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CharismaticDreamer25d56f, 63

Concord, California, USA

I enjoy chick flicks but I also like those movies you have to watch every little thing so you understand the plot and the ending,movies that make you think.

I love a nice dinner out, but staying home, having chines food after a day spent working together on a completely dirty, yet fulfilling project, can be so much fun with the right person.

Interests: Roleplay, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Dirty Talk, Oral, Open to Whatever

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KocnPus69, 61

Modesto, California, USA

Dirty single guy looking for some girl to play with find me at Dallas n Glenn

I am are looking for those who want to be taught how to enjoy each other's experiences.I like playing with others and must be done with respect for others feelings. If you need to be dominate or show your dominance then your are not for us.I am a alpha and leave my ego at work. I am single without a partner

Interests: Watching, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Roleplay, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Dirty talk to me, Strip on webcam, Send naked pics, Video themselves, Tell naughty stories

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Lickitall4u , 65

Pollock Pines, California, USA

I'm a bisexual male looking for a transgender woman

Love boobs balls and cut cocks .... orally gifted love rimming hand jobs

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Transfan, TS-Friendly, Anal

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Experience trans, 33

San Jose, California, USA

I'm an experienced dominant mistress looking for the right person to dominate...

I'm a dominant mistress looking for a loyal and submissive sissy boy. I'm 33 years old, living in the San Jose region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 99.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Loisa , 36

Union City, California, USA

Hi 👋 guys just a trans girl who is looking for a perfect match to explore 😘😘

Transgender I got a monster cock 🍆😜 and got more new things to teach

Interests: Latex, Sissy, Roleplay, Hookups, A Relationship, Online, Part Time, Full Time, Trans, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Misssandra, 36

Nevada City, California, USA

A BEAUTIFUL MISS WANTS TO EXPLORE HER FANTASIES

I’ve got a lot of fantasies I will love to explore I love full domination pegging and so on

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, gags

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Fun only , 27

California City, California, USA

I’m a good woman with a good heart

I’m looking up to meet and have nice fun with men’s

Interests: Masturbation, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Body Hair, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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jimmymarti581, 45

Riverside, California, USA

I'm 5'7 brown hair green eyes Hispanic 185 lbs. Want to meet someone and see where it goes

This is my first time so want to see how things go. Want to do oral and eat and try to take it

Interests: Anal Sex, Lace, Pantyhose, Roleplay, Friends With Benefits, Showing off, Undress me

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JoyfulRebel, 40

California City, California, USA

Looking for a genuine connection

I'm 40 years old, living in the California City region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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Excited , 47

Lodi, California, USA

Looking to meet a enjoy new people and explore new pleasures

I’m really excited to experience new adventures with new people

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk

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Steven, 26

Los Angeles, California, USA

Life is too short, let’s enjoy it together. And make sure to laugh until our sides hurt.

Looking for subs to train. Chat me up if you’re interested

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Hookups, A Relationship, Online, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Contract, Wax Play, Findom, Open to Whatever

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Mistressriley, 41

Los Angeles, California, USA

I lead with calm confidence and a taste for genuine obedience.

I’m a trans woman who’s naturally confident and in control dominance isn’t something I perform; it’s simply who I am. I lead with calm authority, but always with empathy and intention. For me, power dynamics aren’t about ego they’re about trust, communication, and connection. I value obedience that comes from understanding, not fear. I want someone who can surrender because they feel safe, seen, and deeply desired. I enjoy the quiet intensity of control and surrender the eye contact, the stillness, the unspoken pull between dominance and devotion. That’s where real chemistry lives for me. I’m not here for empty play or shallow exchanges. I’m here for something meaningful a bond built on respect, desire, and mutual growth. When I take control, it’s deliberate. When I claim, it’s with care. My dominance is steady, human, and deeply personal.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Chasity, Collaring, Contract

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Miss Bow Legs, 60

Glendale, California, USA

Looking for some spice in our relationship.

I’m a youthful spicy 60 yr old! A natural big titty big booty blonde turns Us on. Want a threesome with my husband and this particular type of woman. Want my husband to watch me eat pussy and have me be eaten. Want my husband and I to get pleasured and be pleasured.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, MILF, Lingerie, Mature, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Nylons, Oral

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BlkRaven, 75

Sun City, California, USA

Dominant Male looking for a submissive woman

Don’t be afraid to ask a way. I don’t bite, actually I do lol.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Curvy, Smothering, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Charliebby, 27

California City, California, USA

Playing it and living it is part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it 💓

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of everyday life"

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Full Time, TS-Friendly, Trans, Pegging, Oral

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Danica, 39

Santa Ana, California, USA

I lead with intention, confidence, and a touch you won’t forget.

If you crave structure, crave intensity, or crave someone who knows exactly what they want… step closer.

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM

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Emily , 40

San Diego, California, USA

Driven, confident, and naturally Dominant — I lead with intention and respect. I’m looking for a man who enjoys strength paired with tenderness, and who’s curious to explore a deeper, more connected dynamic built on trust and adventure.

I’ve got a commanding side and a curious mind. I love to explore, push limits, and create something passionate and real. If you like confidence, direction, and a bit of edge — we’ll get along just fine.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Mistress Churchill, 30

Los Angeles, California, USA

I'm looking for a submissive to explore this lifestyle.

I'm looking for a submissive to explore this lifestyle also teach the does and don't to my satisfaction. I'm a dominatrix and would love to train my submissive to my satisfaction and make sure he's interested in the lifestyle.

Interests: Dom, BDSM

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FunWillingFam103, 36

Signal Hill, California, USA

We’re a fun couple looking to add a fun girl to the party every now and then with us

We love music smoke friendly and very funny. We’re comfortable with ourselves so we want you to be comfortable too

Interests: Threesomes, Cuckold, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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1UCLAFAN , 49

Los Angeles, California, USA

Bi bubble butt bottom looking 4 a pegging partner

6ft 255 blk hair brn eyes employed anything else just ask

Interests: Fisting, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Contract, Findom

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