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Edward401, 61

San Diego, California, USA

Straight man looking for casual and mutual friendships

Hi, I'm Edward. I'm looking for a woman or trans gender for casual fun. I like to watch and be watched. It's my fetish.

Interests: Masturbation, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish, Dom, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Casual Dating, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Games, Open to Anything!

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JesMik, 32

San Diego, California, USA

Easygoing Couple Seeking Fun

I enjoy riding my motorcycle as well as painting. We make a good team and are looking for a chill down to earth female, no drama, just have fun.

Interests: Anal Sex, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun

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NaughtyRebel, 37

San Diego, California, USA

Everyone wants to escape reality, but I want to turn my fantasies into reality with you.

I love pegging, oral and anal, facesitting, 69, submission and roleplay. They're lots more I want to explore and try. Come let's explore your kinks and fantasies.

Interests: Sex Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Pony Play, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play, Pegging

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cdemilyswallows69, 45

San Diego, California, USA

Crossdresser love's going out on the town and I love wearing my short dresses and skirts and usually without pantyhose because I love to show off my thighs

Looking for someone who would be interested in getting together with a girl like myself I would love to know how it feels to have a cock inside my asspussy and pumping cum inside me I love to swallow and not shy about my lifestyle and love pleasing others in public and private

Interests: Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Real Life Story, Meetups, BBW Lover, Casual Dating, Swinging, Open to Anything!

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redbottomdboy, 57

San Diego, California, USA

Sweet Nice Kinky boy looking a connection. Someone nurturing yet knows when to be strict. Looking for a friend to start

total spanko looking for someone to keep me on my toes. I am a bottom with submissive tendencies. Wanting the world to see us as vanilla but behind close doors its our private kinky world.

Interests: Sex Toys, Fisting, Dominatrix, Sexual Massage, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Sub, Discreet Meets, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Romance, Switch, Pegging

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Leesalovesit, 59

San Diego, California, USA

T girl looking for friends and lovers. I am out, comfortable in public, well dressed for all occasions, and love all things feminine. I like men, tgirls, and anyone with a positive vibe. Adventure is my business.

I love walking into a room and watching peoples heads turn and whisper to one another. I am trans and very unapologetic. A lifetime tgirl, I have been through all of the controversy and the ups and downs of being who I am, and I appreciate the fearless ones.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Cleavage Enhancement, Sissy, Exhibitionism, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, en Femme, Full Time, Crossdress, Trans, Casual Dating, Leather / Latex, Nylons

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SexyCouple026, 24

San Diego, California, USA

Young San Diego couple looking to explore and open minded. Looking for a 3rd female for a threesome.

Exploring new kinks and doing it with new people to develop friendships or more.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sex Toys, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Casual Dating, FMF

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Fetishlover, 38

San Diego, California, USA

Welcome to my world of dominance

Goddess in search of a loyal sub who is willing to serve, worship and be dominated.

Interests: Sex Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Electro-Play, suspenders, Pegging

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Lexa, 23

San Diego, California, USA

Hello everyone, I'm a tgirl from Cali

I love yoga, naughty fun but only for serious people only, and I don't trade 🍌

Interests: Lace, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Online, Trans

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Adventurous, 68

San Diego, California, USA

I'm 68 years old, living in the Los Angeles region.

I'm 68 years old, living in the Los Angeles region. I'm interested in meeting a couple aged between 58 and 74. I'm White / Caucasian with a Petite body shape Light Brown hair I drink socially I don't smoke

Interests: Anal Sex, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Swinging, Open to Anything!

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adam.s904, 74

San Diego, California, USA

ph.d.,fun, sapiosexual, non-judgmental, open minded,caring.

like to listen, give pleasure. explore, share, laugh, play

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Casual Dating, Swinging, Open to Anything!

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Bella, 35

San Diego, California, USA

Marine nu duty, Lover by choice.

