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Welcome to bdsmloverz.com, your premier online destination for BDSM enthusiasts in Essex, UK. Whether you're a seasoned submissive or a dominant looking to explore new horizons, our community offers a safe and welcoming space to connect with others who share your passion for role play. From whips to restraints, our members are eager to indulge in their fantasies and create unforgettable experiences. In Essex, you'll find a variety of individuals ready to explore their desires, no matter your experience level.

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BDSM loving members looking for connections in England: Essex

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sissypawgmilf, 36

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Pawg submissive sissy milf for men

leggy, naughty sissy, with a big beautiful booty. Tall, slim, smooth, soft pale skin, long legs, dainty feet and have flexible physique. Enjoy getting spanked and love getting fucked hard in the arse and mouth. I am completely submissive, passionate and discreet. love dom masc guys.

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Lace, Threesomes, Bukkake, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Lingerie, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Leather / Latex, Open to Whatever

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BraveWarrior61ab48, 23

Witham, England: Essex, UK

Single, looking for some fun. Open to anything and everything.

What gets me excited? Older women haha. On a serious level, I’m a musician, film lover, sports lover and artist. Love being outside, talking about life and everything that comes along with it.

Interests: Toys, Massage, One on one fun, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Open to Whatever

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raymondn169, 74

Colchester, England: Essex, UK

Just newish to all this sering wjats it’s all about

Want to try all things see if we like it or not with ng to try more and see how it all goes

Interests: Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Threesomes, Roleplay, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Strip on webcam, Send naked pics, Video themselves

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TDE, 61

Castle Hedingham, England: Essex, UK

Ask me and find out.

Respectful and discreet. Can accommodate. Open to most things, don't be afraid to ask me.

Interests: Bicurious, One on one fun, Experienced meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Upforall , 62

Basildon, England: Essex, UK

We are a happy couple who enjoy life, we are interested in having a good time, nothing is impossible and a NO is not going to offend us, we just want to explore

I would like to watch my partner enjoy other guys and girls and she would like to watch me enjoy myself with other women

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Cumtryme, 64

Hornchurch, England: Essex, UK

I am dominant looking for bi open minded submissive woman

I’m a confident, dominant man seeking a genuine, open-minded submissive woman who desires a committed long-term D/s relationship. I am looking for someone who is truly ready to embrace her submissive side: a woman who takes pride in serving, obeying, respecting, and adoring her Dominant partner. In return, I offer structure, honesty, passion, and a space where we can explore our deepest kinks and fetishes together — including enjoying BDSM, swingers’ clubs, and parties as a couple. I value authenticity and integrity above all. Please understand that I am not here for games or scams. I do not send money or endless text messages. Once we meet in person and build a stable D/s connection, we can naturally grow together in trust and intimacy. I am very open and honest, and I expect the same in return. If you’re truly ready to commit to a meaningful and adventurous Sub/Dom relationship, then let’s begin this journey together.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Switch, Contract, gags, Open to Whatever

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ExperiencedShannon, 41

Colchester, England: Essex, UK

Looking for a genuine submissive to explore the lifestyle.

I am a lifestyle Mistress with many years of experience. I only practice for fun and pleasure, I explore the beauty and sensation.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Fetish & Kink, CBT, A Relationship, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Beginner, Collaring, Pegging

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Sophie02, 38

Lindsell, England: Essex, UK

I’m just a real sub here for serious stuff only

I get accitted when I’m with my sub and getting it in place

Interests: Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Sub, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pony Play, Contract

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wightmonkey, 43

Maldon, England: Essex, UK

submissive looking f9r a mistress

loyal.and devoted pet maid and submissive kneeling awaiting his superior dominant mistress

Interests: Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, gags, suspenders, Bondage, Leather / Latex

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kenja, 67

Manningtree, England: Essex, UK

Looking for the elusive third to join a Dom/sub couple

Good food, good wine, social drink or two, fresh air and of course kink

Interests: Dom

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Goddess, 40

Harlow, England: Essex, UK

I'm 40 years old, living in Harlow region. I'm open to trying out new things.

I'm 40 years old living in Harlow region hoping to find a man aged 45 and 80 for fun experiences. I love traveling for hook up and I accommodate.

Interests: Watching, Dom, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Anal, ASMR, Edging, Electro Play, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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Kathy, 58

Clacton-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Crossdresser looking for fun , laughs, happiness

Hi I’m Kathy I’m a bottom only crossdresser I’m completely smooth all over and dress from head to foot I will also go out anywhere dressed. Day or night . I’m looking for possible long term or relationship maybe even marriage if mr right is out there .if mr right is out there I will get breast implants to become a proper trans . I will only get breasts as I don’t want to be a woman .

Interests: Anal Sex, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Latex, Cleavage Enhancement, Sissy, Threesomes, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Lingerie, Full Time, Crossdress, suspenders, Public dressup, Undress me, Take pictures of me, Admire me

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Nancylove, 37

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Newly on here and hoping to start a good relationship which can lead me to anything more serious

New here and looking forward to make a friendship which can lead me to anything serious and lasting

Interests: Toys, Massage, Dom, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Impact Play, Open to Whatever

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Sarahcd, 59

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Just a normal down to earth person looking to meet genuine people for possible romance xx

I love all things girly, being treated how girls love to be treated by guys is amazing and never fails to put a smile on my face. I am honest and loyal and looking for a guy to fall madly in love with xx

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Satin, Sissy, Roleplay, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Admirer, en Femme, Full Time, Crossdress, Trans, Anal, Open to Whatever

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Dickykat, 32

Basildon, England: Essex, UK

Looking for 1st time bi meet fun

Looking for our 1st time meet with bi fun message us

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Bicurious, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, One on one fun, First Time Encounter, Chat Only, Experienced meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Swinging, Anal, ASMR, Dirty Talk, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Open to Whatever, Polyamory

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Roberto, 67

Clacton-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

Hey I yeast loking for some fun

I am single live on my on so I need someone for fun and company

Interests: Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, MILF, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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gaga31, 35

Southend-on-sea, England: Essex, UK

I'm 35 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region.

I'm 35 years old, living in the Southend-on-sea region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 50 and 90. I'm Mixed Ethnicity with an Average body shape and Dark Brown hair. I drink socially, I don't smoke, and I will travel for hookups. I'm interested in married men that potentially want something on the side. I can be very discreet and would like the same back. If this interests you then message me; I won't bite (much lol).

Interests: Toys, Watching, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Chat Only, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Straight Curious, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Open to Whatever

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Troy Amsure, 56

Chelmsford, England: Essex, UK

Looking for a good female sub that’s looking for a secret relationship with a skilled dom hand

I will always treat you with respect, generosity and love if you can keep up with a dominant man in the bedroom.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Dom, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits

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Tonyam211, 49

Toppesfield, England: Essex, UK

I am single and ready to mingle

I am a very passionate, romantic and sincere woman who love traveling around the world especially with my special man and also loves being surrounded by friends and family.

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Massage, Sub, Outdoor Fun, Bondage

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StaminaDaddy , 39

Harlow, England: Essex, UK

Gym-goer by day, bad influence by night

Good vibes, gym goals, laughs, and real connection

Interests: Toys, Groups, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Dirty Talk, Oral, Naughty Games

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