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leslielara5520, 71

Salinas, California, USA

I am looking for a long term relationship with someone who is open minded.

i would like to meet someone who is nasty,dirty and kinky and loves sex. I am a btm sub and want be a 24/7 sub.

Interests: Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Roleplay, Fetish, A Relationship, BDSM, BBW Lover

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rosewilliams478, 39

California City, California, USA

I'm single looking for a serious relationship and an honest man to love me

I like swimming camping fishing cooking cleaning the house tennis golf tennis take a walk 4wheeler dancing movie music park museum hiking bowling

Interests: Masturbation, Sexual Massage, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Dirty Talk, Sex Talk, Open to Anything!

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Investortype , 70

Santa Monica, California, USA

SWM seeks sensual domme female for long-term relationship

I'm 69, retired, divorced, no children, living in Southern California. I seek a passionate, very sensual domme woman for a long-term relationship. I'm a sensual sub, not a domestic one.

Interests: Sex Toys, Sub

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BrownSugar, 49

Costa Mesa, California, USA

Looking to spice up our sex life.

Very easy-going. Likes to go out to have a few drinks and shoot some pool. Enjoy comedy shows and live entertainment. My wife on the other hand is a little reserved, but has some freakness on the inside.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship

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Flower, 45

Los Angeles, California, USA

Hey We are a fun couple, easygoing, we love to have a friend

All you want to know just ask..Imagination, fantasies, real fun Everything you enjoy we enjoy.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Hookups, Outdoor Fun

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Victoria, 39

Penn Valley, California, USA

Hi my name is Victoria and I am 39 years old with an urge to be taken advantage of by a couple m/f or even f/f

Well I've been unhappy for a long time now, so what makes me happy is shopping, perfume, purses lol a what's exciting is the thought of being sexual with a woman.

Interests: Threesomes, Discreet Meets

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Smilepromise23 , 70

Folsom, California, USA

Hard working nice guy good sense of humor. Just love life. God blesses me every day.if your looking for a nice man .respectful. a fwb.

Hello I'm active. Enjoy all kinds of stuff.very easy going..Just looking for mutual affection.

Interests: Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Fetish, Sub, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, Casual Dating, Oral, Petite

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BDP, 40

Sacramento, California, USA

Hello boys yes I am the one and only CD mistress Hershey your hottest and sexiest dominatrix so if ready to be a good lil Bitch and listen and obey u might get a second session

I luv when a sub does what he or she is commanded to do as they should do obey and fulfill mistress Hershey's desires

Interests: Dominatrix, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Casual Dating, Beginner, Collaring, Open to Anything!

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Rafaela, 53

Pomona, California, USA

I'm 53 years old, NO FEMALES. Not Interested in Nondressing men clean and smooth fully dressed Cd or trans women only.

A new haul of clothes makeup new wigs gets me going! Freshly shaved legs and face makes me totally happy, did I mention I absolutely love pantyhose!

Interests: Lace, Pantyhose, Sissy, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Lingerie, Admirer, en Femme, Transfan, Crossdress, Trans, Casual Dating, Transgender, Transexual

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Tanilymoha, 44

San Jose, California, USA

I want to meet a person with whom we have common interests and outlook on life.

I hope to meet an honest, intelligent, reliable, interesting, curious, active, kind-hearted and lively man who has no stops in finding his love romantic in character and decisive in actions and who has no harmful habits.

Interests: Threesomes, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Couples, Mature, Casual Dating, Age Gap, Open to Anything!

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KarleyGirl, 72

Los Angeles, California, USA

Hi. I'm 72 and have been secretly cross dressing since I was young. I am three of four boys. i believe mother wanted me to be a girl and have always been kind of a sissy and never really fitted in with boys or girls. I really like being girlie .

I like being a girlie in role play. Hope to find someone to play online. We could agree on a situation, take turns telling the story of what happens next. I'm 5.2 with long wavy hair to the small of my back, like being the submissive one to another girl or a guy. An older guy would be fun.

Interests: Lace, Sissy, Petticoating Roleplay, Roleplay, Online, Friendship, Lingerie, Part Time, en Femme, Stealth, Crossdress, Sex Talk

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Marriedlyfer, 33

Joshua Tree, California, USA

Hi there. We're a couple located in the morongo basin. Looking for couples and like minded people

Having a great conversation while getting to know someone Understanding wants needs and boundaries

Interests: Sex Toys, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, MFM, FMF

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jjd49, 53

San Francisco, California, USA

Learning new things and having fun

I have been to all 50 states and 29 countries on 5 of the 7 continents

Interests: Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Transfan, TS-Friendly

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EagerKing80e60b, 37

California City, California, USA

Looking my loving Kinkys to explore together

I’m Peggy, a dominant mistress who finds pleasure and fulfillment in exploring fantasies. If you’re interested in joining me on a kinky adventure, feel free to send me a message.

Interests: Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Fetish, Dom, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Full Time, Transfan, Dairy Queen, Intersex, TS-Friendly, Transman, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Oral

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LauraRoseMarie, 32

Los Angeles, California, USA

Actually I’m here for nothing too serious tho lol I’m down fully for fun or anything tho 🤩

I'm 32 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 24 and 89.

Interests: Masturbation, Sexual Massage, Hookups, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Anal, Sex Games, Sex Talk

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Nanocube123, 59

Sacramento, California, USA

Just looking for no drama great positive attitude safe clean discreet fun.

Married discreet safe fun latin mix Hawaiian gentleman. 5'8. 59.

Interests: Soft Swap, Threesomes, Friends With Benefits, Couples

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Bladerunner, 70

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm 69, retired, divorced no children, living in Southern California. I seek a woman who is sensually dominant for a long-term relationship. I am not a domestic slave. Not interested in a prodomme or findom.

I like intensity and passion. I'm also into Tantric sexuality. Psychology and philosophy are my main interests.

Interests: Fetish, Sub, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Beginner

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KwlCplfor3rd, 53

Petaluma, California, USA

Loving and kinky couple looking for unicorn or 3rd to create a lifelong throuple.

Looking for a fun, honest, caring and kinky lady to treat man of house like king. To be a great friend or lover to other lady of the house. Looking for someone who wants a partnership in a throuple relationship.

Interests: A Relationship, Friendship

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Hannahbelly , 39

Los Angeles, California, USA

I’m a trans girls enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man,ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle xx 🍆🍆

I’m a trans girls enjoys training men on how to be a loyal and submissive man,ready to please his partner and how to live the alternate BDSM lifestyle xx 🍆🍆

Interests: Sex Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Jemerie, 47

Los Angeles, California, USA

I'm Athletic Built, Mentally Stable and Physically Fit

I like a Bunch of warm Laughs, Swimming, Jogging, I like to Listen To All Kinds of Music, I love traveling too

Interests: Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish, S&M, Sub, Exhibitionism, MILF, Webcam, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Sex Talk, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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