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CharmingGuardee, 21

Santa Maria, California, USA

Hi couple looking for a third either as another partner or unicorn.

Im a gamer gym bro foodie the best for all the silly goofy introverted needs that u may or may not have lol i try to be extroverted if the vibe is right but i do eventually warm up :)

Interests: Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Lingerie, Couples, Short-term Fun, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Impact Play, Open to Whatever

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Bigdave, 66

Santa Maria, California, USA

Looking for women to please

Love women older love pleasing and doing things for them. I will go out of my way to give them what they need.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Lace, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Curves, Dirty Talk, Nylons, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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ConfidentLegend, 67

Santa Maria, California, USA

A Bold Spirit Seeking a Daring Partner!

There's a wild side to me that's just waiting to be unleashed, and I need a confident partner who knows how to submit.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, BDSM, Collaring, Contract, Findom

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Jussy, 59

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm 58 years old, living in the Santa Maria region.

I'm 58 years old, living in the Santa Maria region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 60 and 86.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Friendship, Lingerie, Couples, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Matchpop101, 58

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm a single monogamous submissive man age 58 looking for a single monogamous Dominant female

I'm a single monogamous submissive retired Army veteran I live alone with my dog Pixie I'm looking for a friend, my Boo, my soulmate. I'm looking for a Dominant woman someone who is loyal, honest, loving, caring, and is willing to have fun. I enjoy lots of things but I do enjoy walks on the beach, concerts, movies, fishing, camping, and food especially BBQ and Chinese. I do have a few fetishes that I enjoy my favorite is my fetish for matches I love everything about matches the sound of the match strike and pop the smell of the sulfur and the feel of the heat from the fire I also love candles wax dripping I'm looking for someone who is willing to share in my fetishes and dominate me.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play

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Curiousbottom, 66

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm a curious submissive looking.

I get excited when My nipples are played with hard. Getting trimmed hard. Having rough anal play.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Beginner, Breast Play, Electro-Play, Swinging

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pamelariche, 50

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm a true dominant with whom you can fully embrace and explore your submissive desires and kinks

My preferred sessions are unrelated and customized based on communication and the interest of you.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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Tina Parker, 28

Santa Maria, California, USA

I value chemistry over everything. Let’s keep it real and see what happens when two people connect.

Real talk, good vibes, zero games. Let’s keep it simple. Looking for chemistry, not just small talk 😉

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Anal, ASMR, Curves, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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Strider, 72

Santa Maria, California, USA

Looking for adventure and good company this weekend!

At 6'1" with some ink to showcase my journey, I believe life is too short not to enjoy every moment. I love to connect with open-minded ladies who are ready for a bit of fun, whether it’s a casual meet-up or exploring some exciting experiences together. Let’s laugh, chat, and see where the night takes us. If you’re up for spontaneous outings and friendship, let’s make some memories!

Interests: Anal Sex, Toys, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Age Gap, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Throuple, Couple seeking, Foursome

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SheCommands, 62

Santa Maria, California, USA

A powerful Mistress calls for a committed submissive.

Step Into My Sanctuary. A devoted submissive is wanted for an empowering, intimate path. Through obedience and truth, you’ll receive guidance, sensual intensity, and lasting change. Possible Areas of Play: feminization, bondage, sensual worship, BDSM, role-play, humiliation, wax, trampling, anal, deprivation, pet dynamics, lingerie, face sitting, etc. This is a confidential space for real transformation and self-discovery.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, gags, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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Letsorgsm, 46

Santa Maria, California, USA

Let's play, I'm open for anything

I'm chill, love to have fun willing to if you are. Open minded. I'm 46 years old, living in the Santa Maria region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 35 and 99. I'm White / Caucasian with an Athletic body shape.

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Medical Play, Erotic Fiction, Switch

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Missbehaved69$, 37

Santa Maria, California, USA

I’m looking for a pay piggy or a sub. Like me control you

What makes me happy is when a guy spoils me no strings attached

Interests: Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Switch, Findom

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Decadent Devil, 79

Santa Maria, California, USA

You die only once, you live every day!!

I’m an out going, open minded, single, fellow who takes life as it arises being flexible to situations as they present themselves After my time in the U.S. Navy I immigrated up to the “Great White North” I spent 25 years working in the Canadian Travel and Airline Industry until retiring and moving back to the United States where I was born and California where I grew up I’m well traveled and have been to over 100 countries so far, many of them on more than one occasion I’ve taken over 30 cruises and would be interested ta meet a like minded lady who might care to occasionally join me on some high seas hi jinx if you catch my drift, eh? Lol If you’d as well be into BDSM I’ve been in the “Lifestyle” many years While living in Canada I even owned a second home at a Nature (Nudest) Resort The kind of qualities I’d find of interest in a lady are adventurous, flirtatious, a good sense of humor, mature, sensually arousing, and sexually decadent You’re not behaving, unless you’re misbehaving!

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Collaring, Wax Play, gags, Swinging, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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Jussey, 58

Santa Maria, California, USA

Hi I'm single ready to mingle

Hi I love for my partner to like my oussy for hours

Interests: Toys, Roleplay

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Joeval77, 48

Santa Maria, California, USA

Honest caring sweet lovable and sexy all over and more .

I get excited when woman tell you straight to the point. I am happy when l see people get along to each other. I love elevator quickly how about you.

Interests: Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Nylons, Oral

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Pounddog, 53

Santa Maria, California, USA

I want to get to know people on this site. I want to make your experience wonderful

I’m 54 years old in descent shape. I try and give the ladies what they need.

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom

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Jucypussy, 58

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm single and want to have fun

I like eating at beautiful restaurants. I like shopping. I like having sex all day.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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Matchpop, 58

Santa Maria, California, USA

I'm a retired Army veteran, single and living with my dog Pixie

I am a fun loving genuine respectful person. I am monogamous submissive looking for a Dominant woman who is also monogamous and loyal. I am looking for a woman to enjoy life with, doing fun things in the local area like walks on the beach, concerts, or even exploring new places together. I am looking for my person, my soulmate, and best friend. I also have a unique fetish for matches and fire, and I want to experience and explore being tied up.

Interests: Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Beginner, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, gags, Findom, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Open to Double Dates

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Toonastyforyoungin, 47

Santa Maria, California, USA

I’m new here. I’d love to meet serious minded people only

I’m fun to be with and honest. I’d rather hurt you with the truth rather than comforting you with lies. I'm 47 years old, living in the Santa Maria region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 99.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, S&M, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Impact Play, Nylons, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Gilf, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism, Passion & Chemistry, Private Meets

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CaptivatingExplorer1d25f, 34

Santa Maria, California, USA

I am a dominate mistress seeking for a submissive male.

Mistress have fantasies for pegging, pussy worship, face sitting, breast worship and cock holding.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, gags, Pegging

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