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KinkyCriss, 42

Durham, North Carolina, USA

New to the lifestyle and Looking to explore.

I'm a 5'2" curvy women with a well endowed 6'4" partner looking for fun.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Snottyjayjr, 29

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Just looking for fun and new adventures

I’m very chill and always down to meet new people. Looking for wild nights and early mornings

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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TriplePlay, 41

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Based in Durham, seeking soft play with a mature couple.

I am excited by intense stares and strength. I’m not shy but am cautious at first.

Interests: Adult Chat, Cybersex, Watching, Roleplay, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, LGBTQIA+

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sexylatinax92, 33

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Just a quirky creature looking for cool connections.

I’m someone who values connection, trust, and a bit of edge. I’m grounded in everyday life (work, creativity, and family) but I also have a side that enjoys exploring power dynamics, tension, and vulnerability in a consensual, intentional way. I appreciate good conversation, a sharp sense of humor, and people who know themselves (or are actively figuring it out).

Interests: Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Switch, New Friends / Platonic

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KinkyCriss, 42

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Looking for a couple or unicorn to join our couple or play with my Dom.

BDSM sub and Sensation Dom looking for a couple or lady to add to our adventures.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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SophisticatedSen777e, 29

Durham, North Carolina, USA

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of every

Playing it and living it, is all part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it

Interests: Toys, Massage, Dom, Hookups, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Dazzling Helen, 48

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I’m a creamy and naughty dominant woman In search of a sincere and open-minded submissive who is ready to explore the profound principles and genuine connection that define this unique lifestyle.

I'm open to exploring different dynamics and dedicated to providing guidance with care and discipline. I prioritize understanding and fulfilling the desires of potential partners, ensuring their comfort and satisfaction.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Oral, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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FriendlySensual831d5a, 39

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Attentive Younger Black Guy Seeking Passionate Fun Mature Friend

Hi, I’m a younger Black man in the Durham area. I’ve always been really drawn to mature women. There’s just something about a woman who knows who she is and carries herself with that kind of quiet confidence that I find really attractive. I like taking my time and actually paying attention. I enjoy good conversation, making someone feel relaxed, and creating that kind of connection where she can let go and feel appreciated. I’m pretty attentive by nature and I get a lot of satisfaction out of making sure the woman I’m with feels seen and taken care of. I’m completely discreet and I understand how important that is. No drama, no pressure, just two adults who are looking for something easy and enjoyable. If you’re a mature woman who likes the idea of a younger guy who’s respectful, patient, and actually knows how to appreciate you, I’d love to hear from you. No expectations, just seeing if the vibe is right.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Body Hair, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Gilf

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EnergeticEngineer, 38

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Sex is very amazing, let’s have some fun together!

I am a very easygoing person, love to try something new, I am open to anything, friends with benefits, great fun, companionship, and I would love to meet. I am looking forward to seeing what happens.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf

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QuietMan, 78

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Calm, discrete, clean, older but settled, kind, caring

Sit on the couch and get to know each other, before anything happens, I NEED A FRIEND WHO NEEDS A FRIEND

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Pegging, Dirty Talk, Oral

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Raven_919, 38

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Couple looking for a girlfriend!

Couple looking for a girlfriend to have fun with! We like to go out and have a good time!

Interests: Oral Sex, Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Couples

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Darkmama, 48

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Seeking Passionate Connection.

I'm 48 years old, living in the Durham region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 90. Your goddess seeks to take all of you for her pleasure.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, gags

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ExperiencedRomantic49cbb0, 41

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Hi my name is jay and I’m here to see what this is about it

I’m 40 years old and I sell phones ima lay back kinda guy and like to have fun

Interests: Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Curvy, Plus Sized, BBW / BHM, SSBBW, MILF, Erotic Fiction, BBW Lover, Anal

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Gel, 36

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Me and my boyfriend are looking for someone to have a good time with.

Im a nature loving free spirit. I love to surround myself with good people and energy

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Sub, Outdoor Fun, FMF

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PlayWithUs, 27

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Hello, Its Us Dee and Ro Looking for a Woman to have Fun with!

Male- 36 Female- 26 Looking for a Female to Join the Party, We love to have fun. We are looking for someone whos calm cool and collected. Someone who is a freak in the bed and ready for action. We want our females to be thick in the waste and pretty in the face!

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Groups, Threesomes, Sub, BBW / BHM, FMF

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Kinky plumber 85, 40

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Workaholic looking to enjoy life with like minded people.

Looking to explore and make new friends. Easy to talk with and love good conversation.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Switch

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SweetPussySqurit7, 52

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I want you to slap my ass and pull my hair while giving it to me Doggy style

I want you to lick my pussy while your dick is halfway down my throat.

Interests: Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, BBW / BHM, Car Park Sex, Public Sex, Voyeuristic photography, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Dirty Talk, Oral

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Positive patricia, 46

Durham, North Carolina, USA

It’s nice meeting everyone……….

I don’t really have much to say……. Not until we start getting to know each other better

Interests: Masturbation, Dom, Sub, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Body Hair, Oral, Naughty Games

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Badboy, 60

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Looking for old white woman that livie in Durham and surrounding areas

I’m from Durham and work at Duke University hospital

Interests: Massage, Sub, Short-term Fun

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Pussyeatindemon, 25

Durham, North Carolina, USA

BBC I'm not here for games.

I'm a kind person with a solid dick to match. If you want me to eat u out I'ma take ur body mind and soul.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Mature, Anal, Feet, Petite, Tickle Play

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