Explore BDSM Connections in Oakland, California

Join BDSM Loverz Now!

Members looking for connections near Oakland

Lordsloppy's profile picture

Lordsloppy, 42

Oakland, California, USA

Exploring Excitement and Connection

I haven’t been happy in a very long time; however, what gets my senses going is the excitement of others being turned on. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

Join BDSM Loverz to message Lordsloppy

StylishDreamer87d3dd's profile picture

StylishDreamer87d3dd, 26

Oakland, California, USA

I really want you to eat out my sweet tight wet juicy pussy and fuck me so hard and faster deep down in my tight pussy and Ass 💦💦

I really want you to eat out my sweet tight wet juicy pussy and fuck me so hard and faster deep down in my tight pussy and Ass 💦💦

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

Join BDSM Loverz to message StylishDreamer87d3dd

Southern_Comfort 's profile picture

Southern_Comfort , 51

Oakland, California, USA

Enjoying life and everything it has to offer.

I'm just looking for someone who enjoys sex as much as I do.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Wax Play

Join BDSM Loverz to message Southern_Comfort

Sweet Gail's profile picture

Sweet Gail, 56

Oakland, California, USA

Nutty and sensual but very dominant woman

I will train you to be worthy and true sub. Mistress is very adventurous and open to anything.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, gags, Pegging

Join BDSM Loverz to message Sweet Gail

Dominelit's profile picture

Dominelit, 49

Oakland, California, USA

I am the Lady you have been dreaming about. I revel in all things luxury and extravagance. I have led a rather extraordinary life.

I have spent the past decade honing my skill set and growing into the person I am today. I feel fully fledged. I have earned my crown, my wings and my castle; I can create such beautiful darkness. I am alluring in a unique way where I claw beneath your skin. I have an unparalleled strength of character.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Beginner, Expert, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Swinging, Findom, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism

Join BDSM Loverz to message Dominelit

BobbyLong's profile picture

BobbyLong, 37

Oakland, California, USA

Seeking real connections with a curvy vibe.

I’m a single dude who’s 37, looking for something real but not too serious right away. At 6'4" and a few extra pounds, I’ve got a thing for BBWs and I'm open to whatever happens. If you're down for some short-term fun or just want to enjoy each other's company, let’s connect.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Short-term Fun, Anal, Bondage, Edging, Feet, Oral, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Ready Now

Join BDSM Loverz to message BobbyLong

Lele's profile picture

Lele, 21

Oakland, California, USA

Looking to add some spice to our adventure!

We're a fun-loving couple, excited to connect with a lovely lady who shares our zest for life. Our playful Libra vibes keep things light, and we enjoy exploring new experiences together. If you're into some steamy threesomes and like to keep it casual, let’s see where this takes us! We have a few tattoos to show off, and we're eager to make some unforgettable memories.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Hookups

Join BDSM Loverz to message Lele

Jenny's profile picture

Jenny, 33

Oakland, California, USA

"Proudly a trans girl, always authentic, always interesting. Open to new friends, good vibes, and fun adventures

A proud trans woman who’s here for real connections, fun nights, and endless laughs ✨"

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, Anal, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral

Join BDSM Loverz to message Jenny

HerGodess's profile picture

HerGodess, 35

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm a confident, Dominant woman who takes pleasure in control. I'm looking forward to meeting my submissive man that's ready to be collared and lets explore our new fantasies.

Interests: Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Discreet Meets, A Relationship, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Open to Whatever

Join BDSM Loverz to message HerGodess

Maxlengthysessions's profile picture

Maxlengthysessions, 55

Oakland, California, USA

A pleaser looking for those who enjoy being serviced well by an Alpha type who takes no BS, but is relaxed and casual. I know what I’m doing and you will not be disappointed.

An enthusiastic woman who enjoys being treated and serviced properly.

Interests: Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Real Life Story, Thoughts & Whimsy, Meetups, Couples, Mature, Tattoo, Short-term Fun

Join BDSM Loverz to message Maxlengthysessions

Goddessvenomus's profile picture

Goddessvenomus, 31

Oakland, California, USA

Curious spirit seeking playful connections and fun!

Hey there! I'm a 31-year-old trans individual looking to explore the exciting world of kink and BDSM with like-minded souls. Standing at 5 feet, I've got some tattoos that tell my story, and I enjoy social drinks to loosen up. Whether it's a casual hook-up or a deeper connection, I'm open to it all, so let's see where our adventurous sides take us!

Interests: Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play, Pegging, Open to Whatever, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to long-distance relationships

Join BDSM Loverz to message Goddessvenomus

Mistress Ross's profile picture

Mistress Ross, 23

Oakland, California, USA

I’m a confident, dominant woman who embraces the BDSM lifestyle, and I value honesty, trust, and clear communication above all else.

I promise to be open and honest with you, and I expect that same honesty in return. If you choose to explore this side of yourself with me, I’ll guide you through the experience and help you discover things about yourself you may never have explored before. Because of my family, work, and life outside of this world, I keep my BDSM lifestyle very private and discreet. Not everyone understands or accepts it, and that’s why trust and confidentiality are extremely important to me. I’d love to get to know you better. Tell me about the desires, fantasies, and experiences you’ve always been curious about but perhaps never had the opportunity or confidence to explore.

