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Members looking for connections near La Mesa

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GenerousInnovator586fdc, 29

La Mesa, California, USA

hi :) my name is Dan, I enjoy caring for my Pitbull, Steve

would love to experiment, open minded with an open schedule

Interests: Group Sex, Voyeurism, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Lingerie, Mature, Pegging, Petite, Open to Anything!

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Desirecum4you, 36

La Mesa, California, USA

Let play toys fetish anal play

I'm 35 years old, living in the La Mesa region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 22 and 50.

Interests: Sex Toys, Roleplay, Fetish, Lingerie, en Femme, Ladyboy, Queer, Crossdress, Pegging, Leather / Latex

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MrnMrsButtLovers, 53

La Mesa, California, USA

We're ready to hook up with the right woman

Fun couple no drama great sense of humors love 3somes with true bi sexual females

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Bukkake, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Casual Dating, Swinging

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JadedJes, 39

La Mesa, California, USA

Big and Bossy

I am bossy, turned on by helpless men, men that like to wear feminine clothes. Then I want to rip it off and have my way....always my way.

Interests: Sex Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Dom, Trampling, Chasity, Collaring, gags

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LCinSD, 40

La Mesa, California, USA

Easy going couple looking to have fun.

Open minded. Someone we can laugh with as well. Looking for a third who can join in the fun.

Interests: Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Clubs, Threesomes, Roleplay, Dom, Sub, Erotic Fiction, FMF

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Shay, 64

La Mesa, California, USA

Looking for a dom man to discipline me and satisfy himself with my body

I am not into pain but rather I want a skilled dom to make me behave and pleasure him. Restraints, spanking, humiliation. I like a big dick and would enjoy being blacked. Can't host.

Interests: Sex Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Sub, BDSM

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Mamute, 45

La Mesa, California, USA

I'm new here and I want to meet new people and have fun.

I'm new here and I want to meet new people and have fun.

Interests: Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Cuckold, Fetish, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Anal, Oral

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Chuck, 60

La Mesa, California, USA

Im easy going ... ride a motorcycle... want some occasional fun

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LCinSD, 40

La Mesa, California, USA

Looking for a girl to have fun with, casual play.

Fun, easy going couple that want to enjoy life and have fun.

Interests: Hookups

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Lilian, 30

La Mesa, California, USA

In my last relationship, I was lucky if I had sex twice a week. My ex usually claims he's not in the mood or would rather spend time flying all over the country than have sex. It is tiring, believe me, it ain't fun, so I left. Now, all I want is sex, with no labels and no expectations. I need a man who can fill my desires. Can you help a woman out?

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Fred, 66

La Mesa, California, USA

Life's greatest joy is participating in mutual pleasuring of all kinds ....yes that includes sexual pleasure. I have a broad varied palette and seek other vivacious kind persons who also seek variety.

There is an art to assisting others to gently expand their boundaries while not pressuring them to the point of indignation. One way to do that is to allow them to participate on the edges until they feel comfortable with more advanced activities so the person does not regret and feel that he/she was pressured into a particular activity. Before you agree to watch your partner engage in sexual activities with a third party it may be better for you to watch several other couples do that and talk with the man about his feelings to determine if jealousy prevents you from watching your partner enjoy the experience. Interested men should know that it is widely recognized that in this area "while men most often initiate this activity their woman partners most often perpetuate the activity." If you make it all about her and she makes it all about you then you will be amazed how much you look forward to participating.

Interests: Masturbation, Sex Toys, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Exhibitionism, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Couples, Pegging, Dirty Talk, Edging, Sex Talk

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MoganMatthews, 27

La Mesa, California, USA

I'm 26 years old, living in the La Mesa region.

I'm 26 years old, living in the La Mesa region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 21 and 50.

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Jhonatan , 34

La Mesa, California, USA

Quiero experimentar algo nuevo

Buscando experimentar nuevos sensaciones y también gozar de la vida estamos vivos tener pasión sanamente

Interests: Oral Sex, Sex Toys, Safe Sex, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Friendship, Couples, Casual Dating, Open to Anything!

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ur favorite , 24

La Mesa, California, USA

I'm 22 years old, living in the La Mesa region.

I'm 22 years old, living in the La Mesa region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 33.

Interests: Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Foot Fetish

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Spraymfkgod, 35

La Mesa, California, USA

Sarcastic very funny I like to please give everyone a fair start how they take it is on them

Always on the move on my next hustle cause if I don't someone else will

Interests: Sexual Massage, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish, Dom, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Friends With Benefits

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Mrsty, 43

La Mesa, California, USA

first time comers ,. ready to

im five ten hispanic. looking for excitement in this

Interests: Group Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Group Meets, Dirty talk to me, Video themselves, Tell naughty stories

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FAFO619, 43

La Mesa, California, USA

I'm from San Diego and I just want to make new friends and have a good time 😉

Whenever people are themselves and let go of what they think and just go with what u feel regardless of the situation

Interests: Spanking / Whipping, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Switch

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MrnMrsButtLovers, 53

La Mesa, California, USA

Happily Married Couple Looking for Fun

We're a fun couple who knows how to share during 3somes. We love to dance, watch movies, and go to parties. We have a very good sense of humor. We're a no drama couple. As long as you can understand and respect that divorce isn't an option for us and you're into males and females, we will get along just fine.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Casual Dating, Swinging

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Scarlett, 33

La Mesa, California, USA

Hi, I am happy go lucky. I'm looking for a secure man.

Something you will have to figure out ;) I like surprises and adventures. I enjoy audio books, working out, and discovering new things. Maybe you can be something new.

Interests: Sex Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Erotic Fiction, Switch

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Crybabyx, 35

La Mesa, California, USA

Sugar spice and everything nice

I love girly pop music, poppy country. Baseball and football make me happy. Going out on new adventures.

Interests: Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Couples

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