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shank, 68

Toms River, New Jersey, USA

I am a mature guy looking to serve a woman in whatever way she wishes. I am looking for a relationship that can have meaning.

Widowed in 2024 and seeking new adventures. Looking for someone who can take the lead and teach me about the lifestyle.

Interests: Dominatrix, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Foot Fetish, Collaring, Feet, Open to Whatever, Local Only, Ready Now

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BubnJinx, 63

Blairstown, New Jersey, USA

We are a retired senior bisexual couple looking for friends with benefits.

I am 70, 5'10", 195 pounds a thick 8" cock. She is a silver haired BBW of 63. 46F tits and a wide ass. We love sex of all sorts from mild to wild.

Interests: Bisexual, Spanking / Whipping, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Pegging, Swinging, Anal, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Open to Whatever

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Samjoy57, 31

North Bergen, New Jersey, USA

I’m looking for someone who’s honest and trustworthy to be with.

I’m a gentle going lady and love making friends and more.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Breast Play, Chasity, Pegging

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Latexbeth, 61

Jackson, New Jersey, USA

Seeking a genuine connection

I'm 58 years old, living in the Jackson area. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 39 and 60.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Dungeon Parties, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Chasity, gags, suspenders, Open to Whatever

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Danielley, 43

Newark, New Jersey, USA

I’m a lady who likes to take charge in relationships.

I make your fantasy come true. Let’s explore this kink.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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ChrisandNanette, 64

West Long Branch, New Jersey, USA

Professional couple looking to spend quality time with females. Great times, food, drinks and lots of?

Professional couple looking for females to share great times with.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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Sillypup, 21

Rutherford, New Jersey, USA

I'm 21 years old, living in the Rutherford region.

Im always happy to sit and watch a movie/shows with anyone! Im always excited to talk about interests of any kind!!

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Sub, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Collaring, Pegging

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Wlfnj, 63

Highland Park, New Jersey, USA

Just trying to love out my fantasies. Like men of all races, all sizes and all positions. Love bbc! Like to to take pictures and videos of my encounters.

Servicing and please men tops, vers and bottoms . Would like to find my forever daddy. Open to poly

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fisting, Mutual Masturbation, Bicurious, Bisexual, One on one fun, Couple fun, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Bottom, Bears, Gay, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever

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AmorousSurferfeedfa, 69

Wayne, New Jersey, USA

A transgender woman who is very submissive and luvs to be tied and used

Luvs all forms of BDSM , very submissive , few limits

Interests: Oral Sex, Toys, Threesomes, Creampie, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, Online, BDSM, Crossdress, Mature, Anal, Dirty Talk, LGBTQIA+

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Littlebabykatie, 46

Newark, New Jersey, USA

I really love gardening, I love growing plants. It is a quiet activity that helps to relax. Also for this reason I love drawing. I really love to travel and expand my worldview. I also like to drive.

I am looking for a family, positive, kind, purposeful, hardworking man without bad habits, I would like to find a constant life partner with whom our destinies unite into one.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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ChrisandNanette, 64

West Long Branch, New Jersey, USA

Happily married real professional couple seeking fun

We are real and ready to mingle with girls only close to NJ.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Jadran, 51

Montvale, New Jersey, USA

Prude seeking new erotic submissive identity

No experience and no limitations for new erotic submissive life

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Collaring, Pegging

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Cassiemoan, 30

Pennsauken, New Jersey, USA

Trans 🏳️‍⚧️ girl - yes i have one - have you checked

Love to mingle with new people. I'm 30 years old, living in the Pennsauken region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 28 and 55.

Interests: Roleplay, Video Chat, BDSM, Lingerie, LGBTQIA+

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Inspiringvisionary, 27

Jersey City, New Jersey, USA

Experienced Switch Seeking Both Sides of Power Exchange

Experienced Switch who enjoys both sides of power exchange. As a Dominant, I’m sensual yet strict I love taking full control, setting rules, and training obedient submissive men through worship, discipline, denial, and more. On the submissive side, I can be sweetly obedient for the right Dominant when the chemistry is strong. Primarily seeking genuine, respectful submissive males ready to surrender and serve. Honest communication, consent, and trust are essential.

Interests: Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Contract, Open to Whatever, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism

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Playurownway, 56

Mays Landing, New Jersey, USA

Mature Couple Seeking Local Woman for Throuple

We are a committed, open-minded couple in our early 50s looking to meet a local single woman interested in a long-term throuple that combines romance, trust, and consensual D/s exploration. Real connection, chemistry, and emotional depth are far more important to us than casual encounters. He’s a confident, experienced Dominant—grounded, caring, and structured. She’s a playful, intelligent Switch—strong, nurturing, and flexible depending on chemistry. We’re drama-free, emotionally mature, DDF, and transparent about health status. A local single woman who is curious, emotionally self-aware, and interested in exploring both intimacy and D/s with us as a couple. Experience in kink is welcome but not required—we value honesty, communication, and chemistry above all. Local only—we want real-world connection.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun

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Kryptikpinga, 55

Elizabeth, New Jersey, USA

Seeking Long Term Hot Sex Relationship

Hi there, I'm a very affable, gregarious, approachable older gent who has very urbane eclectic tastes. I possess a very spirited and witty personality that is quite colorful and have a unique sense of humor. I'm very old fashioned and it's reflected in my interests and predilections. I enjoy old movies, old cars, antiques, books, history, bars, vintage clothing, restaurants, bistros, museums, architecture, photography, science, science fiction, current events, drama, literature and many other topics. I love learning and surf the internet a lot pursuing my many muses. If interested in learning more about me. Please Write, and please: NO TATTOOS or PIERCINGS NYC/NJ LOCALS ONLY...!!!

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Full Time, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Tell naughty stories

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Johnfunlove, 55

Absecon, New Jersey, USA

I'm a fun loving man always looking for a good time just looking to have a lot of fun

I'm 54 years old, living in the Absecon region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 44 and 56.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Threesomes, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Swinging

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DaringCompanion, 37

Delaware, New Jersey, USA

I’m a very dominant woman seeking adventure

I need a submissive partner who fully understands and accepts that I will take control physically, mentally, and emotionally. I may choose to restrain you, challenge your boundaries, and use you in ways that bring me pleasure. If you crave true submission, then step forward, ready and willing.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Group Meets, A Relationship, BDSM, Couples

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AuthenticListener49a0b5, 51

Cherry Hill, New Jersey, USA

I am a loving and obedient submissive woman who is looking for a serious and long lasting D/s relationship

I'm a gentle and obedient submissive woman who is sensual, respectful, sensitive and passionately romantic with a great sense of humor and you will find that i am very resolute and spanking and bondage turns me on so bad. I am looking for a serious and long lasting D/s relationship.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Sub, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Collaring

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CDJenni, 52

Freehold, New Jersey, USA

CD Bottom seeks tops only. I am looking for SEX SEX and more SEX. I love wearing sexy lingerie, being submissive and satisfying my man. Looking for that man to plant his seeds deep in me and making me feel like a woman. DD free and HIV neg.

I love dressing up in sexy lingerie and pleasing my man. I get excited when a man tosses me in bed, climbs on top of me, pins me down, takes control and have his way with me. What gets me happy is when I get a man to grunt and the feeling his hot load exploding deep inside me. I am not into cybersex, endless messaging or text. I want to physically hookup for some serious sex.

Interests: Lace, Satin, Pantyhose, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Lingerie, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Anal

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