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BeautifulDrummer066, 63

Santa Clara, California, USA

I'm looking for my better half, i am a very stable and well accomplished man, i lost my wife and it's been a hell to find a replacement. . I'm addicted to nature, captain by pro if you enjoy sailing embrace yourself to travel across the world with me. .

I feel happy and complete having the right woman around me,listening to my favorite country music,watching interesting series on Netflix,like banshee county etc..

Interests: Oral Sex, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Anal, Dirty Talk

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Briana, 56

Santa Clara, California, USA

I am generally an optimistic person with good sense of humor, fairly easy going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things in my life.

I’m looking for a man who’s willing to take the time to truly get to know me someone who values meaningful conversations, genuine connection, and building something beautiful together, one moment at a time. I believe the strongest relationships begin with friendship, trust, and hearts that are willing to grow closer every day.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, A Relationship, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Body Hair, Oral, Open to Whatever

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Angelina , 28

Santa Clara, California, USA

No love no kisses, no kiss no care

I am looking for a good Dom and good sub, because I am so sexy

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Crossdress, Couples, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Oral, Open to Whatever

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QuiteControl , 40

Santa Clara, California, USA

I Don’t Break You. I Unravel You

What excites me most is deep, mutual energy. The kind where trust and tension build naturally, and every exchange feels intentional. I’m drawn to vulnerability, mental play, and the slow unraveling of control. What makes me happy? When someone feels safe enough to fully let go and chooses to do it with me.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Beginner, Expert, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Swinging, Findom, Feet, Open to Whatever, Ready Now, Open to long-distance relationships

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EtherealSculptor90e0af, 31

Santa Clara, California, USA

Confident, Affectionate & Ready to Explore Together

I'm a genuine, affectionate woman who loves meaningful conversations, playful flirting, and unforgettable chemistry. I believe trust, respect, and laughter make every connection stronger. I'm open-minded, a little mischievous, and curious to explore with someone who values communication as much as passion. If you're confident, kind, and ready for something exciting—whether it's a great conversation, an adventure, or seeing where the spark leads—come say hello.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Roleplay, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Naughty Games, Tickle Play

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Goddess jane, 27

Santa Clara, California, USA

Looking for My Person, Not Just Another Match

I’m an easygoing, genuine person who enjoys good conversations, laughter, and making the most out of life. I value honesty, loyalty, respect, and positive energy. I’m open-minded and love getting to know new people, trying new things, and creating meaningful memories

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Collaring, Pegging

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Transwoman0101, 37

Santa Clara, California, USA

Looking for a man who loves trans woman.

A proud trans woman living my truth. I'm excited to connect with like-minded individuals and build meaningful relationships." I enjoy going swimming, shopping, camping, fishing, hunting, running, horse riding and value kindness, empathy, and understanding. I'm looking for someone to share in my journey and support me for who I am." a fearless trans woman unapologetically being myself.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Full Time, Transfan, Ladyboy, F2M, Intersex, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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EmpatheticSculptorcedeeh, 45

Santa Clara, California, USA

Let Love Lead The Way . I Am Ready To Love And Be Loved

I’m a confident, feminine woman with a sweet nature and a strong spirit. I believe in taking care of myself, embracing life with positivity, and sharing that energy with the people around me. I enjoy meaningful conversations that spark connection, but I also appreciate the beauty of simple moments and the little things that reveal a person’s true character.

Interests: Massage, Dom, Sub, Mature, Pegging, Naughty Games, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Pianoman, 70

Santa Clara, California, USA

Professional mature guy looking for sexy Dom girlfriend

Love worshipping a strong Dom gal’s feet. Love to wine her and dine her and dance with her. Also can play the piano for her. Passionate respectful guy here. Semi retired and very youthful. Considered good looking. You won’t be disappointed.

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling

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Robert, 64

Santa Clara, California, USA

Looking f I r open mi dedicated women love enjoy life fun loving person

Am out going person looking for good loving person to meet am Honest for shore

Interests: Massage, Dom, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Anal, Oral, Nudism

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Megan , 26

Santa Clara, California, USA

Trans Dom Seeking Sub I'm lookin for a sub to Dom and for me to use and to be my sub and to do as I say.

Trans Dom Seeking Sub I'm lookin for a sub to Dom and for me to use and to be my sub and to do as I say.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Wax Play

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Sophia??????, 35

Santa Clara, California, USA

Seeking fun and adventurous connections.

I'm a single woman looking for casual relationships that may lead to something more exciting. I’m into threesomes and love a good party, and I appreciate honesty and open communication. At 5 feet tall and a Capricorn, I bring a grounded energy to my relationships. If you’re interested in exploring together, let’s connect.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Massage, Parties, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Hookups, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Open to long-distance relationships

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Tyshi, 65

Santa Clara, California, USA

Looking for companionship

I'm a single father with a daughter who's in boarding school looking for a woman that can take care of us.

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AdorableListener92, 38

Santa Clara, California, USA

I am a charismatic woman who loves to travel the world and learn new things.

I value every moment of life. I believe that every situation in a person's life allows him to make a choice in which direction to move. So if you want to try something new, I will support you and do it with you!

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, MILF, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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Richdaddy1, 67

Santa Clara, California, USA

Lovely on purpose: steady, kind, and the man who makes you feel chosen every day

I’m a steady, caring man who shows love in the small things and makes the people close to me feel safe and chosen

Interests: Dom, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Ready Now

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CheerfulLover14dbc6, 36

Santa Clara, California, USA

I love someone who is adventurous as I am to explore more in this life style

I love someone who is adventurous as I am to explore more in this life style

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Kenneth, 55

Santa Clara, California, USA

I’m new here looking for something great

I’m loyal honest and easy going person that know what I deserve

Interests: Dom, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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Notimewaiyt, 31

Santa Clara, California, USA

Looking forward to settle down with that serious right Man.

I’m a 34-year-old Gemini who values honesty and clear intentions. Standing tall at 6'10", I’m straightforward about what I want—whether it’s short-term fun, some flirty escapades, or even a long-distance connection. I prefer to keep things playful and consensual, so let’s chat if you’re interested in exploring the possibilities together.

Interests: Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism, Passion & Chemistry, Experimenting, Private Meets

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Dom susan, 34

Santa Clara, California, USA

IM A DOMINANT MISTRESS SEEKING A OBEDIENT SUBMISSIVE TO TRAIN

I like feminization, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingerie, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really. Don't like blood , or pain.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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RelaxedSani, 29

Santa Clara, California, USA

Zero Drama. Real Intentions. No Games. No nonsense

Hi, 28M, 6 feet tall, athletic guy here. I have been told I am very respectfully dominant and no nonsense person.

Interests: Masturbation, Groups, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Leather / Latex, Temperature Play, Nudism

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