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Violet summer , 30

Astoria, New York, USA

I'm available and tell me what you feel; let's have fun.

Always love to have fun and meet up with new people and explore new things together

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Homertheresa, 40

Astoria, New York, USA

I’m a confident switch with a natural Dom/sub side, and I enjoy exploring both sides of the dynamic with the right person. For me, BDSM is about trust, communication, chemistry, and the freedom to explore what makes us both feel alive.

I can take the lead when the moment calls for it, but I also appreciate being able to let go, surrender control, and enjoy the other side of the dynamic. I’m looking for someone who is open-minded, communicative, and interested in building genuine chemistry—not just jumping straight into play. I value mutual respect, consent, honesty, and a good sense of humor. Whether you’re looking for a Dom, a sub, or someone who can appreciate both sides, I’m interested in seeing where the connection takes us.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Medical Play, Switch, Breast Play, Wax Play, Pegging

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user_, 23

Astoria, New York, USA

I’m the type of guy who can make you laugh one minute and have you blushing the next.

Meeting people with great energy and adventurous personalities. New experiences and genuine connections.

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay

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Shyguywith, 30

Astoria, New York, USA

Looking for something steamy and passionate.

I love a turned on women with her lips dripping to sit right on my face and let me eat till you pull away.

Interests: Masturbation, Groups, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Body Hair, Bondage, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Gilf, Nudism

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Lucy, 40

Astoria, New York, USA

I’m a pleasure Dom interested in meeting a submissive to train. Send me two to three messages at a time so I can be able to reply as I’m just a classic member here.

Would like a LTR or have playtime weekly I’m here for men who will fully submit to me.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Cuckold, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Dom, CBT, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, Pegging

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Singleseeking423, 35

Astoria, New York, USA

Seeking fun and mature dating here

I’m single seeking for my fun partner on here and see how it goes

Interests: Bukkake, Roleplay, Sub, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves

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stu26Edgewater, 62

Astoria, New York, USA

I need to worship, obey, and serve Master

I need to worship, obey, and serve Master I'm a true slave

Interests: A Relationship, Top, Bears, Gay

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cwswngs, 55

Astoria, New York, USA

Bi dad looking to connect with mature couples

Tall, hairy chest, and a vibrant mind looking to play with mature couples

Interests: Anal Sex, Toys, Massage, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Hookups, Group Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples

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Heretostay , 41

Astoria, New York, USA

Here to experience some good time

Just not a shy type do I am sure I can handle anything

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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LollyJ , 39

Astoria, New York, USA

Looking for a very honest serious minded man who truly knows what he want and not here for head games

I am a very simple and easy to get along with I like to be always honest and I want the same thing in return

Interests: Massage, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Couples, Mature, Dirty Talk

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PNPguy469, 48

Astoria, New York, USA

Good times with good people XXX

Party and play guy out for adventure with good people!!

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Leather / Latex, Nylons, Oral, Naughty Games

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Bambam, 28

Astoria, New York, USA

Young bold and ready

Me and my partner looking for good times we like baddies so if your not one and don’t like to turn up this ain’t the account for you

Interests: Masturbation, Threesomes, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Lingerie, Mature, Curves, Dirty Talk, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Nudism

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Olivia, 30

Astoria, New York, USA

Open to exploring desires

Keen for love, keen for discrete, keen for exploring and open minded for anything that wants dom.

Interests: Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Pony Play

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Kaiiii, 26

Astoria, New York, USA

Yo how are yo doing you tryna get horny

I love nude ass and tits and I love lightskin girls

Interests: Parties, Threesomes, Roleplay, Dom, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction

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Busty & Braless, 36

Astoria, New York, USA

I'm 36 years old, living in the Astoria region.

I'm 36 years old, living in the Astoria region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 22 and 75.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Foot Fetish, suspenders

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Specaillisa, 26

Astoria, New York, USA

Feel free to open your feelings and see what mood I'll add to it

When you're honest and open minded I can makes you feel more comfortable!!!

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral, Naughty Games, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Mitts212, 47

Astoria, New York, USA

Shall we tie you up to be sexually seduced and pleased?

I’m a type of person that likes to please my partner that pleases me as we get to know each other we will uncover and reveal our wants needs and desires

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Breast Play, Chasity, Wax Play, gags

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AmorousCyclistfjbdfe, 27

Astoria, New York, USA

I am looking for fun hookups where I will worship every inch of you

I love bigger girls, and making them feel worshipped

Interests: Threesomes, Roleplay, Belly Dancing, BDSM, Lingerie, Bondage, Feet

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EagerDaydreamer, 37

Astoria, New York, USA

I’m an anime, gamer, nerdish female. Look forward to speaking and similar interest.

I enjoy reading, playing video games and anime. In my spare time I find joy in painting and illustration.

Interests: Toys, Bicurious, Threesomes, Spanking / Whipping, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Short-term Fun, Anal, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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morrislevine, 48

Astoria, New York, USA

Hi, I'm Morris and I'm looking for a dominant woman.

I'm from Astoria NY and I'm a submissive man. I love to cuddle.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun

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