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Comfukus, 48

Kerman, California, USA

Looking for female to have nsa fun with me and my man

Open minded, fun, humorous, adventure couple looking for a female that wants to be satisfied beyond anything ever known.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Dirty Talk, Oral

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SweetTransautumn, 41

Los Angeles, California, USA

I follow with calm confidence and an open heart, drawn to genuine guidance a balance of trust and surrender that turns obedience into connection. As a trans girl, my submission isn’t about weakness

I’m a trans girl who finds strength in softness and depth in surrender. Submission isn’t something I perform; it’s a part of who I am calm, intentional, and deeply connected. I give myself with trust, not fear. For me, power dynamics are about communication, safety, and genuine emotion. I crave a connection where I can let go because I feel secure, understood, and deeply desired. I’m drawn to the quiet intensity between control and surrender the lingering eye contact, the stillness, the unspoken pull of dominance and devotion. That’s where real chemistry lives for me. I’m not here for shallow games or fleeting moments. I want something meaningful a bond built on respect, care, and mutual understanding. When I surrender, it’s not weakness it’s choice. When I obey, it’s with heart. My submission is tender, human, and deeply personal a reflection of trust, vulnerability, and the beauty of giving completely.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract

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Athena, 30

San Diego, California, USA

Living simple and easy going life,as I'm open minded and love to explore more about life

Love travelling and experiencing new things about life and nature

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Switch, Pony Play, Breast Play, Contract, Wax Play, suspenders, Swinging, Local Only, Available This Weekend, Open to long-distance relationships

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Sparkling Guy, 39

Los Angeles, California, USA

Looking for fun with bottom men

Dive in! Let’s explore your kinky side, no time wasters. Life is all about fun; I would love to be with a top too.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Hookups, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Anal, Available This Weekend

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Sophies, 34

San Francisco, California, USA

Hopeless Romantic Looking for Her Person

I’m a warm-hearted, loyal, and positive woman who believes the best relationships are built on honesty, trust, laughter, and genuine effort. I enjoy meaningful conversations, trying new places, relaxing evenings, and making the most of life’s little moments.

Interests: Toys, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM

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Travis, 20

Poway, California, USA

Seeking no-strings fun with adventurous women.

I’m a 20-year-old guy who enjoys discreet meets and flings. If you're looking for something casual, I'm your guy.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Gilf, Local Only

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laceyy, 56

Hayward, California, USA

Looking for smooth cds trans females and genetic girls but no men

I wear tight short mini dresses and the highest of heels with nice hosiery. Love great legs, nice body. Hourglass figure. Am into B and D, S and M, mostly conventional stuff am open to most things.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Lace, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Available This Weekend, Ready Now

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AuthenticStylistiagjca, 59

Squaw Valley, California, USA

hi hope we can have same good times

great looking . /hot wife that can turn any one on,

Interests: Social Events, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Sexygamerdoll26, 27

Sacramento, California, USA

Hello there, I’m new on here hopefully to get some fun out of this

I’m a Christian and God fearing woman seeking for a hookup or fwb.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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Mira33, 23

Los Angeles, California, USA

Hey I’m just here for a good time Kind, sexy and squirts a lot. I don’t do bare minimum

Hey I’m just here for a good time Kind, sexy and squirts a lot. I don’t do bare minimum

Interests: Roleplay, Group Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Cruising, Feet

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Nastykinks, 29

Davenport, California, USA

Exploring Wild Kinks Together

Been fantasizing about some wild kinks I will love to try it on here with someone special hit me up let’s explore.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Franky, 52

Murrieta, California, USA

Seeking no-nonsense fun with a hint of kink.

I'm a loving guy open to exciting connections. My interests lie in the world of BDSM and kink, and I'm ready to engage in some fun without complications. I’m looking for a mistress to serve. Let’s build a friendship.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Switch, Beginner, Breast Play, Chasity, Electro-Play, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Nudism

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strictlysex946, 56

Redding, California, USA

Sexy, sensual , Naughty, Discreet

Sensuality is important, sex should be fun, sensual, and at times kinky.

Interests: Anal Sex, Massage, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Online, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Tell naughty stories

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Kingslut, 56

Frazier Park, California, USA

Looking for a serious LTR. Lets communicate and begin the journey.

I like to control and being controlled. I have a need to worship pussy/ass/feet sometimes/ sex toys/not into a lot of pain. Role play, cross dressing and some other things I can't think of right now. I believe in live and let live. I'm single, no kids. Discreet is the word of the day.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Medical Play, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags

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Ms Margaret, 61

San Diego, California, USA

Dominant woman seeking loyal submissive

Open to anything and would train a sub on how to live the alternative lifestyle.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Fetish & Kink, Dom, MILF, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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Mistresssharon77, 26

Los Angeles, California, USA

I’m seeking for a submissive loyal sissy

Faithful honest loyal trustworthy person just here to look for my sissy

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, BDSM

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Eros, 43

Folsom, California, USA

Like to try new things. Mistresses and subs welcome.

The thrill of getting immersed into something new and erotic.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Breast Play, Collaring, Electro-Play, gags

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Sweetcock, 33

Union City, California, USA

Very interesting and committed

Looking a for a like minded man to explore all my sexual desires with

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Lace, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Pegging, Edging, Leather / Latex, Open to Whatever

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Sandra, 30

Los Angeles, California, USA

I'm 30 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.

Single and ready to mingle also here for fun love y'all

Interests: Toys, Pony Play

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S&S, 39

Sacramento, California, USA

Join our wild adventure of fun and connection!

We're a laid-back couple looking to spice things up! If you love clubs, parties, and fun nights out with great people, let’s create some unforgettable memories together. We enjoy meeting ladies who are open to new experiences, especially in a friendly, flirty vibe. Life is too short not to have a little fun, right?

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Swinging, Local Only, Throuple

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