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LoyalClimber18b8c4, 30

Los Angeles, California, USA

Am a caring and loving soul who likes to explore and try new things

Having some nasty fun 😊 every moment am with those who matter

Interests: Toys, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, Switch, gags

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EagerEnthusiast, 41

San Jose, California, USA

What makes you happy and gives you fulfillment ?

I’m very big on ease, good vibes and energy, im sarcastic, im sapiosexual with a high IQ. I’m very naughty, i squirt and im sweet in the middle

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Contract

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Memorymaker, 49

Clearlake Park, California, USA

Seeking a Fun Connection with a free-spirited woman

We're a married couple in our late 40s, seeking to connect with a beautiful woman to be our unicorn for some amazing adventures that are open to exploring more adventurous side of life. We are interested in clubs, dancing, Active and love being outdoors and a no-strings-attached vibe? We're here to meet someone who shares our passion for excitement and fun without overcomplicating things. If that sounds like your kind of scene, we'd love to hear from you.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Throuple, Nudism

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CharmingChef, 30

Capitola, California, USA

I am in search of a man who loves trans

Trans male looking for a loyal humble man.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Medical Play, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Curricd , 69

Azusa, California, USA

I am looking to meet friends that share this desire for femininity.

Exploring my fem side and talking to others who understand this unique lifestyle.

Interests: Lace, Pantyhose, Padding, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Online, Friendship, Lingerie, Transfan, Crossdress, Trans, Nylons, Open to Whatever

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Mistress linda, 35

California City, California, USA

I like feminizationy, bondage, chastity, shemales, panties/lingeri e, humiliation, pegging, anal, alot of things really. 
Don't like blood, or pain.

I am a dominant mistress seeking for a serious submissive to explore

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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BynnE, 52

Crescent Mills, California, USA

Kinky Single Seeking Like-minded Partners

I’m a 52-year-old straight guy, 6 feet tall, and proudly tattooed. I’m looking for couples or adventurous women who share my interests in BDSM and kink. Let’s explore our fantasies together, whether it’s a dominatrix role, fisting, or simply enjoying some casual drinks while we dive into our desires.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Dominatrix, Latex, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Sub, A Relationship, Foot Fetish, Pegging, Feet, Open to Whatever

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XOAdventures, 27

Sacramento, California, USA

Looking to connect with the right person to spoil and cherish as a 3rd!

We’re a laid-back couple who have been together for over 10 years and have built a strong, solid relationship. We enjoy keeping things easygoing, having fun, and exploring new experiences together with an open mind.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Threesomes, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, New Friends / Platonic

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Franky, 52

Murrieta, California, USA

Seeking no-nonsense fun with a hint of kink.

I'm a loving guy open to exciting connections. My interests lie in the world of BDSM and kink, and I'm ready to engage in some fun without complications. I’m looking for a mistress to serve. Let’s build a friendship.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Switch, Beginner, Breast Play, Chasity, Electro-Play, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Nudism

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mats, 22

Corona, California, USA

Couple seeking fun, flirty encounters.

We're an adventurous couple looking for female friends to share exciting experiences. Interested in BDSM and playful exploration, we want to make the most of our time together. If you’re seeking short-term fun and a no-strings vibe, we’d love to connect and see if we click.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Curves, Edging, Leather / Latex, Oral

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Candy , 32

Los Angeles, California, USA

Hot 🔥 trans looking for a serious conversation

I love playing games. Club . Going to beach ⛱️ cat

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Full Time, TS-Friendly

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Goddesskelly, 38

San Diego, California, USA

"A confident, intelligent Mistress seeking a respectful submissive who understands that true pleasure begins with trust, obedience, and the willingness to surrender control. " Elegant & Sophisticated

"Seeking a devoted submissive who values discipline, respect, and service, and who understands that earning a Mistress's attention is a privilege, not a right."

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Watching, Soft Swap, Clubs, Parties, Cuckold, Roleplay, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, MFM, FMF, Bondage, LGBTQIA+

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Cuddle angel, 30

North Hollywood, California, USA

Looking for adventurous souls to spice up life!

Hey there! I'm a tall Libra with a fun-loving spirit, eager to meet someone who enjoys socializing and exploring new experiences. Whether it’s hitting up the clubs or enjoying some outdoor fun, I’m all about making memories. I'm currently navigating my way through life after a separation, ready to embrace whatever comes next with an open heart and a playful attitude.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to long-distance relationships, Couple seeking, Foursome, Nudism

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Jessica , 28

San Francisco, California, USA

Hey guys I'm just a single horny trans girl, always interested in old men and available for Hookup and relationship, so Inbox me if you're interested

"Confident, kind, and trans with pride 🌸 Let’s meet, laugh, and create some fun memories."

Interests: Massage, Dom, Discreet Meets, Hookups, A Relationship, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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METHOD, 42

Brea, California, USA

Looking for a female friend to join our adventures.

We’re a couple seeking a like-minded woman for some casual, exciting encounters. Open to exploring threesomes and other fun experiences, we enjoy social drinks and playful times. If you're confident, adventurous, and ready to have some short-term fun with us, let’s chat.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Watching, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Short-term Fun, FMF, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Throuple

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PassionateArtisticfhce, 32

San Jose, California, USA

Gentle switch (M/s) seeking kind, respectful women. Soft-spoken, caring, and open to exploring both sides. Looking for genuine connection, clear communication, and mutual trust.

I'm a gentle switch who enjoys both sides of the dynamic depending on the connection. What really gets me excited is building real trust, clear communication, and a sense of safety with the right person. I love the quiet intensity that comes from mutual respect and care. Soft energy, patient, and always looking for genuine chemistry with women who value honesty and emotional connection as much as the play itself.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Electro-Play, Wax Play

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Signalonly, 36

Sacramento, California, USA

Adventurous couple seeking fun and open connections!

We’re a couple who loves to explore the playful side of life. With a shared passion for BDSM, nudism, and naughty games, we believe that life is too short not to enjoy every moment. Open to long-distance friendships or hookups, we're here for discreet meets and a bit of outdoor fun. If you're ready to dive into a world of excitement, let’s chat!

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Pegging, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism, Private Meets

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Wings ?? , 29

California City, California, USA

Stop trying to prove your worth. The right people will recognize it without a performance.

Am loving and accommodating Before making judgements about others, make sure your hands are clean.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Wax Play

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MrPleasureHand, 71

Fullerton, California, USA

Distinguished looking mature white gentleman with a high libido seeking a fit white highly sexxed female for mutual enjoyment !

Anything that feels good and making sure that my partner gets off !!

Interests: Anal Sex, Full Swap, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Short-term Fun

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CompassionateDancer, 36

Oakland, California, USA

I’m a very CLEAN & sweet girl, & Very Straight Forward & To The Point! I love having FUN!

You're never going to believe what I like to do on weekends.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Threesomes, Sub, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Oral, Temperature Play

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