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RelaxedSweetheart, 56

Modesto, California, USA

Sweet yet wicked Mistress seeking eager subs

Whether you crave gentle guidance, playful humiliation, sensual discipline, or total surrender, I’ll take you exactly where you ache to go. Good boys who know how to kneel and please will be rewarded with my affection… and my wicked imagination. Ready to serve? Come say hello, Your Mistress is waiting.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, suspenders, Pegging

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Bill, 47

Modesto, California, USA

Here to have fun and explore my sexuality.

I'm 47 years old, living in the Modesto region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 29 and 50. I'm White / Caucasian. I drink regularly I don't smoke. I love to take trips and play hard too! Looking for the right woman to explore my interests in the bedroom, just for fun. No strings, just straps! 😉

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, Switch, Pegging

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Terry, 65

Modesto, California, USA

I'm 64 years old, living in the Modesto region.

Things that make me happy music, concerts, watching movies<br>Things that get me excited would be dressing up in nylons, lingerie, and also bondage, giving and receiving<br>Mutual masturbation

Interests: Latex, Lace, Pantyhose, Sissy, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Part Time, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Anal, Bondage, Leather / Latex, Nylons

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Luckyandablkman, 40

Modesto, California, USA

Interracial couple looking for a snow bunny fuck toy

We are a spontaneous couple looking for some 😊 fun times

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Roleplay, Dom, Sub, BDSM, FMF, Bondage

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CompassionateLisa, 36

Modesto, California, USA

Ready to Unleash a World of Pleasure and Fun Together!

What's life without a little excitement? I’m a playful 35-year-old married gal eager for some short-term fun and thrilling escapades. With a passion for the adventurous side of intimacy—think bondage and dirty talk—I'm all about exploring boundaries and indulging in fantasies. If you’re confident and ready for some bold encounters, I might just be the partner you're looking for!

Interests: Toys, Massage, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Open to Whatever

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John, 49

Modesto, California, USA

Wanna have some fun whom ever is down

I'm 5'6 Baldhead Hispanic a few tattoos hazel eyes

Interests: Roleplay, S&M, Friends With Benefits, Dirty Talk

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Sensitiveheart, 29

Modesto, California, USA

naughty as hell kinky as fuck i love to explore my wildest kinks and fetishes

naughty as hell kinky as fuck i love to explore my wildest kinks and fetishes

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Video Chat, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, en Femme, Full Time, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Dairy Queen, en Homme, F2M, M2F, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Transman, Crossdress, Trans, Switch, Pegging, Anal, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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TransTopperGuy, 58

Modesto, California, USA

Looking for a fwb and maybe more

Hi so I’m looking to be friends or fwb with someone local in Modesto and surrounding area for weekly get togethers. I’m pretty laid back and easy going, not looking for multiple people but just one who is understanding and wants to explore some kinks. Please be in the Modesto area or within 50 miles and let’s have a good time.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Local Only

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ModJohn62, 63

Modesto, California, USA

Looking to get my butt warmed up

I'm 61 years old, living in the Modesto region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 52 and 72.

Interests: Spanking / Whipping, Medical Play, Switch

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Maureenc271, 36

Modesto, California, USA

I’m an and confident, refined and commanding Mistress in my late 30’s who knows exactly what I want and how to get it. I excude power, elegance, and sophistication and I seek a devoted submissive who understands the privilege of serving a strong Mistress.

I desire a successful, affluent and generous submissive someone who finds true fulfillment in devotion, obedience and service. You are eager to please, eager to provide and eager to surrender to a mistress who will shape you into the perfect submissive under my guidance. Your wealth is not just a number but a tool for my pleasure, and your greatest joy comes from spoiling and serving me. My ideal submissive understands discretion, respects boundaries, and craved the structure and control I provide. You should be willing to commit to an arrangement where your purpose is to worship, obey and support me in all the ways I see fit. Tribute and financial devotion are expected, but true submission goes beyond material gifts. It’s about unwavering dedication. If you are ready to serve mistress who will own not only your submission but also your desires, send me a thoughtful message detailing why you believe you are the right submissive for me. Show me your willingness and my worth.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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RedDaddy, 44

Modesto, California, USA

Just looking for NSA fun.

Looking for NSA fun. I'm white tall with red hair.

Interests: Massage, Roleplay, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Lingerie, Mature, Curves, Oral

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Penny, 31

Modesto, California, USA

Beauty, brains, and a little bit of trouble

I’m a woman who leads with kindness, loves deeply, and values real connections. I enjoy the simple things—good conversations, laughter, and peaceful moments. I may come off a little reserved at first, but once I’m comfortable, my playful side shows. I’m big on loyalty, respect, and emotional maturity.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Alombo, 35

Modesto, California, USA

I'm an open book waiting to be uncovered

I'm 35 years old, living in the Modesto region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 90.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders

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Daddy, 39

Modesto, California, USA

Hey I'm 39 years old I'm Latino I work out I have a lot of tattoos I'm looking for someone to vibe with and go from there

I'm looking for someone that has big titties or big booty

Interests: Oral Sex, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Pearl Necklace, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Cougar, Toyboy, MILF, Erotic Fiction

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Pennarber , 31

Modesto, California, USA

Just a cool lovely 🌹 girl with honest kind heart

I’m a loving and kind-hearted girl who enjoys the little things in life. I smile easily, care deeply, and believe in treating people with kindness and respect. I love laughter, good conversations, and creating beautiful memories with the right person.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Anal, Dirty Talk, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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Streetz, 37

Modesto, California, USA

Looking for No-Strings Fun and Connection

I’m a single guy who’s 6 feet tall, tattooed, and open to whatever comes my way. Whether you’re into discreet adventures or just looking for some fun with no strings attached, I’m your man. Let’s be upfront about our desires and see where the chemistry leads us. If you’re ready for an adventure, I’d love to hear from you.

Interests: Watching, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Lingerie, Open to Whatever, Gilf, Nudism

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Sissy, 46

Modesto, California, USA

Looking for some fun and fabulous connections!

Hey there! I'm a 5'11'' Libra guy with a penchant for crossdressing and a flair for the bold. I love exploring the world of kink and enjoy discreet meets where we can truly be ourselves. If you're ready for some playful adventures and shared laughs, let's chat and see where the night takes us!

Interests: Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Lingerie, en Femme, M2F, Crossdress, Ready Now

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GenuineIntellectual68ee0c, 26

Modesto, California, USA

I want to cook my famous macaroni and cheese for you.

If you bring something great to the table, I'll share my ice cream with you

Interests: Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism

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NicinModesto, 53

Modesto, California, USA

Hi I'm Nic. I live in Modesto, Cali. I'm easy going, respectful and I respect any and all boundaries.

I was born and raised in Brooklyn, New York and I'm full blooded Italian

Interests: Groups, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Friends With Benefits, Strip on webcam, Video themselves, Tell naughty stories

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Xxxtramillffyyy, 29

Modesto, California, USA

Kneel, don’t negotiate. Born to lead. Too captivating to ignore. Too confident to settle

I’m excited by confidence, discipline, and someone who understands that respect is the foundation of everything. I’m happiest when I’m in control of my life, laughing often, and sharing my time with people who genuinely value me

Interests: Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Collaring, Wax Play, gags, Pegging

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