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Sneaky1, 57

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I an a stocky 5"10 Maori who is looking for a trans women or she-males to have fun with and romance

A connection or a relationship with a beautiful and sexy trans women or she-male

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Stealth, Ladyboy, Transwoman, M2F, Trans, Transexual

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Mr&missUpperhutt, 44

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

New to town looking for local like minded people who are friendly and entertaining to engage with

Just regular individuals looking for social interaction and like minded people 🙄 cheers

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Friendship, Couples, Swinging

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wendyfetish, 64

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I'm 64 years old, living in the Wellington region.

I'm 64 years old, living in the Wellington region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person aged between 30 and 90. I'm White / Caucasian with a A few extra pounds body shape I don't smoke I will travel for hookups

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Crossdress

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Thequeenyoulookingfor, 28

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I am a teacher, a lover, a lady that loves to control and be in charge.

I like to dominate my man and make me enjoy every bit of me.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Leather / Latex, Oral, Petite, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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SimplyStacie, 36

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

open-minded girl for chat and fun. Love to explore different kink or just chat about all things girly.

Love to flirt and tease, get all dolled up, more naturally submissive but can switch for the right person

Interests: Lace, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Lingerie, F2M, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Leather / Latex, Oral

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Mistress Dom, 51

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Looking for a very loyal and submissive man..

I am a very strict and dominant woman that will control every aspect of your life..

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Fetish Mistress Mia, 29

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I am a legitimate sovereign trans lady . I train, I guide and demand. Your reward for surrender is fulfillment

Hi there! We're a committed, experienced couple looking to connect with like-minded, open-minded submissive individuals. We value trust, communication, and mutual respect above all else. Our dynamic is warm, structured, and built on clear boundaries and consent. We're interested in meeting someone who is curious, genuine, and eager to explore a guided dynamic with a stable couple. Experience isn't required - just honesty, openness, and a willingness to communicate. If you're seeking a safe, respectful environment where you can express your submissive side, feel free to reach out. We'd love to chat, get to know you, and see if there's a good fit.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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SophisticatedShark, 38

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I'm 37 years old, living in Wellington looking for a good time

I'm 37 years old, living in the Wellington area. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 27 and 59.

Interests: Groups, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Bondage, Curves, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Local Only, Ready Now

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Stephanie, 61

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Sissy CD huge wardrobe keen to meet others

I’m a long time CD now seem to be increasingly sissy , can’t stop buying pink Pink fluffy jerseys are my biggest turn on. I have a huge collection of all things girly and keen to my clothes with another cd

Interests: Adult Chat, Anal Sex, Lace, Sissy, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Full Time, Crossdress, Trans, suspenders, Men dressing as women, Share clothes, Admire me, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend

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Mr&mrs feelYA, 27

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Looking forward to having fun 😌

Come and find out! We are a young fit and happy couple that is looking for that extra spice could you be what we’re looking for? Or maybe you want to try something new. Message & we’ll go from there.

Interests: Soft Swap, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Swinging

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VividWorld, 31

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Dare to dive into the depths of my desires? 🌶️

As a Scorpio, I thrive on passion and intensity, especially when it comes to kink and all things S&M. I’m covered in tattoos that tell my story, and I’m looking for someone who’s ready to explore both the wild and the intimate sides of life. If you're a confident man who can handle a fiery INTJ like me, let’s chat and see what kind of mischief we can create together.

Interests: Latex, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Wax Play

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Nerdywhiteboyxx, 40

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Good looking educated Dom/Sadist looking for NSA fun. Expert at eating pussy.

Hi I'm Steve, I I'm looking for NSA fun and interesting conversations with couples and subs

Interests: Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Collaring, gags, Swinging

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EagerGentleman96c67a, 56

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Am 56 years old. Single. Live in Wellington

Interested in exploring being 'owned' by a woman. No longer want it to just be something that fantasize about

Interests: Toys, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Beginner, Breast Play, suspenders, Pegging

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Chieffx, 32

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

I'm looking to have fun and chill

Hey I'm looking to hookup and chill to your satisfaction.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Cowgirl, 26

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Hey are you available for fun?

I'm 26 years old, living in the Wellington region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 61.

Interests: Anal Sex, Threesomes, Cuckold, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Open to Whatever

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Deeman, 54

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Just want nsa carefree fun

Looking for a confident carefree woman to meet, mutually satisfy and go again and again.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Nylons, Oral, Naughty Games

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Mistress Sabrina, 43

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

A genuine mistress looking for a loyal, respectful submissive who understands trust, discretion, and true devotion.

A genuine mistress looking for a trustworthy submissive who craves guidance, structure, and passionate submission.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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Mistress Moana, 60

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

A Quietly Commanding Presence for Those Who Seek More Than Surface-Level Interaction Defined by Depth, Respect, and Precision

Not for the faint-hearted only those who crave structure, discipline, and a touch of irresistible control.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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SoftSparks, 37

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Looking for someone to share some fun experiences together come bask in Bliss

easy going not up for anyhting to serious to start with im easy going enjoy pleasing others and am into music art and film and photography. I often find myself bored these days and need some excitement in my life > ;)

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Leather / Latex, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Open to Whatever

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Daddydom, 50

Wellington, Wellington, New Zealand

Mature and open minded, love to explore and have NSA time :)

Dom and sub. Adventure and Daddy dom play. Very pen minded and outgoing

Interests: Latex, Lace, Satin, Sissy, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Trans, Short-term Fun, Anal, Bondage, Open to Whatever

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