San Diego born and raised with a Marine Corps mindset and a heart that stays loyal. I’m strong where it counts, soft where it matters, and always up for a challenge (or a good laugh). Off-duty, I’m all about music rap or country music especially fashion, good vibes, and telling stories that inspire. I’ve got a love for the ocean, late-night talks, and keeping things real. W**d-friendly, spiritually grounded, and always down to hype up my people. Looking for someone who’s confident, driven, and has a good sense of humor. Bonus points if you can freestyle with me, match my energy, or aren’t afraid of a woman who leads from the front. If you like your love with a little spice and a lot of depth, slide in respectfully.

Interests: Masturbation, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Roleplay, A Relationship, Friendship, Lingerie, Mature, Age Gap, Anal, Curves, Oral, Open to Anything!

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Yisha, 42

San Diego, California, USA

Hi, I'm new to online dating!

Well I am Ella, I just joined this online dating site and I'm hoping to know more about each other. I'm looking forward to seeing where this leads us.

Interests: Voyeurism, Lace, Fetish, Sub, Exhibitionism, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Feet, Petite, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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Vixen Vee, 36

San Diego, California, USA

Let's play? I can be whoever you want me to be!

Making Magick happen and being worshipped like the goddess that I am.

Interests: Latex, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Wax Play

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redbottomdboy, 57

San Diego, California, USA

Nice boy who at times is crossed needs a caring nurturing women with a heavy hand

being with someone trusting able to let it all go . Giving up all control Mind and soul just by her look

Interests: Sex Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Sub, BDSM, Switch, Chasity, Pegging

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Mistress Emily , 30

San Diego, California, USA

Coffee’s better with good company, and life’s sweetest moments are the little ones we share. I love slow walks, spontaneous road trips, cooking together, and getting lost in a good book. Emotionally mature, kind-hearted, and happiest by the sea.

There’s real magic in being completely yourself—no masks, no filters. That’s when the best connections happen. I get excited when someone shares their passions with spark in their eyes, when conversations flow deep into the night, and when laughter sneaks up on you in quiet moments. I’m happiest when I’m creating—whether it’s a sketch, a slow-cooked meal, or a spontaneous plan that turns into a great story. The ocean calms me, music fuels me, and kindness always gets my attention. Life’s most meaningful moments are the unpolished, honest ones—and that’s the space I love to live in.

Interests: Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Casual Dating, Foot Fetish, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, suspenders, Findom, Open to Anything!

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Southbay2020, 49

San Diego, California, USA

Looking to chat/text flirt at first, leading to nore

Open minded people other people new and considering adding to relationship

Interests: Anal Sex, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, Online, Friendship, Couples

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Daisydesire, 32

San Diego, California, USA

1. "Framing life's beauty, one snapshot at a time." 2. "Spreading joy, one smile at a time, Goddess." 3. "Freezing moments, igniting memories." 4. "Uncovering the magic in everyday moments, Mistress."

1. "Capturing life's beauty, one frame at a time." 2. "Sharing joy, one radiant smile at a time, my Goddess." 3. "Preserving moments, sparking timeless memories." 4. "Revealing the hidden magic within everyday moments, my Mistress."

Interests: Adult Chat, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Roleplay, BBW / BHM, Car Park Sex, Public Sex, Exhibitionism, Foreplay, Full Penetration, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, Cruising, Anal, Dirty Talk, Feet, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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SweetHiker, 39

San Diego, California, USA

I'm dominate with a kinky side into some fetishes nothing too extreme

looking for a special friend perhaps it could lead to something more

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Casual Dating

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FaithFloyd, 42

San Diego, California, USA

Looking for adventurous fun in public.

I'm into outdoor fun, being watched, rough use, BDSM, and exploring my desires. Pictures and videos are always welcome.

Interests: Voyeurism, Car Park Sex, Public Sex, Exhibitionism, Voyeuristic photography, Voyeuristic film making, Full Penetration, Outdoor Hotspots, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun

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