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BDSM loving members looking for connections in New Jersey

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Elena , 26

Phillipsburg, New Jersey, USA

I'm a transgender woman seeking a sub to train and own in the bdsm

I'm dedicated to this and would only be interested in serious minded people

Interests: Roleplay, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Intersex, LGBTQIA+

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Aj&Laur, 35

Browns Mills, New Jersey, USA

Fun and freaky couple looking for a equally as fun and freaky girl to bring into the bedroom

4/20-friendly couple who love to laugh, flirt & keep the vibes high. She’s the true-crime junkie with a creative streak, he’s the car + bike guy who knows how to turn up the energy. Looking for a playful unicorn who’s down for good chemistry, deep laughs & a little spark ✨

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Anal, Dirty Talk, Edging, Leather / Latex, Naughty Games

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Marythomas8550, 35

Penns Grove, New Jersey, USA

Sweet and calm ☺️ very friendly

Any form of music makes me happy 😊 if you like any outdoors activities then be my guest lol 😝

Interests: Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Curves, Feet, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Punchmybelly, 67

Atlantic City, New Jersey, USA

Seeking Mistress to bust my belly

I love to be punched hard in the belly. I even love to have it kicked, especially with thigh high boots. I love to be all doubled over in pain. I can even be tied up if you like. I also have an outfit that makes me look like a punching bag. And ladies if you want you can have your boyfriend punch my belly and you can cheer him on and laugh at me in pain!

Interests: S&M, Sub, Hookups, BDSM

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ghw9421, 67

Hopatcong, New Jersey, USA

Tall Sexy CD for play. schedule flexible

Looking for CD admirers who love to take control and turn me into their gurl

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, BDSM, Crossdress

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KindCrusader, 54

Bayville, New Jersey, USA

43 f 54 m looking for something new and interesting

I'm 54 years old, living in the Bayville region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 40 and 99.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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cdlo313, 79

Barnegat, New Jersey, USA

a submissive CD looking to please

tie me, spank me, make me and I will eventurally learn my lesson and completely submit... I understand the consiquences if I dont perform

Interests: Toys, Massage, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, First Time Encounter, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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AffectionateCyclist4349fa, 54

Piscataway, New Jersey, USA

I would like to go on a road trip this Summer.

Lovely sexy beautiful woman who likes to meet new people around me for fun.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Pegging, Dirty Talk

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Gabriel, 60

Ramsey, New Jersey, USA

Naturally submissive seeking Domme.

Thoughtful, grounded, and self-aware seeking a confident, emotionally intelligent Domme for a consensual power exchange. I’m drawn to women who lead with clarity, boundaries, and presence—strength that doesn’t need to shout. I value communication, trust, and mutual respect above all. Submission, to me, is intentional: listening closely, following through, and offering consistency. I’m attentive, reliable, and genuinely enjoy structure, guidance, and earning approval through actions, not words. Outside of kink, I’m curious, well-read, spontaneous, sarcastic and balanced—capable in my own life and choosing to kneel because I want to, not because I need to. Looking for a connection that develops at a natural pace, with clear consent, ongoing check-ins, and room to grow together. If you value depth, respect, and purposeful dominance, I’d enjoy starting a conversation.

Interests: A Relationship, BDSM, Switch

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jayacee , 27

Newark, New Jersey, USA

My expertise is incomparable; I will take you into My world and allow you to experience Domination in its purest from, you will feel exhilarated and renewed when I am done with you.

Whether you seek a sensual Fetish Session or an intense Domination experience, you will find Me extremely versatile and open-minded.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Swinging

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BeautifulCaregiver37f8ff, 62

Pennsville, New Jersey, USA

I like to go on long road trips

I like to meet new people around me for fun and to explore more.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Roleplay, Sub, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Dirty Talk

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JustABrat&HerPolishPapi, 37

Hackettstown, New Jersey, USA

Fun, vibrant couple always down for a great time!

Just a Sexy Polish Papi and Gorgeous Brat looking to sprinkle in a little spice!! We’re outgoing, fun and vibrant! We enjoy having fun, bar hopping, enjoying good company, and of course play time! ..just to name a few! The play is electrifying, tantalizing!! Daddy is always in control and knows just how to take care of his favorite little slut!! Love causing trouble and getting punished 🩷 If the vibe is right, let’s do the damn thing.. maybe it could be something on going from time to time? Or just a one time thing!

Interests: Toys, Watching, Threesomes, S&M, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Oral, Gilf

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hapytelt, 41

Freehold, New Jersey, USA

I’m someone who believes in genuine connections, warm hearts, and lasting love.

I like skiing and yachting. Our family has its own yacht. Therefore, I will gladly take you for a ride on the waves of the Southern Bug.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Lace, Dom, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Oral, Petite, Open to Whatever, Dilf

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Tony, 63

Lodi, New Jersey, USA

Hello everyone I am Tony Looking to meet new people

I looking for new people to meet And have a good time with Hit me up

Interests: Fisting, Spanking / Whipping, S&M, Dom, Sub

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Pandora Anne, 66

Linden, New Jersey, USA

I am the shy type. easily coerced into being trapped into a scenario to which I would become inescapable

I like being around people that are friendly and want to have good times. And remines about their past and speak about their plans for the future. Health is a priority of course. And well being too.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Online, Erotic Fiction, Beginner, Chasity, Collaring, gags, suspenders

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iwontforget, 44

Voorhees, New Jersey, USA

Dominant couple looking for a fun submissive sub.

Hi we're looking for a fun eager submissive girl to take on dates and have fun with back home. We frequent bars, clubs, and underground raves in Philly, or music festivals in South Jersey. Or we can stay in, have a movie night in the Jackuzzi, and adventures in the bedroom. She loves horror movies, anything spooky, animals, painting, sculpting, gardening, cooking, learning leather craft. Loves being on both sides of bondage. Submissive to him and dominant to other girls that she loves using her double sided vibrating strap on with. He's a Musician, Maker, Engineer. Very dominant with unlimited stamina.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Dirty Talk, Edging, Oral, Petite, Open to Whatever

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MajesticPhilanthd459, 35

Jersey City, New Jersey, USA

I’m here for friend with benefits

I’m a good and understanding woman I love to be alone

Interests: Masturbation, Lace, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Crossdress, Pegging, Age Gap, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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Brenda , 28

Northfield, New Jersey, USA

I'm new here and looking for new friends to have fun with

I'm open to anything I'm honest And love making new friends

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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Easygoing humor , 60

Lake Hopatcong, New Jersey, USA

Easygoing honest have sense of humor gentleman

To be clear we can take our time to get to know each other

Interests: Massage, Lace, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, MILF, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, Mature, Age Gap, Curves, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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DelightfulKnight375, 47

Metuchen, New Jersey, USA

No strings attached good hot fun

Looking for no strings, attached drama, free fun. In an open relationship and both parties are aware. My girlfriend has encouraged me to join the site. She would love to watch, but it’s also down with me meeting up on my own.

Interests: Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Dirty Talk, Edging, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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