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SpiritualTracy, 38

Oakland, California, USA

I'm a mistress looking for a submissive man that ready to explore.

I'm a goddess mistress looking for a submissive man

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Feet

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Lordsloppy, 42

Oakland, California, USA

Exploring Excitement and Connection

I haven’t been happy in a very long time; however, what gets my senses going is the excitement of others being turned on. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Friendly Guy, 42

Oakland, California, USA

Looking for someone who I can spoil and who can spoil me.

I'm 42 years old, living in the East Bay.. I am open to meeting someone for fun times - fwb, mutually beneficial. More?

Interests: Adult Chat, Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Safe Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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DeterminedKnight84, 44

Oakland, California, USA

Elegant & Intuitive Dominant Woman Guiding Gentlemen into Deep Surrender

I love guiding respectful, self aware submissives who crave structure, sensation, and the freedom that comes from letting go. I bring a balanced blend of nurturing care and delicious control. Whether it’s a teasing psychological edge, creative bondage, impact play, protocol training, or simply holding the space for you to fully submit, my style is intuitive and attuned to your needs. I value clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and building trust that allows both of us to explore safely and deeply.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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Bbc4bbw, 62

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 62 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm 62 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 52 and 90.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets

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MsDulceCat, 48

Oakland, California, USA

I'm a fierce Femme Leather Mommy and a Service Mistress. Serving my community for 2 decades through volunteering, teaching and in a variety of leadership roles.  I specialize in performative & scene whipping, Pet Play, Advanced Piercing & Fire play.

A self aware indivual who is loyal and non judgemental. (Neurospicy & BIPOC+++)

Interests: Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, gags

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Jenny, 33

Oakland, California, USA

Confident, kind, and trans with pride 🌸 Let’s meet, laugh, and create some fun memories."

“Looking to meet fun, confident men who are down for a good time 🔥”

Interests: Toys, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Breast Play

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LBoogie55, 55

Oakland, California, USA

Single and divorced. Easygoing, respectful and here with honesty. Just looking for something casual with good vibes.

I’m at my best when I’m totally myself that’s when the magic shows up. What gets me excited? Someone with good energy and can make me laugh. What makes me happy? Deep conversations where we can be real ourselves without trying too hard.

Interests: Massage, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, SSBBW, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral

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Jenny, 32

Oakland, California, USA

"Proudly a trans girl, always authentic, always interesting. Open to new friends, good vibes, and fun adventures

A proud trans woman who’s here for real connections, fun nights, and endless laughs ✨"

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, Anal, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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Hotcocoa, 41

Oakland, California, USA

Hi I'm into cooking and bicycle riding

What gets me excited is cooking music bicycle riding What makes me happy is completing my goals one day at a time

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging

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Elizabeth, 34

Oakland, California, USA

I'm Elizabeth Andrew

I'm 34 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 83.

Interests: Massage, A Relationship, BDSM, Dirty Talk

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CreativeHeartthrobfchfie, 39

Oakland, California, USA

Let’s Make Ordinary Days Extraordinary

I’m looking for a genuine, emotionally mature man who knows what he wants in life and is ready for a meaningful relationship. If you’re kind, respectful, and enjoy both laughter and deep conversations, we’ll probably get along well..

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, BBW / BHM, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend

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Tonguefu, 64

Oakland, California, USA

Looking for a fantastic and discrete experience

I am married and she is not aware. I'm a very large man, outgoing, and I love a well-manicured person. I want to be turned out orally and anally and at the same time.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Full Time, Transfan, Ladyboy, Dairy Queen, M2F, Intersex, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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Pareja_caliente, 31

Oakland, California, USA

We are a young Latino couple looking for another young couple

We're passionate about sex and we love to fuck, We are two insatiable souls, thirsty for good sex and pleasure.

Interests: Oral Sex, Masturbation, Toys, Safe Sex, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friendship, Couples, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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Sandrapamela42, 35

Oakland, California, USA

I’m honest and easy going person hate lies and cheating

When I’m in a relationship with the right man and watching tv playing games and dance

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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lengthysessions3102, 55

Oakland, California, USA

Looking to pla**** would like to join me?

I’m a **** year old SWM looking for ladies who like to be serviced by a skilled sex partner. Your satisfac**** check out what I can ****o/for/with you.

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Erotic Fiction

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Camilla , 33

Oakland, California, USA

Bossy Queen Needs a Loyal Sub to Train into Perfect Obedience"

Dominant Female Looking to Own, Use and Train Her Ideal Boy"

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Bondage, Oral, Open to Whatever

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Dominelit, 49

Oakland, California, USA

I am the Lady you have been dreaming about. I revel in all things luxury and extravagance. I have led a rather extraordinary life.

I have spent the past decade honing my skill set and growing into the person I am today. I feel fully fledged. I have earned my crown, my wings and my castle; I can create such beautiful darkness. I am alluring in a unique way where I claw beneath your skin. I have an unparalleled strength of character.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Hotcoco, 41

Oakland, California, USA

Party with feet party with meat

What makes me excited is being dominated by women what makes me happy is being surrounded by beautiful women who shares the same interests I have and watching women dominate other men and women

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Uniquefits, 55

Oakland, California, USA

Smells good, easy your thoughts, I'm good for you

Looking forward to meet a straightforward being man

Interests: Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Full Time, Crossdress, Leather / Latex

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