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BDSM loving members looking for connections in New Zealand

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jakewalker444, 21

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

hello my name is jake i am new to this scene

i don't currently know what i am looking for but i will try anything once

Interests: Sex Toys, Fetish, Sub, Chasity

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Leigh, 37

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

I'm into being dominated but also like being taken care of after fucking

Someone to Dominate me with sex but isn't around all the time.

Interests: Sex Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Sub, BDSM, suspenders

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TessaCrossD, 62

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Loves dressing fully, makeup, wigs and wearing white lingerie

I cannot do ‘let’s meet up tonight’ gigs. My private life makes that impossible. Most CDs know how long it takes to 'look perfect' for meets and we all want to do that eh? Like most, the urge to dress over the last 10 years has been unstoppable. I am interested in chatting, but also meeting with other serious CDs who like (adore) dressing up fully and, of course, playing. I am discrete, so anyone wanting to be 'out' or meet in a car for a quickie is not for me (sorry). I don’t play with men who like playing with CDs - that makes me go soft and uninterested. I play with only CD's and real women who don't mind CDs. I adore white lingerie and have a wicked mind and I love long play sessions that are two-way-streets. I'm versatile and ideally you will be too. Love to hear from you if you want to know more or chat about things relating to being a CD I hope you are having loads of fun out there Tessa xx

Interests: Lace, Satin, Underwear, Pantyhose, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Real Life Story, Jokes & Humour, Romance, Meetups, Lingerie, Part Time, en Femme, Crossdress, Trans, Transgender, Transexual

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Kiwi chick , 29

Burwood, Canterbury, New Zealand

Kiwi girl looking for a little fun

Just a chill girlie who enjoys the gym and being outdoors

Interests: Oral Sex, BDSM

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Imaginative, 36

Papakura, Auckland, New Zealand

Looking for a discreet good time

Playful fun loving chick looking for a good time that's discreet and a lot of fun

Interests: Masturbation, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Lace, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Online, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Anal, Oral, Sex Games, Temperature Play

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Marciats, 53

Woodbury, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi I’m Marcia love hot play and fun

A girl with few boundaries Someone who will try most things

Interests: Underwear, Pantyhose, Webcam, Online, Lingerie, Crossdress

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Gummage, 73

Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Older retired guy with plenty of time on his hands looking to meet single females with similar interests

after my partner of 25+ years passed away I now find that I am looking for that special female friend. My interests are electronics, music and collecting movies

Interests: Masturbation, S&M, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Edging, Electro Play, Oral, Open to Anything!, Dilf, Gilf

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pokius, 42

East Tamaki, Auckland, New Zealand

Looking to expand our fun and meet some great people

Making you drip on my fingers is what makes me exicited

Interests: Anal Sex, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Outdoor Fun, FMF

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Sopete, 32

Pakuranga, Auckland, New Zealand

Open minded couple looking for a female to join intimate hook ups

Laid back couple, looking to open our lives up to someone keen on new experiences.

Interests: Oral Sex, Threesomes, Cuckold, Hookups, FMF

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LadyJane , 70

Christchurch, Canterbury, New Zealand

Very passable CD seeking women friend for outings shopping maybe more.

I like women that accepts me for who I am friends first and maybe more.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Trans, Casual Dating

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Couplefun, 43

Ngongotaha, Auckland, New Zealand

Excited to have some fun.. come join us!

We're a good looking couple who likes to have fun, we've been together for 23 years and like to explore

Interests: Group Sex, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Bukkake, Gangbang, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Tell naughty stories, Swinging, Open to Anything!

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KneeltoyourGoddess, 28

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Hey there I'm just looking for some fun here

I'm 28 years old, living in the Melbourne region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a man aged between 18 and 90.

Interests: Group Sex, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Couples, Casual Dating, Age Gap, Open to Anything!

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BeautifulTrouble0045, 36

Hawera, Auckland, New Zealand

DTF Fiend No Strings Here For Fun

Down for new adventures, love meeting likeminded people

Interests: Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Discreet Meets, Anal, Bondage, Edging, Oral, Sex Games, Open to Anything!

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Antonia, 62

Auckland, Auckland, New Zealand

Hi there I have been dressing en femme for about five years. I am fairly confident in public dressed up including shopping at the supermarket and visiting Op shops etc. I am single and am interested in meet ups, friends and long term relationships.

I must admit that I get excited in anticipation to dressing up. I love taking photos of my femme self. Going out in public is both thrilling and heart stopping!

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Underwear, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, en Femme, Crossdress, Trans

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SpontaneousStylist783f6f, 56

Havelock North, Hawke`s Bay, New Zealand

Curious and fascinated , would love to meet someone

Honest calm people make me happy always have a smile

Interests: Transfan

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Cookieb, 41

Queenstown, Canterbury, New Zealand

Hi there single male looking for fun. Open to anything

38 male fit clean and keenWork hard and play harder.

Interests: Oral Sex, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, MFM, Send naked pics, Video themselves, Swinging

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Ruby , 64

Hornby, Canterbury, New Zealand

I'm 63 years old, living in the Hornby region.

I'm 63 years old, living in the Hornby region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person aged between 45 and 66.

Interests: Latex, Lace, Satin, Underwear, Pantyhose, Sissy, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Stealth, Transfan, Queer, Crossdress, Trans, Casual Dating, Leather / Latex, Open to Anything!

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Friendofmine, 53

Kerikeri Inlet, Auckland, New Zealand

I'm living in the Kerikeri, Bay of Islands region.

I'm 53 years old, living in the Kerikeri Inlet region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 36 and 68. I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a few kinks; I like discreet public sex - let's explore together.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Casual Dating

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Piscescouple, 51

Hamilton, Waikato, New Zealand

New to the scene and very curious. Friendly and social but apprehensive

Looking to explore full swapping and a few kinks. Mmf and Mff.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Swinging, Open to Anything!

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wildalexasexy, 44

Hamilton, Waikato, New Zealand

Here to find someone who can keep up with my pace—fast and hot.

Looking for someone who’s as adventurous in bed as I am. Let’s make tonight unforgettable and the morning even better. I’m here to fulfill your wildest fantasies. Ready to explore?

Interests: Adult Chat, Cybersex, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Masturbation, Sex Toys, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Safe Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Couples, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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