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Sweet, 41

Oakland, California, USA

I’m seeking for long term relationship someone i can trust

I looking for caring and honest man not here into games want to try something new.

Interests: Massage, Dom, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, Short-term Fun

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JeffersonCurio, 53

Oakland, California, USA

Bay Area author seeking a wild experience.

VIBES.. I would love to vibe with a sensational gem. A woman that will beco.e my muse and push me to explore new boundaries.

Interests: Toys, Lace, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Anal, Feet, Oral

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Goddessvenomus, 31

Oakland, California, USA

Curious spirit seeking playful connections and fun!

Hey there! I'm a 31-year-old trans individual looking to explore the exciting world of kink and BDSM with like-minded souls. Standing at 5 feet, I've got some tattoos that tell my story, and I enjoy social drinks to loosen up. Whether it's a casual hook-up or a deeper connection, I'm open to it all, so let's see where our adventurous sides take us!

Interests: Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play, Pegging, Open to Whatever, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to long-distance relationships

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Pareja_caliente, 31

Oakland, California, USA

We are a young Latino couple looking for another young couple

We're passionate about sex and we love to fuck, We are two insatiable souls, thirsty for good sex and pleasure.

Interests: Oral Sex, Masturbation, Toys, Safe Sex, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friendship, Couples, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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LBoogie55, 56

Oakland, California, USA

Single and divorced. Easygoing, respectful and here with honesty. Just looking for something casual with good vibes.

I’m at my best when I’m totally myself that’s when the magic shows up. What gets me excited? Someone with good energy and can make me laugh. What makes me happy? Deep conversations where we can be real ourselves without trying too hard.

Interests: Massage, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, SSBBW, Lingerie, BBW Lover, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral

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Dominelit, 49

Oakland, California, USA

I am the Lady you have been dreaming about. I revel in all things luxury and extravagance. I have led a rather extraordinary life.

I have spent the past decade honing my skill set and growing into the person I am today. I feel fully fledged. I have earned my crown, my wings and my castle; I can create such beautiful darkness. I am alluring in a unique way where I claw beneath your skin. I have an unparalleled strength of character.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Beginner, Expert, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Swinging, Findom, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism

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Lordsloppy, 42

Oakland, California, USA

Exploring Excitement and Connection

I haven’t been happy in a very long time; however, what gets my senses going is the excitement of others being turned on. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 99.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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DeterminedKnight84, 45

Oakland, California, USA

Elegant & Intuitive Dominant Woman Guiding Gentlemen into Deep Surrender

I love guiding respectful, self aware submissives who crave structure, sensation, and the freedom that comes from letting go. I bring a balanced blend of nurturing care and delicious control. Whether it’s a teasing psychological edge, creative bondage, impact play, protocol training, or simply holding the space for you to fully submit, my style is intuitive and attuned to your needs. I value clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and building trust that allows both of us to explore safely and deeply.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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Lele, 21

Oakland, California, USA

Looking to add some spice to our adventure!

We're a fun-loving couple, excited to connect with a lovely lady who shares our zest for life. Our playful Libra vibes keep things light, and we enjoy exploring new experiences together. If you're into some steamy threesomes and like to keep it casual, let’s see where this takes us! We have a few tattoos to show off, and we're eager to make some unforgettable memories.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Threesomes, Hookups

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Roshi, 58

Oakland, California, USA

Looking for a connection

I'm 58 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a person aged between 18 and 63. Must have a job and be financially independent. I drink socially and I don't smoke.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Stealth, Ladyboy, Transwoman, Intersex, Trans, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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SpiritualTracy, 38

Oakland, California, USA

I'm a mistress looking for a submissive man that ready to explore.

I'm a goddess mistress looking for a submissive man

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Feet

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Jenny, 32

Oakland, California, USA

"Proudly a trans girl, always authentic, always interesting. Open to new friends, good vibes, and fun adventures

A proud trans woman who’s here for real connections, fun nights, and endless laughs ✨"

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, Anal, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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Trans, 34

Oakland, California, USA

Looking for Fun and Connection – No Strings Attached

I’m a 33-year-old trans woman seeking like-minded individuals for some exciting encounters. I enjoy discreet meets and am open to short-term fun with couples or anyone who's down to explore. Standing at 6'2" and separated, I’m ready to make some new memories without any drama. If you’re into adventures and mutual satisfaction, let’s chat!

Interests: Toys, Groups, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Nudism, Private Meets

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Bbc4bbw, 62

Oakland, California, USA

I'm 62 years old, living in the Oakland region.

I'm 62 years old, living in the Oakland region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 52 and 90.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets

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MistressIvy, 30

Oakland, California, USA

Mistress Ivy, Come explore why men want to give me their money and has me as their Goddess. Promise I am up to no good.

Everything gets me excited. Come peak my interests.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, gags, suspenders, Swinging, Findom

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Robert, 66

Oakland, California, USA

Regular guy no drama down to earth looking for fun and whatever else I might find

Beautiful women honesty a fun person someone that knows what they want and how to give it

Interests: Toys, Massage, Lace, Roleplay, Lingerie, Full Time, M2F, TS-Friendly, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, Oral

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Jenny, 34

Oakland, California, USA

Confident, kind, and trans with pride 🌸 Let’s meet, laugh, and create some fun memories."

“Looking to meet fun, confident men who are down for a good time 🔥”

Interests: Toys, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Breast Play

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Dayxdomdaddy, 47

Oakland, California, USA

Top Master here seeking a loyal bottom/sub to train to pleasure

A Top seeking a nice buttom to play with and train with pleasure

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Ebonixxx, 28

Oakland, California, USA

Sexy Eboni looking for sum fun

4’9 sexy brown skin wanting sex and fun im clean im into everything just ask

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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JosieLynne6996Oakland, 67

Oakland, California, USA

BI CD SISSY SLUT WANTS GIRLS LIKE ME

WOULD LOVE TO GET IN A 3 WAY WITH A COUPLE OR 2 CDS. Live with a TS/TV MTF. We like to watch porn while I play with her and toys .Mostly like to bottom but can switch no problem. Dress up mostly in slut clothes but have gone out in public many times with a TS/TV BFF. Things like TS/TV shack and to Polk street to Divas and power exchange. Love sex and am very open minded and a bit kinky. I don't do shame or judgement You will feel comfortable with me to be who you really are. Let's have naughty times !

Interests: Adult Chat, Anal Sex, Groups, Latex, Lace, Pantyhose, Threesomes, Roleplay, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, BDSM, en Femme, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Transwoman, en Homme, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Strip on webcam, Men dressing as women, Women dressing as men, Public dressup, Showing off, Undress me, Dress me, Take pictures of me, Share clothes, Admire me

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