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CheerfulHero, 41

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Kink-aware and Dominant-leanin g. I enjoy slow-building dynamics grounded in trust, consent, and emotional intelligence. Communication is essential

I value discipline, boundaries, and trust. I’m interested in meaningful, well-defined dynamics

Interests: Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Medical Play, Switch, Contract, suspenders

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InsightfulTgirl, 29

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm 29 years old, living in the Honolulu region.

I'm 29 years old, living in the Honolulu region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 79.

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Clubs, Parties, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Open to Whatever

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User, 47

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Looking for a female to have a threesome with us.

We enjoy role-playing, costumes, toys, massages, etc.

Interests: Threesomes, Roleplay

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warmhandz, 70

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Playful , likes roleplay and watching

Watching undress,strip tease, watching self stimulation

Interests: Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, TS-Friendly, Send naked pics, Video themselves, Oral

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Princess , 26

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Playing it and living it is part of the lifestyle

Your local ray of sunshine ☀️. Are you fun enough to be my new distraction? Let's find out." · "Professional over-thinker and under-dresser. Are you good at giving compliments? Your application is pending." ✨

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Full Time, Transfan, Dairy Queen, TS-Friendly, Crossdress, Trans, Pegging, Anal, Oral

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CaringFlirt, 51

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm a gentle teacher and patient mommy

Sadistic Heel mommy Kinky Chastity Spanking Dungeon

Interests: Toys, Dom, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Electro-Play, suspenders

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Notanothing, 67

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Seeking connection and genuine adventurous partners.

An athletic guy looking for Dom men who like to keep me for their own studly purposes. Not looking for any type, just be ready to explore and connect in dirty discrete ways. Simple living and liberal. I'm 68 years old, living in Honolulu. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 65 and 90.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, CBT, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Switch, Electro-Play, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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NubieCpl808, 46

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Newbie couple looking for a F or Cpl for first time discreet fun.

Looking for adventurous F who's willing to lead or agreeable cpl to show us the ropes. Let's trade pics, vids, get to know each other & maybe cum together...

Interests: Toys, Watching, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Online, Friendship, Couples, Dirty talk to me, Send naked pics, Video themselves

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BoldExplorerhfgjcc, 26

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Here to have fun and explore some naughty fantasy

Friendly and loving wiling to teach a new sub some fantasies

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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HungHaYn69d, 36

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Kinky man seeking adventurous woman or couple ready for fun

All fantasy and fetishes are welcomed and i aim to please.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Ready Now, Polyamory

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PassionateSculptor46de24, 34

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Hi let's play with each other until we get tired

I like to cum and make you cum in the process if your good.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Switch

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DeeSexy, 39

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'd really like to see where this goes

I am sweet, thoughtful, kind, intelligent, and have a great sense of humor. I am very easy going and laid back. I am often told that I am very easy to talk with. I am not an angry person, and I am not interested in someone that is. Having past events shape your life is one thing, carrying the past as a burden that sits heavily upon your shoulders is not the way I view life. I am happy with myself, and my life, and I like to think it shows. I would do the best with someone that isn't extremely uptight, unless of course you are willing to learn to let things go!

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Charlotte , 32

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Trans woman looking to meet genuine, open-minded people for fun, good conversation, and real chemistry.

I’m confident, easygoing, and enjoy good vibes, laughter, and making meaningful connections. Respect, honesty, and discretion are important to me. If you’re kind, respectful, and know what you want, let’s chat and see where things go.

Interests: Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Full Time

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amatuerfun, 20

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Just a young couple looking to have fun!

We swing both ways and would be willing to try just about anything. We love sex and everything that has to do with it! 😩

Interests: Full Swap, Threesomes, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM

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Carla , 67

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

I'm 65 years old, living in the Anchorage region.

I'm 65 years old, living in the Anchorage region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 40 and 75.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Chasity, Collaring, Pegging

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FlirtyOutdoorsmanijaacd, 25

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Hi everyone looking to meet friends

Im available for good time daddys let have some fun

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Sub, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Anal

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Jett, 55

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Looking for a playmate……wanna play .?

I’m a risk taker and I’d love to take you there …..

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Nylons, Oral, Petite

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Kemp&vida, 52

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

Very fun open couple looking for man with her or female with both

We are so excited to finally include someone else into the fold

Interests: Soft Swap, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Fetish & Kink, Friends With Benefits, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Leahi, 76

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

75 years old CD living in Honolulu, Hawaii.

I'm interested in meeting an elderly woman (over 50 years old), a crossdresser, a lesbian, or a transgender person,(mtf or ftm). When dressed enfemme, I feel happy and alive as a transexual, lesbian woman. Female gender by choice and a natural sexual and romantic attraction only for women. Just want to have fun with the girls when dressed enfemme. Must be local in Honolulu or a visiting tourist. Am happily married and my wife is aware. Aloha ❤️.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Pantyhose, Discreet Meets, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, Lingerie, Part Time, en Femme, Crossdress, Trans, Transgender, Transexual, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic

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Mistress Alexis, 55

Honolulu, Hawaii, USA

My approach is firm but thoughtful.

I am a confident, composed and naturally commanding Mistress who believes that a genuine D/s connection is built on trust, respect, communication and clear boundaries. I value discretion, honesty and mutual understanding, and I expect the same in return.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever

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