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richiePeton, 59

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Happily Horny and looking for some kinky fun!

Tall single laid back guy looking for regular fun with relaxed people...someone who likes her face in the pillow and her arse ready to receive a hard hand holding you down as you deserve .. I love to give a nice Hard Spanking to a Good slut who is ready and wants to Please...she wants to keep everyone Happy and will please me... Wild Spring is here so looking for my Wild One to take control of and enjoy the long Hard rides 😈

Interests: Latex, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM

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Mistress Cathryn, 47

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Exploring a Meaningful D/s Dynamic

My approach is firm but thoughtful. I enjoy establishing structure, setting expectations and guiding a submissive who genuinely wants to learn, serve and earn my trust. I believe submission is something to be respected, not taken for granted.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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35hy54h, 36

Palmerston North, Wellington, New Zealand

Join us for thrilling escapades and unforgettable nights!

We’re an open-minded couple, both sporty and adventurous, eager to add some extra excitement to our lives. Our playful side loves a bit of BDSM and cheeky encounters, and we’re searching for a fabulous woman to share in our thrilling escapades. If you’re up for some flirty fun and willing to explore boundaries, let’s ignite some chemistry together!

Interests: Anal Sex, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Foursome

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Sophia k, 25

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Playing it and living it, is all part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of everyday life"

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Breast Play, Chasity, Contract, Pegging

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Zoe_Chrizzy, 31

Palmerston North, Wellington, New Zealand

Hi! I'm Zoe! Been doing crossdressing for a while now mainly kink focused. But here looking for likeminded people to explore feminine side of me. Newly moved to Palmy and would love to get to know supportive people.❤️

Non kink side, I'd love to transform head to toe all girly. I love wearing dresses and skirts. My go to is a mini dress with pump heels and simple hairstyle. I love being all girly with someone who supports me to be the woman inside me come out.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Latex, Lace, Satin, Pantyhose, Sissy, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Friendship, BDSM, Lingerie, Part Time, en Femme, Queer, Crossdress, Trans, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Leather / Latex, Nylons, Open to Whatever

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Adventerous, 64

Wainuiomata, Wellington, New Zealand

Hello, let's have fun and adventure!

I am single and love lots of hot sexy fun and friendship. Summer is here, let's go and have an adventure in and out of bed!

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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cardinal013, 62

Miramar, Wellington, New Zealand

Everything and Anything applies

Nothing much to tell, old bastard returning to his old ways looking for FwB, married and can't host/accommodate. No automated messages please, just talk too me

Interests: Spanking / Whipping, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship

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Jes, 35

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of everyday life"

Playing it and living it, is all part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, BDSM, Erotic Fiction

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Jade, 32

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I am genuinely looking to meet some goodie. Let's have a memorable fun and sweet experiences.

You never regret meeting me, am such a humourous and genuine.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Open to Whatever

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Kelly, 29

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Independent, ambitious, and positive. I know what I want in life and value authenticity over perfection. Hoping to meet someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and ready for something real.

Kind-hearted, genuine, and always up for a good conversation. I appreciate honesty, laughter, and meaningful connections. Looking for someone who values respect, loyalty, and enjoys making memories together.

Interests: A Relationship, Open to long-distance relationships

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Davdeb598, 57

Palmerston North, Wellington, New Zealand

We are a fun couple and very open to try new ways

We are both bi and like to watch each other having fun with others

Interests: Anal Sex, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Gangbang, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Video themselves, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Megan, 26

Aramoho, Wellington, New Zealand

Trans Dom Seeking Sub

I'm lookin for a sub to Dom and for me to use and to be my sub and to do as I say.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Cuckold, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Dilf, Gilf

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Prettybecky, 38

Levin, Wellington, New Zealand

Let's get down and have fun

I love fun, am down for anything, trust me I will make sure you feel better.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, S&M, BBW / BHM, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Curves, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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tomtitthappens, 72

Palmerston North, Wellington, New Zealand

old dog but fun times with new ideas.

i like concerts , dinners out, movies, travel sport,

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Threesomes, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Edging, Oral, Open to Whatever

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Fetish Mistress Mia, 29

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I am a legitimate sovereign trans lady . I train, I guide and demand. Your reward for surrender is fulfillment

Hi there! We're a committed, experienced couple looking to connect with like-minded, open-minded submissive individuals. We value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all else. Our dynamic is warm, structured, and built on clear boundaries and consent. We're interested in meeting someone who is curious, genuine, and eager to explore a guided dynamic with a stable couple. Experience isn't required - just honesty, openness, and a willingness to communicate. If you're seeking a safe, respectful environment where you can express your submissive side, feel free to reach out. We'd love to chat, get to know you, and see if there's a good fit.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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SimplyStacie, 36

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

open-minded girl for chat and fun. Love to explore different kink or just chat about all things girly.

Love to flirt and tease, get all dolled up, more naturally submissive but can switch for the right person

Interests: Lace, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Lingerie, F2M, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Leather / Latex, Oral

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Meg, 26

Glen Eden, Wellington, New Zealand

Trans Dom Seeking Sub

I'm lookin for a sub to Dom and for me to use and to be my sub and to do as I say.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Medical Play, BDSM

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EnergeticJoyful, 20

Kimbolton, Wellington, New Zealand

Seeking Playmates in the bedroom

This dynamic duo is all about living life on the edge, and we’re looking for some enticing company to join our escapades. Whether it's a lively night out or exploring some tantalising fantasies, we’re open to everything that comes with the thrill. With a hint of kink and a dash of excitement, let’s break the norms and discover new pleasures together. Ready to turn the heat up?

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Couples

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Summerlove, 29

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I'm a Sweet Temptation with a Naughty SidePassionate, Playful &am; Ready for Adventure

Sweet, sexy, and impossible to forget, with curves, and pure temptation—your secret escape.Let's meet up

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Lcross , 68

Aramoho, Wellington, New Zealand

Life is short so let's not waste time

Semi retired and I hope to hear from you soon I enjoy giving and receiving a great massage

Interests: Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Body Hair, Petite

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