line between soft and sinful.

Long term, short term we can go I'm sure the time worth it.

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play

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sweetsexysassy, 48

San Diego, California, USA

We are very fun loving lovers, handsome man an sweet, sexy and say girl. We love to party all night and dance, sinh, talk and share a lot of love with respect and consideration ❤️

It makes me happy to give my handsome lover a girlfriend so I can watch how amazing and hot he is 😍

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Roleplay, Couple fun, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Strip on webcam, Send naked pics, same room sex

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Mer, 34

San Diego, California, USA

Here to breed and connect

Looking for sexy girls and to get them pregnant and many more.

Interests: Roleplay, BBW / BHM, Belly Dancing, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Dirty Talk, Oral

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ExperiencedCareg9fab, 30

San Diego, California, USA

I’m a dominant one seeking a sub to own

My impact in the lifestyle I’m into includes pussy worship, ass face aitting, pegging, foot fetish, bindage, ass licking, roleplay and wax play

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Breast Play, Chasity, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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TinaxCross, 52

San Diego, California, USA

Hi! I’m Tina. Closeted CD sub.

Hello. I am in Sn Diego. I’m a bottom sub CD. I am hoping to meet someone who wants to use me.

Interests: Dominatrix, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM

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Ningishzeda , 50

San Diego, California, USA

If I stay ready I don't have to get ready

I like to get passed the meeting stage quickly. Like we been knowing each other. I like intimacy, touching, kissing,

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Gilf, Nudism

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Nastynnaughty, 37

San Diego, California, USA

Ready to meet up couples or girls .. down for a good time

Pretty openmined couple ready to explore new things and have spontaneous good time.. like full swap soft swap and role play ..

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Massage, Full Swap, Threesomes, Roleplay, Sub, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Bondage

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InquisitiveWriteregedge, 46

San Diego, California, USA

Hello I’m Vera and here looking for a man who is BDSM, Naughty, loyal, honest and truthful but I hate those who lie or cheat on their women

Hello I’m Vera and here looking for a man who is BDSM, Naughty, loyal, honest and truthful but I hate those who lie or cheat on their women

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction

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Wickedgoddess, 29

San Diego, California, USA

I am a DOMINANT woman, who enjoys training others on how to be loyal and submissive, ready to please their partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle

I am looking for that special one who will rekindle the flame of passion and desire that seems to have been quenched in my past relationship

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Collaring, Contract, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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jessedarrellpriv379, 66

San Diego, California, USA

Hott guy looking for trans women

Hott and Horny wants trans for good times fun fun fun

Interests: Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Transfan, Crossdress, Trans, Short-term Fun, Transexual, Intergender, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Lola&Buggs, 46

San Diego, California, USA

We are looking to have a fun time with a unicorn

We are looking for a unicorn someone to have a fun time with for our 1st three some.

Interests: Anal Sex, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Short-term Fun

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GagDomMisstress, 32

San Diego, California, USA

I keep control with intention, reward obedience, and expect devotion.

I’m a Dominant lady seeking a true submissive connection..looking to try and explore with a submissive being who’s into Crossdressing, pussy worship, Ass face sitting, pegging and so on.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Ms Margaret, 61

San Diego, California, USA

Dominant woman seeking loyal submissive

Open to anything and would train a sub on how to live the alternative lifestyle.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Fetish & Kink, Dom, MILF, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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