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Members looking for connections near Durham

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Kelvin 1967 , 58

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I'm 57 years young I work a full time job and I'm open minded and a black male

I like to go to street festival and the beach 🏖️ watching TV 😃 travel to places like Florida and amusement parks meeting different people and real estate

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Trampling, Pegging

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Juliana, 33

Durham, North Carolina, USA

🌈 ✨🌿 Art 🎨 Travel 🍄 Passion ✨💕

I want love, and I’m hoping to find a serious, long-lasting partner.

Interests: Masturbation, Roleplay, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Dirty Talk, Oral

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Friendlyamber34, 28

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Hoping to explore and traverse my deepest desires and fantasies with the right one 😊

I love to have fun we should discover new fetishes and kinks together

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Full Time, Stealth, Transfan, Ladyboy, Dairy Queen, en Homme, Intersex, Queer, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Anal, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+

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KinkyCriss, 42

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Looking for a couple or unicorn to join our couple or play with my Dom.

BDSM sub and Sensation Dom looking for a couple or lady to add to our adventures.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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blossomlana, 24

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Looking to Explore My Kinks and Have Fun

just fun. TOP looking for her little whorreee.

Interests: Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, CBT, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, Wax Play, Pegging, Findom

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Nick, 49

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Lonely and corny for casual fun

Outdoors cooking staying in having fun and good sex

Interests: Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Gilf

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Logan, 33

Durham, North Carolina, USA

We are a couple looking to get started in the Swinger world

We like to have fun, meet people, go out to drink, dance, etc.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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sexylatinax92, 33

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Just a quirky creature looking for cool connections.

I’m someone who values connection, trust, and a bit of edge. I’m grounded in everyday life (work, creativity, and family) but I also have a side that enjoys exploring power dynamics, tension, and vulnerability in a consensual, intentional way. I appreciate good conversation, a sharp sense of humor, and people who know themselves (or are actively figuring it out).

Interests: Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Switch, New Friends / Platonic

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n30vyp3r, 50

Durham, North Carolina, USA

A joker that bites and love to suck on certain spots

I am a joker with a cruel but sweet spot, A Dom that have a gentleman side and a soft hand that can give a hard spanking too. I am a geek for almost everything and can put a BDSM spin on most of them.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Medical Play, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Open to Whatever

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caresoul, 37

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I am a loving caring and submissive woman who is here for something serious and not games

I'm 37 years old, living in the Durham region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 27 and 99.

Interests: Parties, Threesomes, BDSM

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Raven_919, 38

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Couple looking for a girlfriend!

Couple looking for a girlfriend to have fun with! We like to go out and have a good time!

Interests: Oral Sex, Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Couples

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SophisticatedSen777e, 28

Durham, North Carolina, USA

"Exploring the world through my lens" . "Sharing smiles and adventures" . "Capturing moments that matter" . "Embracing the beauty of every

Playing it and living it, is all part of the lifestyle and I enjoy it

Interests: Toys, Massage, Dom, Hookups, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever

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Taja, 50

Durham, North Carolina, USA

We are a couple seeking like-minded friends to have fun and hang out

I am a 49 year old bisexual female he is a straight 42-year-old male we love having fun going out swinging and looking for couples or single females to join us in our fun n rendezvous.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Video Chat, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Inocenttypecurious, 51

Durham, North Carolina, USA

First timer being curious and open to see where it goes.

Tall, hardworking, family oriented and love to enjoy fine food and wine.

Interests: Watching, Massage, Roleplay, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Outdoor Fun, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Open to Whatever

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GlamorousCompanion46c3e7, 40

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I have a boy who is  6 years old who lives at home, is easy going, has a huge heart for music, and has his own playlist I listen to.

I'm basically a very positive person who also loves humor and laughter and would like someone with an adventurous spirit and a positive attitude who can see the funny side of life, someone who is open and willing to learn new things.

Interests: A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM

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Goddess Elena, 48

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Obedience Is Not Optional

I am happiest when I see growth in the one who serves me when discipline becomes instinct, when obedience becomes joy. Moments of genuine connection matter to me: a look held too long, a hand resting in mine after a scene, the quiet satisfaction in your eyes when you’ve pleased me. Romantic affairs are not separate from my dominance; they are part of it. A candlelit dinner after a demanding session. The warmth of your head resting on my lap while I read. Walking together with the knowledge of who leads and who follows. For me, power exchange is not just an activity; it’s a way of living, loving, and building a bond that is both intense and unbreakable.

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Pegging, Findom

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AlluringSensual, 41

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Seeking a Loyal Sub for a Meaningful Connection

Hi, I’m 40, confident, and experienced in the BDSM lifestyle. I’m looking for a compatible sub who values trust, communication, and connection as much as play. I enjoy guiding, mentoring, and exploring dynamics, while also respecting boundaries and building emotional intimacy. Outside of BDSM, I’m fun, adventurous, and enjoy good conversation, laughter, and creating meaningful memories. If you’re loyal, open minded, and ready for a dynamic that’s both passionate and respectful, let’s connect and see where it goes.

Interests: Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM

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SassyCyclisteee, 36

Durham, North Carolina, USA

My throat is ready to be dominated!

Getting dominated, I want to be your little slut! I like getting throat fucked, smacked, choked and spit on. Make me gag on your cock until I poke.

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Electro-Play

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Dazzling Helen, 48

Durham, North Carolina, USA

I’m a creamy and naughty dominant woman In search of a sincere and open-minded submissive who is ready to explore the profound principles and genuine connection that define this unique lifestyle.

I'm open to exploring different dynamics and dedicated to providing guidance with care and discipline. I prioritize understanding and fulfilling the desires of potential partners, ensuring their comfort and satisfaction.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Oral, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Gel, 36

Durham, North Carolina, USA

Me and my boyfriend are looking for someone to have a good time with.

Im a nature loving free spirit. I love to surround myself with good people and energy

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Sub, Outdoor Fun, FMF

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