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Kellyy , 31

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I'm love and I can love and make you feel good

Loving and fun.. ready to treat you right .. I love and want to be loved

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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ja, 56

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Seeking discrete fun with a touch of excitement.

We are a married couple looking for like-minded women or couples to share some thrilling experiences. With a strong focus on safety and discretion, we're interested in short-term fun and casual connections. If you're interested in exploring chemistry and enjoying each other's company, let’s connect and see where the night takes us.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Short-term Fun

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BlueEyedItalian, 45

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking for someone that wants to hook up/hangout or someone who wants dating

I love travel, shopping, sports, movies, music, cooking, also eating good food and pu$$y!

Interests: Anal Sex, Parties, Fetish & Kink, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Open to Whatever

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CurvyTransFemale, 51

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Open-minded curvy Trans Milf looking to explore things

I'm 51 years old, living in the New Haven region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 50. I'm White / Caucasian with a Big & Beautiful body shape. I drink socially I don't smoke. Say hi ❤️

Interests: Roleplay, Switch, Open to Whatever, New Friends / Platonic

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Eftainlisa, 45

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Me and my wife are looking for fun with another woman

Sexy mature women who are down to try anything and have fun.

Interests: Threesomes, Dom, Hookups, Video Chat, Body Hair, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Oral

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GlamorousOptimistiadbdb, 28

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Hello everyone! I’m a proud transgender woman and mistress who’s new here and excited to explore, connect, and meet like-minded people. I enjoy meaningful conversations, building genuine connections, and discovering new experiences.

Hello everyone! I’m a proud transgender woman and mistress who’s new here and excited to explore, connect, and meet like-minded people. I enjoy meaningful conversations, building genuine connections, and discovering new experiences.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Crossdress, Feet, Open to Whatever

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Mr. E Mann, 53

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking for Connection

I'm 52 years old, living in the New Haven region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 18 and 61. I am slowly figuring out how this site works so please be patient with me.

Interests: Toys, Watching, Massage, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Impact Play, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Local Only, New Friends / Platonic

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LURAH, 31

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I’m an interested person and I enjoy good conversations.

Discretion is very important and I’ll tell you my reasons directly.

Interests: Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Switch, Chasity, Pegging

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PassionateLadyvee0182, 41

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Where Love Is Kind, Loyalty Is Natural, and Two Hearts Feel at Home ❤️

I’m passionate about my work in interior decoration, where I get to use my creativity and attention to detail to create beautiful spaces for companies, organizations, and offices. I’m independent and ambitious, but I also appreciate having someone special to share life, laughter, dreams, and meaningful moments with.

Interests: Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Roleplay, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Naughty Games, Local Only, Available This Weekend, Ready Now, Open to Double Dates

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DarksideDuo69, 37

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

MF seeking F to hang out with and to have some fun and see where it goes. Looking for someone open minded, honest and understanding

Still figuring it out, becoming more comfortable with our sexual relationship and want to stay open to the possibilities, and enjoy it.

Interests: Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction

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PrettieTS, 32

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I am a commanding trans goddess who knows her power.

I’m a dominant trans goddess by nature—confident, intentional, and unapologetically in control. I value discipline, respect, clear boundaries, and meaningful connection. If you understand this dynamic and know how to honor it, perhaps we can explore where it leads.

Interests: Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, BDSM, Pegging

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Cocky o, 39

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Ready 4 sum fun and ready to have a good time

Just in here to see what happens and to meet good people

Interests: Groups, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, Lingerie, Short-term Fun, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Feet, Oral, Naughty Games, Open to Whatever, Nudism

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Gentle bella, 28

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Hi! I’m a transgender woman who’s kind, open minded, and excited to meet people.

Hi! I’m a transgender woman who’s kind, open minded, and excited to meet people. I enjoy good conversations, making meaningful connections, and getting to know people who are respectful and honest. Feel free to say hello I’d love to get to know you.

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Switch

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BrilliantGentleman, 46

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Here to find some fun that would last for a long term

Life is too short to spend those lonely nights alone..I wear my heart in a sleeve would like to find a real guy who has a caring for a long term fun / relationship I’m just open to all possibilities.

Interests: Masturbation, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Sub, BBW / BHM, MILF, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Short-term Fun, Pegging, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Petite, Naughty Games, Nudism

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curious123, 27

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

Looking for fun with trans or femboys

Curious and open for anything, very exploring with fetishes

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, M2F, TS-Friendly, Pegging

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Misshanna2, 47

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I would love to explore my fantasies

This High Priestess of Kink will provide a safe space for you to explore your wildest fantasies, and embody your deepest submission.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Chasity, gags, Pegging

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Bigtransgoddess, 32

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I’m a dominant trans goddess by nature—confiden t, intentional, and unapologeticall y in control. I value discipline, respect, clear boundaries, and meaningful connection

I’m a dominant trans goddess by nature—confident, intentional, and unapologetically in control. I value discipline, respect, clear boundaries, and meaningful connection. If you understand this dynamic and know how to honor it, perhaps we can explore where it leads.

Interests: Cuckold, BDSM, TS-Friendly, Pegging, LGBTQIA+

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Master1222RC, 69

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I am dominant. I want naughty subs who need to learn a lesson

I love to see a nice ass go from white to pink to red. I’m big and strong. Struggling will not help you

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Friends With Benefits, Erotic Fiction

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Marissa , 50

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I’m a mature trans woman who knows who she is and values honesty, respect, and genuine connection.

I have a private dungeon, play space available. I’m looking for a genuine submissive who is serious about exploring the dynamic, building trust, and following my guidance.

Interests: Toys, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, Discreet Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Dirty Talk, Feet, Temperature Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Local Only, Open to long-distance relationships, Nudism, Passion & Chemistry, Private Meets

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IntelligentQueen25bcb0, 43

New Haven, Connecticut, USA

I respect all limits but actively explore and exploit them to completely fulfil my fantasies first before yours, What are your preferred kinks and fetishes?

i have a huge collection of toys to enable the successful training of my sissy slut with total submission and making him a perfect toy.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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