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In the vibrant city of Santa Monica, where the sun shines bright and the beach vibes are unmatched, you can find other BDSM lovers who share your passions. Whether you're a seasoned player or new to the scene, you'll discover an array of local events and meet-ups that cater to your interests. Engage in thrilling experiences, learn new skills, and build lasting relationships with others who understand the beauty of submission and dominance. Join us now to unleash your fantasies!

Members looking for connections near Santa Monica

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izhajavan, 55

Santa Monica, California, USA

mature, grounded, and still believe in chemistry.

looking for a love that feels like home, i am my happiest when eating, love the beach and very playful

Interests: Massage, Sub, MILF, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature

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CheerfulClimberjhcfec, 35

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm a big shopper and not big on clubs or bars. I am usually very spontaneous and a non-conformist. I do what feels right for me. I'm not out to impress anyone

I enjoy spending time with family. I love most anything outdoors or crafty. I love animals and watching the wildlife. I was raised mostly in the country and love my space and the peace I find there. I'm not so keen on city life or the crowds. I enjoy campfires, movies, fishing, cooking, laughing, dominoes, cards, flee markets, yard sales, picnics, rodeos, museums, live entertainment,

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Dom, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Oral

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Sexy Linda, 27

Santa Monica, California, USA

I am a sweet looking dominant woman

I am a sweet looking dominant woman looking for good caring submissive to take care of my heart ♥️💋 and also love going wild with my mate as it pleases.

Interests: Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Trampling, Breast Play, Contract, Wax Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Zac, 53

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hello all, I'm Zac. I'd love to meet unique, adventurous, and fun people.

Dressing up in sweaterfetish and bondage. Headshaving turns me into a bright beam of light

Interests: Sissy, Exhibitionism, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Lingerie, Transfan, Queer, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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baddsmelz, 27

Santa Monica, California, USA

searching for something fun 🤩

love to please and make it throbbing! Come and I’ll make it a good time

Interests: Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub

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MasterMatt, 50

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm a caring, passionate man seeking a committed, long-term relationship with a sweet, romantic, and confident woman. I value love, trust, and shared intimacy with a partner who's ready for adventure, deep connection, and meaningful moments together.

I'm a caring, passionate man seeking a committed, long-term relationship with a sweet, romantic, and confident woman. The magic happens when I'm fully myself expressive, adventurous, and loving. What excites me? Deep connections, shared laughter, and exploring life's beautiful moments. I'm happiest when I'm with someone who values trust, love, and creating meaningful memories together.

Interests: Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction

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HappySpiritualist47d1e1, 52

Santa Monica, California, USA

I would describe myself as a patient and independent.

I am looking to find me something serious and as well open to trying new things.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Sub, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Oral, Petite, Open to Whatever

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QueenJADE911, 37

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m drawn to someone who has an open mind, is willing to learn, and who finds strength in surrender. In my world, there’s no room for shame or judgment only exploration and growth.

I'm a confident and experienced Dom, seeking a genuine, intelligent, and respectful sub who is eager to explore and embrace their submission. I value communication, trust, and mutual respect above all else. The right dynamic for me is one built on consent, boundaries, and the understanding that BDSM is about power exchange, not control or manipulation.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Mistress Camille , 44

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m looking for something ongoing and hopes it becomes something permanent and fun.

I'm 43 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90.

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Petite, Open to Whatever

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Jay2637, 21

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m here to have fun and I’m open to pretty much anything

I like movies, sports, and music. I like to sport and can play guitar. I like to have fun and I’m open to anything

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, gags, suspenders, Swinging, Findom

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ConfidentStrategist, 47

Santa Monica, California, USA

"Adventure-seek ing, witty romantic with a passion for deep conversations and spontaneous road trips. I’m looking for a kind-hearted partner to share laughs, explore new places, and build a meaningful connection.

If you love cozy coffee dates and stargazing, let’s write our own love story together!"

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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AngelicMiss441, 51

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm very much dominant and i wish to meet new people

I'm very kinky and want to explore my dominant side with a willing male sub

Interests: Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Contract, Wax Play, Pegging

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Sexyzoe, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

looking for discreet relationship

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Mature, Feet, LGBTQIA+

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BigD, 22

Santa Monica, California, USA

I’m just a man into older women and single ready to mingle

I'm 21 years old, living in the Santa Monica region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 40 and 90.

Interests: Oral Sex, Fetish & Kink, Toyboy, Dirty Talk

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EnergeticAdventurer, 26

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hey down for fun

Hey down for fun.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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QueenJADE, 38

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm a confident and experienced Dom, seeking a genuine, intelligent, and respectful sub who is eager to explore and embrace their submission.

If you're someone who understands that a real connection goes beyond the physical, that trust is earned and not given, and you’re looking to dive into an exciting and fulfilling journey, I’d love to hear from you. I value communication, trust, and mutual respect above all else. The right dynamic for me is one built on consent, boundaries, and the understanding that BDSM is about power exchange, not control or manipulation.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Open to Whatever

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davidking, 66

Santa Monica, California, USA

ISO caring understanding open minded lady and other good qualities...

looking for a kind smart lady that is very KINKY...

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Pegging

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Queenine9830, 36

Santa Monica, California, USA

Let me make the best out of you

Creating an atmosphere of trust and proximity which we can all experience. The joy of complete power exchange brings me a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. My enthusiasm is demonstrated by the skill with which I take you to the very edge of your capabilities. Your complete submission demonstrates the depth of your passion. When you're in my care, you might discover a facet of yourself that you never knew existed outside of your wildest imagination.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Pegging

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Cheerful mistress Kathie, 33

Santa Monica, California, USA

I admire men who are intelligent, strong, assertive, comfortable with themselves, and comfortable with their submission.

I am selective, intentional, and grounded in my dominance. I don’t rush dynamics or entertain time-wasters. I seek connection built on trust, boundaries, and mutual understanding. If you are serious, respectful, and ready to grow under guidance, you may introduce yourself properly.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Collaring

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EagerBoy, 35

Santa Monica, California, USA

Sub-leaning switch who loves to serve and be led where my partner wants to take me

I love to be pushed gently and encouraged. Big on praise, even bigger on rising to partner's expectations

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, BDSM, Switch, Chasity, Pegging

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