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Members looking for connections near Oakland

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KiyanaTs, 22

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 22 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm 22 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Breast Play, Collaring, Wax Play, Pegging, Findom

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Slut4u66, 59

Oakland, California, USA

Seriously need training, old dog will learn

I'm older and know what I want. My ideal hookup is with a dominate trans woman to teach how to keep her pleasured and happy.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Beginner, Collaring, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, Pegging, Findom, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend

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Aj&don, 32

Oakland, California, USA

Married couple, Looking for Our True Friend

Knowing the feeling is mutual. We give a lot so we love when it’s vice versa!

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Curves, Dirty Talk, Leather / Latex, Petite, Naughty Games

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Chew, 43

Oakland, California, USA

I’m always eager to connect with new people and make lasting friendships

I’m excited to meet you! I’m a friendly and creative person who loves exploring new ideas and experiences. I enjoy engaging in interesting conversations and sharing my thoughts on various topics. In my free time, you might find me diving into a new hobby, reading a good book, or just enjoying some time outdoors

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, FFF, MMM, MFM, FMF, Bondage, LGBTQIA+

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Drewski007, 57

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 56 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm 56 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 32 and 70. I'm Mixed Ethnicity with a Average body shape Black hair I drink socially I smoke I will travel for hookups

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Curvy, BBW / BHM, SSBBW, MILF, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Oral

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Exoticpurty, 29

Oakland, California, USA

Hello, I’m new here and quite nervous lol.

I love positive energy and going out to eat lol. It is all smiles over here.

Interests: Oral Sex, Groups, Massage, Soft Swap, Sub, Outdoor Fun

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SuperSub, 30

Oakland, California, USA

Super submissive looking to be used however you’d like

I’m looking for a mature, aggressive dom, who needs someone right who listens and aims to please. Maybe that’s you. I promise, I can show you much better than I can tell you.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Collaring, Contract

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Genevieve, 40

Oakland, California, USA

I am down for some great sex fun

I want a serious relationship with an honest man I don’t mind fun as well.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Curves, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Petite, Naughty Games, Tickle Play

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Kandm, 47

Oakland, California, USA

Looking for anyone who wants to have a good time

Looking for those who are dtf.. no strings just fun

Interests: Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Couples, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Harper , 39

Oakland, California, USA

Confident and adventurous switch who loves taking control, exploring power dynamics, and guiding passionate, intense play while also embracing moments of surrender with the right partner.

As a switch, I understand both sides, but my desires lean toward guiding, commanding, and shaping the experience.

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Collaring, Pegging

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Bibob, 62

Oakland, California, USA

62 years old. Live with my girlfriend. Frustrated at home. Looking for some adventure.

I love dirty talk. Being uninhibited. Open minded. Looking for mutual fun. Extremely oral.

Interests: Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Swinging

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SexyRachelle, 65

Oakland, California, USA

Hello to all the real men who are looking for me

Yes I'm looking for a big man tall over 6ft who I can look up to rugged but smart has his own place knows what who he wants I like to get wired up with a guy who finds me attractive who likes to flirt with me before he kisses me after that it gets me horny and..

Interests: Pantyhose, Cleavage Enhancement, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Anal, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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SophisticatedMavaf8a, 21

Oakland, California, USA

Well informed. Lesbian virgin.

Being super open and exploring new things. No kissing and telling

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Sub, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Breast Play, Contract, gags

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Joe, 38

Oakland, California, USA

Am a dom master looking for a sub that is totally committed to me

A dom master who always wants to be in control and handle his pet as he pleases

Interests: Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Crossdress, Couples, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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Maturecuple, 49

Oakland, California, USA

Ebony new cuckhold couple. Seeking experienced mature men

New ebony cuckhold couple seeking mature men. Open to all but prefer other black men. Over 35.

Interests: Cuckold, Sub, Erotic Fiction, Contract

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JosieLynne6996Oakland, 66

Oakland, California, USA

BI CD SISSY SLUT WANTS GIRLS LIKE ME

WOULD LOVE TO GET IN A 3 WAY WITH A COUPLE OR 2 CDS. Live with a TS/TV MTF. We like to watch porn while I play with her and toys .Mostly like to bottom but can switch no problem. Dress up mostly in slut clothes but have gone out in public many times with a TS/TV BFF. Things like TS/TV shack and to Polk street to Divas and power exchange. Love sex and am very open minded and a bit kinky. I don't do shame or judgement You will feel comfortable with me to be who you really are. Let's have naughty times !

Interests: Adult Chat, Anal Sex, Groups, Latex, Lace, Pantyhose, Threesomes, Roleplay, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, BDSM, en Femme, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Transwoman, en Homme, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Strip on webcam, Men dressing as women, Women dressing as men, Public dressup, Showing off, Undress me, Dress me, Take pictures of me, Share clothes, Admire me

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ExperiencedDommm, 29

Oakland, California, USA

I'm a beautiful Goddess in search of the perfect sub, nothing more.

I'm a super trans model and only fans star. Tall, slim, athletic with a big co*k of course.

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Dirty Talk

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Waterworks, 33

Oakland, California, USA

Seeking a lovely lady for intimate fun.

We are working professionals looking to try out new things and make some lasting memories.

Interests: Groups, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, Curves, Edging, Petite

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Willtri, 55

Oakland, California, USA

Handsome, charming submissive guy iso dominate woman to love unconditionally

Vintage submissive male available for playdates, or committed relationship. Trained personal attendant/chef/ houseboy/chaste cuckold/etc. Intelligent and creative yet financially challenged. Virgo/Gemini rising.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Chasity, Collaring, Contract

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jane, 31

Oakland, California, USA

just want find my self someone who is actually mature enough too keep a discreet relationship & can keep it ongoing like that without no contradiction with either of us relationship status , discretion is a must in our relationshi p

i am here for a simple friendship with benefit no string attach discret ia a must

Interests: Sub, BDSM, Breast Play, Contract, suspenders

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