Interests: Dom, BDSM, Lingerie, Crossdress, Pegging, Dirty Talk, Feet, Leather / Latex, Oral, Open to Whatever

Join BDSM Loverz to message Mistress Ross

JosieLynne6996Oakland's profile picture

JosieLynne6996Oakland, 67

Oakland, California, USA

BI CD SISSY SLUT WANTS GIRLS LIKE ME

WOULD LOVE TO GET IN A 3 WAY WITH A COUPLE OR 2 CDS. Live with a TS/TV MTF. We like to watch porn while I play with her and toys .Mostly like to bottom but can switch no problem. Dress up mostly in slut clothes but have gone out in public many times with a TS/TV BFF. Things like TS/TV shack and to Polk street to Divas and power exchange. Love sex and am very open minded and a bit kinky. I don't do shame or judgement You will feel comfortable with me to be who you really are. Let's have naughty times !

Interests: Adult Chat, Anal Sex, Groups, Latex, Lace, Pantyhose, Threesomes, Roleplay, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, BDSM, en Femme, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Transwoman, en Homme, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Strip on webcam, Men dressing as women, Women dressing as men, Public dressup, Showing off, Undress me, Dress me, Take pictures of me, Share clothes, Admire me

Join BDSM Loverz to message JosieLynne6996Oakland

Calflyy90's profile picture

Calflyy90, 61

Oakland, California, USA

It's time to go on the love ride with me!

I'm a very simple man with a big heart and many desirable qualities. I love family, friends and I cherish every single moment I spend together with them. People always remind me that I'm sweet, caring, kind, reliable, responsible, have a good sense of humor and I respect the lives of everyone.

Interests: Massage, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Impact Play, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

Join BDSM Loverz to message Calflyy90

Jenny's profile picture

Jenny, 34

Oakland, California, USA

Confident, kind, and trans with pride 🌸 Let’s meet, laugh, and create some fun memories."

“Looking to meet fun, confident men who are down for a good time 🔥”

Interests: Toys, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Breast Play

Join BDSM Loverz to message Jenny

Riaria67's profile picture

Riaria67, 35

Oakland, California, USA

Elite and Exceptional Company, Only for those who appreciate the best.

I tend to live life at 100mph, so I value the moments when I can actually slow down with the right person. I’m a fan of high-level conversations, spontaneous travel, and anything that involves a bit of a challenge. I have high expectations for myself and the company I keep—if you’re ambitious, sharp, and know what you want, we’ll probably get along just fine

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, MILF, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Mature, Short-term Fun

Join BDSM Loverz to message Riaria67

Pedro's profile picture

Pedro, 40

Oakland, California, USA

An easy going guy who enjoys the simple things in life,

I am an easy going guy who enjoys good conversation,

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Watching, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Exhibitionism, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Nudism

Join BDSM Loverz to message Pedro

DeterminedKnight84's profile picture

DeterminedKnight84, 45

Oakland, California, USA

Elegant & Intuitive Dominant Woman Guiding Gentlemen into Deep Surrender

I love guiding respectful, self aware submissives who crave structure, sensation, and the freedom that comes from letting go. I bring a balanced blend of nurturing care and delicious control. Whether it’s a teasing psychological edge, creative bondage, impact play, protocol training, or simply holding the space for you to fully submit, my style is intuitive and attuned to your needs. I value clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and building trust that allows both of us to explore safely and deeply.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

Join BDSM Loverz to message DeterminedKnight84

Drewski's profile picture

Drewski, 57

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 56 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm 56 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 30 and 70.I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Average body shape Black hairI drink socially I smoke

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Oral, Naughty Games

Join BDSM Loverz to message Drewski

Huseena's profile picture

Huseena, 45

Oakland, California, USA

I love being a lady and I enjoy my femininity. I am loving, affectionate, sexy, kind, caring, intelligent, smart, positive, and a purposeful lady.

I love being a lady and I enjoy my femininity. I am loving, affectionate, sexy, kind, caring, intelligent, smart, positive, and a purposeful lady. I am sociable and understanding. Human inner world is very important for me. In a relationship I appreciate love, respect, care, sincerity, honesty, and mutual understanding.

Interests: Anal Sex, Soft Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

Join BDSM Loverz to message Huseena

Welcome to BDSMloverz.com, your premier destination for BDSM connections in Oakland, California. If you're looking to explore your wildest fantasies, you've come to the right place! Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a dominant looking for your next play partner, our community provides a safe space to meet and engage with others who share your passion for BDSM. From whips and chains to role play scenarios, the possibilities are endless, and so are the connections you can make.

In Oakland, the BDSM scene is vibrant and welcoming, attracting individuals of all experiences. Join our platform to connect with fellow kinksters who are eager to share their desires and fantasies. Embrace your inner desires and take that exciting step to meet locals who are into bondage, discipline, and everything in between. Whether you're interested in finding a partner for a night of fun or looking to establish a long-term relationship based on mutual interests, BDSMloverz.com is here to facilitate your journey into the thrilling world of BDSM.

Related Locations near USA, California

Connect with members in other towns near Oakland such as Alameda , San Francisco , Berkeley , Hayward , Union City , Daly City today!

Looking for something different?

Find a casual hookup in Oakland at Casual Meetupz

Meet swinger couples in Oakland at Red Hot Swinger

Find trans and crossdressers in Oakland at Red Hot Trans

Learn more about BDSM Loverz

New to the site? Read about us, see how it works, explore features, or check the FAQs.