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Blackfeatherdomdoll, 36

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

dominant mistress for submissive kinky men

Im a strict dominant mistress, like all outdoor games and love to go bowling, will peg,tie,spank,lock you in chastity as I use the strapon on you as I love to give and receive orals, newbie are welcome.

Interests: Toys, Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Edging, Feet, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever

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EtherealFighter257ed, 25

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Hi. Looking for women open to cucking their man with me.

I love older women, huge tits, and those who eagerly follow orders.

Interests: Cuckold, Roleplay, Dom, Erotic Fiction, Chasity

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DarksideDuo69, 36

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

MF seeking F to hang out with and to have some fun and see where it goes. Looking for someone open minded, honest and understanding

Still figuring it out, becoming more comfortable with our sexual relationship and want to stay open to the possibilities, and enjoy it.

Interests: Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction

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ja, 56

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Sensual and adventurous couple seeking new experiences

Adventurous couple looking to share life's sexual pleasures with other females or couples. We love genuine people that can feel comfortable around us and just be themselves.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Short-term Fun

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Summer1977, 48

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking to experiment Just looking for some fun

I'm a very sweet shy girl Who enjoys the beach Laughter is a must

Interests: Oral Sex, Watching, Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Sub

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MosaicMind, 48

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Sensual man, looking for new intimate connections, hookups, nsa and fwb.

I'm 46 years old, living in the New Haven region. I'm interested in meeting a woman aged between 25 and 73. I'm Black / African with an Athletic body shape and Black hair. I live for booze, I don't smoke. I will travel for hookups.

Interests: Fetish & Kink, Smothering, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction, BBW Lover

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HeartxoJennaxo, 33

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Mistress seeking submissive man

Mistress active 24/7 to collar you for life time ..

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Dominatrix, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Beginner, Pony Play, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, suspenders, Pegging, Findom, Feet, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates, Open to long-distance relationships

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Looking4aunicorn, 41

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Great energy I love to enjoy life. I belong to a sir.

Couple looking mostly for me. Fun, safe, clean and great vibes. All unicorns welcome.

Interests: Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Parties, Threesomes, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships, Couple seeking

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Maxidasub, 31

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking for a facesitting mistress

Facesitting, queening, smothering, breathplay, looking for an experience

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Sub, BDSM

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Daisytime, 56

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Couple looking for adult fun and new experiences.

I'm 55 years old, living in the Boston region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman aged between 40 and 62. I like making people happy and learning new things. Open minded and willing to try just about anything.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Hookups, BDSM, Couples, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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SparklingJennaxoxo, 54

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Mistress is waiting to explore your naughtiness 🥰💐💕

Blond sexy kinky pinky mistress juicy Kitty with a heart of Gold

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, suspenders

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Trevor, 30

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Fun is my second name

Chilled, fun and adventurous guy looking to meet a woman aged between 20 and 40.

Interests: Watching, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Friendship, New Friends / Platonic, Nudism

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Lambchop , 72

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I am a married 72 year old I want to serve and please I do prefer a shemale to serve but not necessarily

I prefer to be peged I will be completely under your control

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Contract, Pegging

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Godessgina, 27

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

What I expect from a sub: Total submission. Submissives, who are open minded obedient and have the passion to learn, explore, and engage in total power exchange, and also willing to let go of control for the greater good of the dynamic.

What I'm Looking For** BDSM D/s relationship dynamics, long term ownership, mentorship, and casual play.

Interests: Toys, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, gags, Pegging

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Miss Tiffany , 37

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Control That Feels Like Care, Pleasure That Feels Like Home

I’m a natural Dom who enjoys power with precision and passion. I value honesty, chemistry, and trust above all. I enjoy exploring your mind just as much as your body — teasing, guiding, and taking you to places you never knew existed. My dominance is firm, yet my care runs deep. I’ll push your limits, but I’ll always be your safe place.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Dom, Dungeon Parties, Trampling, Breast Play, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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CharismaticIntel, 28

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Out here again, looking for a prospective sub!

I’m a dominant guy, can be wild or mild depends on how much you can handle. I’m experienced in dressing you up to my liking before using you for my pleasure 😇 come find out.

Interests: Sissy, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Anal

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XmasochristX, 38

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

A fun wild soul looking for his trans goddess to worship

What makes me happy is making art writing stories and playing my guitar

Interests: Toys, Watching, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, M2F, Pegging, Oral

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CreativeCindysta16d33b, 48

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking for a Spark That Could Become a Fire 🔥

I love good energy, meaningful conversations, and a little playful flirting. Life is too short for boring connections, so I’m here to meet someone who can make me smile, challenge my mind, and keep things exciting. Whether it turns into a great friendship, an unforgettable adventure, or something deeper, I’m open to seeing where the journey leads.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Sub, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Mature, Short-term Fun, Age Gap, Anal, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral, Open to Whatever

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KindNeverCowardly, 28

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

M Looking to Get More Experience in the scene after recommendation with online partners.

I love helping women explore the things they normally don't get to do. I believe domination is about trust and respect.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Video Chat, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Beginner, gags, Feet, New Friends / Platonic

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Kellyy , 30

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I'm love and I can love and make you feel good

Loving and fun.. ready to treat you right .. I love and want to be loved

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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