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In the vibrant city of Santa Monica, where the sun shines bright and the beach vibes are unmatched, you can find other BDSM lovers who share your passions. Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, you'll discover an array of local events and meet-ups that cater to your interests. Engage in thrilling experiences, learn new skills, and build lasting relationships with others who understand the beauty of submission and dominance. Join us now to unleash your fantasies!

Members looking for connections near Santa Monica

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g-lover, 30

Santa Monica, California, USA

A Man who has seen the other side and is looking to understand a new life as he realizes he is a girl trapped inside the body of a boy.

I am a writer an editor. Real down to earth girls who understand the mysteries of life make me happy. Engaging in powerful conversation, going deep, and 4/20 friendly.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sissy, Petticoating Roleplay, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Admirer, Transfan, Trans, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+

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Vanessa, 37

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Santa Monica region.

I'm 36 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 42 and 87.

Interests: Masturbation, Threesomes, Roleplay, Sub, Hookups, Online, Anal, Oral

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baddsmelz, 27

Santa Monica, California, USA

searching for something fun 🤩

love to please and make it throbbing! Come and I’ll make it a good time

Interests: Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub

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justcappy, 65

Santa Monica, California, USA

Looking for my sweet pet for fun and games

I'm 63 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 35 and 66.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Dominatrix, Massage, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Exhibitionism, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Switch, gags, Open to Whatever

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BigD, 21

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m just a man into older women and single ready to mingle

I'm 21 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 40 and 90.

Interests: Oral Sex, Fetish & Kink, Toyboy, Dirty Talk

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Valentine, 51

Santa Monica, California, USA

I seek a lil lost kinky sub who will love honor worship serve and obey me that's in need of training discipline punishments a pleasure love and guidance control protection!

I need someone who is mentally matured enough to know he’s mistresses needs, not a little boy who would complain about everything to train in the Bdsm lifestyle

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Pegging, Findom

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Zac, 53

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hello all, I'm Zac. I'd love to meet unique, adventurous, and fun people.

Dressing up in sweaterfetish and bondage. Headshaving turns me into a bright beam of light

Interests: Sissy, Exhibitionism, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Lingerie, Transfan, Queer, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Sexyzoe, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

looking for discreet relationship

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Mature, Feet, LGBTQIA+

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FUNNYNICEGUY1215, 76

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hi, I am a very smart, FUNNY, AND CREATIVE MAN. I am VERY OPEN MINDED, TO EXPLORE ALL POSSIBLITYIES. i AM A FILM MAKER, COMMEDIAN AND ENVIROMENTAL INVENTOR. LET'S CONNECT AND JOY EACH OTHER.

WHAT I LOVE AND NEED IS NEW THINGS, ADVENTURES TO OPEN MY HEART I need TO PLAY, laugh, AND HAVE FUN. To be AROUND OTHERS, TO LET TO ME, BE myself SELF, AND THEY ARE FREE TO BE THERE SELFS

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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barbnawtyboss, 45

Santa Monica, California, USA

Open to all kinds of fantasies

Goddess looking for an obedient loyal and submissive sub to train and explore all kinds of fantasies with.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, Pegging, Findom

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ThatMann , 20

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m looking for other kinky people

It would be easier for me to list the things I’m not into which boil down to anything illegal or immoral

Interests: Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play

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ConfidentStrategist, 46

Santa Monica, California, USA

"Adventure-seek ing, witty romantic with a passion for deep conversations and spontaneous road trips. I’m looking for a kind-hearted partner to share laughs, explore new places, and build a meaningful connection.

If you love cozy coffee dates and stargazing, let’s write our own love story together!"

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Sexy_annasmith , 30

Santa Monica, California, USA

Mommy helps you feel safe enough to try new things. And shapes you towards your best self, rewarding effort and growth

You won't gund chaos under my gaze only thought rules, clear boundaries, and meaningful correction

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Electro-Play, Pegging

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Daisy Taylor, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Santa Monica region.

I'm 34 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 31 and 90.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Collaring, Wax Play, gags

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Yourgoddessrenee, 24

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’ll tease you, control you, and make you want to give me everything I ask for and you’ll love every second of it.

I’m a confident, playful Goddess who knows what she wants. I love taking control and exploring the dynamics of power and pleasure. I thrive on teasing, denial, and making my submissives earn their rewards.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Dom, Findom

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Laylo113, 38

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm ready for a good time! For BBC.. double penetrations

I'm chill as fuck...likes to have fun and try out new things

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, BDSM

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Gentlepleaser, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm looking to have fun and have adventures

I like to exercise im active im looking for someone who wants fun intimacy and dinner dates

Interests: Oral Sex, Massage, Creampie, Dom, Sub, Toyboy, Dirty Talk

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AlluringConnector96ea7c, 52

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hello.I’m your beautiful Latina with the curves that bring you over hills….,I’m looking forward to find a real Dad to fill fiuling are fantasy’s and serious relacionship….

I’m very flirty and love to use my imaginations torns me on and on….

Interests: Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Contract, Findom

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Freddy, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

Summer nights, zero expectations

Honestly, it’s when the energy clicks with someone, lots of laughs, teasing banter, maybe a little mischief. I love when a night starts casual and ends with that spark where you just know you’re both thinking the same thing 😉

Interests: Dom, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Dirty Talk, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Elegancydom, 37

Santa Monica, California, USA

An honest, caring and experienced dom looking for a male sub

Let’s see what’s going to go down in my dungeon, lots of exciting stuffs and experience to share.

Interests: Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Collaring, gags, Pegging

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