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Fergieross, 38

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Looking to find and dominate my submissive…

Seeing a woman getting wet in anticipation of receiving her punishments

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, gags, suspenders

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MysteriousProfessor16d46b, 40

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Finally glad to be on here for sex fun and excitement

I am a cheerful, sweet woman with a calm kind character. I like to bring good to people

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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Joe, 36

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

I'm 36 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.

I'm 36 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 27 and 47.

Interests: Switch

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sissypawgmilf, 36

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Pawg submissive sissy milf for men

leggy, naughty sissy, with a big beautiful booty. Tall, slim, smooth, soft pale skin, long legs, dainty feet and have flexible physique. Enjoy getting spanked and love getting fucked hard in the arse and mouth. I am completely submissive, passionate and discreet. love dom masc guys.

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Threesomes, Bukkake, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Lingerie, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Leather / Latex, Open to Whatever

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Kanoma1, 30

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Looking for a curvy slut with a lovely arse

Just a down to earth guy looking for fun, thrills and orgasms

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, suspenders

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Rose, 35

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

I'm a humble, loving, caring woman. I love nature and travel a lot

I'm here to look for a partner who can love me and care for me

Interests: Masturbation, Fetish & Kink, A Relationship, BDSM

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dawnybabe, 63

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

very sub fem CD wants spoil someone

being treated like a women totally and having a man enjoy hisself

Interests: Lace, Satin, Underwear, Pantyhose, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Lingerie, en Femme, Crossdress, Trans, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Open to Whatever

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Honeyridge, 33

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Looking to experience a fantasy

Couple seeking fantasy to explore something different with another woman.

Interests: Toys, Bicurious, Threesomes, Roleplay, Dirty Talk

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Nancylove, 37

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Newly on here and hoping to start a good relationship which can lead me to anything more serious

New here and looking forward to make a friendship which can lead me to anything serious and lasting

Interests: Toys, Massage, Dom, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Open to Whatever

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deanwyatt, 48

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Sub slut looking for Older to restrain me and whip my belly.

Hiya im submissive bottom. Am of average build smooth chest and belly. Love being restrained stretched out and belly whipped and nipples used all while being kept high. Prefer guys 50 upwards please.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Dungeon Parties, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, blindfold me, spank me, whip me, tie me up

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InquisitiveCrusaderiibecc, 31

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Couple looking for fun 🤩 wanting to explore our fantasies.

I'm 30 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 20 and 40.

Interests: Toys, Groups, Massage, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Dom, Sub, Erotic Fiction, Couples

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Sissup4fun, 45

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Bi guy that loves cross dressing but only from the neck down.

I’m quite an anal expert. Have lots of toys and a fucking machine.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Underwear, Sissy, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Crossdress, Trans, Short-term Fun, Anal

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Jadamikey, 42

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

We are an adventurous passionate couple looking for a female with an open mind and nice feet 😜

Being in its very extreme sense intimate and enjoying good times, outdoors and lots of adventure and new experiences.

Interests: Threesomes, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Outdoor Fun

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konradfalty, 45

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Hello my sweets)))

I'm nice guy 😉and need nice girl 😈 I live in Southend.

Interests: Masturbation, Lace, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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Sarahcd, 59

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Just a normal down to earth person looking to meet genuine people for possible romance xx

I love all things girly, being treated how girls love to be treated by guys is amazing and never fails to put a smile on my face. I am honest and loyal and looking for a guy to fall madly in love with xx

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Satin, Sissy, Roleplay, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Admirer, en Femme, Full Time, Crossdress, Trans, Anal, Open to Whatever

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Charmingsoul69, 41

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

I am a woman who knows how to find a common language with different people, adventurous , energetic, ready to do anything to make the world a better place and life more interesting. I can't sit still , I like to add colors to life.

I'm looking for a man who's ready for something real a serious relationship with a woman like me. Someone brave enough to embrace change and bold enough to choose happiness, not just dream about it. I want a man who's not afraid to talk about everything under the sun, from life's mysteries to which ice cream flavor truly reigns supreme. And when life throws its little storms, I want us to be each other's safe harbor a team, always.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Girly-spice, 49

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

New to this site , let's just see how it goes

Im open and honest, just ask me what you need answered

Interests: Toys, Sub, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Danbraz84, 41

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Ready for fun and exploration. I want to push the boundaries

I just love the chase. I make sure that I enjoy life to the max

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Couples, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Chloe, 35

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

In submission, there is strength; in dominance, there is responsibility. Together, they create trust, passion, and power.

BDSM isn’t about pain or control—it’s about connection, trust, and the art of giving and taking pleasure beyond words.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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Fitkit61, 60

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Just ask. Just here for a bit of fun & a laugh.

Bald, tall, average build, honest, genuine & do what I want when I want.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Curves, Oral, Naughty Games, Tickle Play

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