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Members looking for connections near Honolulu

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Transash, 35

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

A confident trans woman embracing life with grace, honesty, and a big heart. I love deep conversations, laughter, and meaningful connections — and yes, I’m here for fun too. Life is better when you enjoy it.

I’m Ashley, I’m a trans woman, looking for whatever comes my way, fun, creating memories and enjoying moments

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, LGBTQIA+, Oral

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Angxell, 23

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

We’re both open and down for anything

I like to go with the flow. Me and my partner are down for anything.

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Dom, Sub, Outdoor Fun, Couples

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LydiaW, 25

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I’m here to find my better half

25 years young, currently living in beautiful Hawaii while navigating a sudden life transition. After losing both my parents, I’ve found myself managing the family estate and a legacy I wasn’t quite ready for. It’s a lot of weight on my shoulders, and I’m honestly just looking for a 'real' man, someone grounded, hardworking, and honest who isn't intimidated by a woman with her own. I value loyalty and deep conversation over the fast life. If you’re a gentleman who knows how to lead and can be a safe harbor in a storm, I’d love to get to know your heart.

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, A Relationship, Erotic Fiction, Dirty Talk

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Carla , 67

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm 65 years old, living in the Anchorage region.

I'm 65 years old, living in the Anchorage region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 75.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, Pegging

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Gangbang queen, 33

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm a Dom looking for a loyal and submissive bottom ready to explore with me. Newbies and experienced subs are welcomed ❤️❤️

I'm a dominant mistress looking forward to meeting a lovely sub

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Judith, 28

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Looking to meet serious-minded people only

Boredom is real Doing it all by yourself makes you tired Why not try with me

Interests: Toys, Massage, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Naughty Games, Local Only, Ready Now

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NubieCpl808, 46

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Newbie couple looking for a F or Cpl for first time discreet fun.

Looking for adventurous F who's willing to lead or agreeable cpl to show us the ropes. Let's trade pics, vids, get to know each other & maybe cum together...

Interests: Toys, Watching, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Video themselves

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thegimp, 35

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Discreet role-playing in Hawaii

Symbiotic crave and desire. Pure lustful exchange. No emotional attachment preferred

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Collaring

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FunGuy4Me, 43

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Fun guy waits with kiny taboo too much for yiu?

The shock of the real life desire that so many hide and miss the incredible feeling.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Exhibitionism, Video Chat, Dirty Talk, Open to Whatever, Ready Now

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808Dom, 35

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Looking to explore new experiences

I’m a respectful, clean, snipped 😉, open minded, easy going person ready to explore new things

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Switch, gags

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Princess , 25

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Playing it and living it is part of the lifestyle

Your local ray of sunshine ☀️. Are you fun enough to be my new distraction? Let's find out." · "Professional over-thinker and under-dresser. Are you good at giving compliments? Your application is pending." ✨

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Full Time, Transfan, Dairy Queen, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Oral

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DeeSexy, 39

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'd really like to see where this goes

I am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with. I am not an angry person, and I am not interested in someone that is. Having past events shape your life is one thing, carrying the past as a burden that sits heavily upon your shoulders is not the way I view life. I am happy with myself, and my life, and I like to think it shows. I would do the best with someone that isn't extremely uptight, unless of course you are willing to learn to let things go!

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Caro661, 69

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

What I'm looking depends on whom I'm with. Intelligent conversation is more important than looks. From conversation to hooking up & things in between. I'm not cd nor transman!

A good conversation would be enjoyable. I've had an interesting life from the Navy to gay, to traditional marriage in the 80's, to BDSM, to trans. Now I'm feeling lonely & isolated so please give me a jingle.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction

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Aliana Brooks, 39

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I’m looking for a man who will love me for who I am , respect me and give me some good sex

I’m a kind and respectful girl looking for a man who will show me kindness. I’m very playful

Interests: Anal Sex, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Couples, Short-term Fun

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Oralrobert169, 54

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Sub ur Dom? I 🤞🏽2 👀U over there…

Just remember. In my book, you a “F’ing” awesome! Don’t ever change…

Interests: Toys, Groups, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Tickle Play

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StrongOutdoorsmanehiee, 26

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

* “I crave the kind of control that leaves me breathless and wanting more.” * “Discipline, trust, and temptation — that’s the combination that drives me wild.” * “I love the tension between surrender and desire.”

A firm voice, steady hands, and deep chemistry can be dangerously addictive.” * “I’m drawn to passion with boundaries, intensity with trust, and connection with power.” * “Tease my mind first, and the rest will follow.” * “There’s something irresistible about confidence, control, and mutual obsession.” * “I enjoy the thrill of giving in to someone who knows exactly what they want.”

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Breast Play, Chasity, Contract, Electro-Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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DelightfulCharmer25, 30

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

FUN TO BE WITH

I'm 29 years old, living in the Honolulu region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 29 and 85.

Interests: Adult Chat, Watching, Massage, Bukkake, Roleplay, Car Park Sex, Exhibitionism, Voyeuristic photography, Voyeuristic film making, Foreplay, Full Penetration, Outdoor Hotspots, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Cruising, Anal, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral

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Lisaveryveryshy, 45

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Good energy only. Let’s explore

I appreciate simple pleasures a great playlist, a well-made meal, a beautiful view, or those small, unexpected moments that make a day feel special. I enjoy creating things with my hands, keeping life balanced, and bringing a sense of ease and humor into work and everyday life. And yes-warm hugs are absolutely underrated and highly valued

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Sub, A Relationship, BDSM, Crossdress, Mature, Age Gap, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk

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Kemp&vida, 51

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Very fun open couple looking for man with her or female with both

We are so excited to finally include someone else into the fold

Interests: Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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ImaginativeStory8900, 48

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm Michael Let's match up energies and have great fun🥂

I'm here for someone I can truly appreciate and love and can also share the same energy to me

Interests: Massage, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Mature, Curves, Feet, Impact Play, Tickle Play

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