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Hornysubbottom, 36

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Bottom sub looking for top hung

Hey there, married closet bi and looking to become someone's plaything. Ideally, would like to find a TV/TS for fun to start. Then if all is well, take it up a step! I'm looking for tv/ts guys, girls, couples. Desperate for first time an and o. Hope to hear from you soon X.

Interests: Anal Sex, Latex, Lace, Underwear, Pantyhose, Sissy, Petticoating Roleplay, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Drag Queen, Drag, Admirer, en Femme, Full Time, Crossdress, Couples, Trans, Transgender, Transexual

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Forson771, 43

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever

I am a very sincere and honest person,I am Caring, kind, social, smart, intelligent, passionate, friendly, romantic, and I believe in the truth and honest of love..

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Lingerie, Couples, Short-term Fun, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Open to Whatever

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whowasthatmasked337, 72

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

BiSwinger looking to get back into the scene

Missing the taste of it... I've been away too long

Interests: Toys, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Soft Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Swinging

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shafbh87, 64

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm 63 years old, living in the Basingstoke region.

I'm 62 years old, living in the Basingstoke region. I'm interested in meeting a transgender person or a woman aged between 30 and 68.I'm White / Caucasian Other hairI drink socially I don't smoke

Interests: Lace, Satin, Pantyhose, Sissy, Roleplay, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Lingerie, Crossdress, suspenders, Men dressing as women, Women dressing as men, Public dressup, Showing off, Dress me, Share clothes, Admire me

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KinkyDave, 64

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm 63 years old, living in the Basingstoke region.

I'm 63 years old, living in the Basingstoke region. I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman aged between 44 and 70. I'm White / Caucasian with a few extra pounds body shape and a distinct lack of hair. I am a crossdresser with a few kinks so, an open-minded approach to intimacy is essential.

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Sub, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Switch, Chasity, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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Elnora56, 47

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Seeking genuine connection without the fuss.

I'm a straightforward 48-year-old woman, single and ready to meet someone who appreciates life’s simple pleasures. Whether it’s a relaxed friendship or a romantic connection, I’m open to what comes next. Let's connect and see if there's chemistry without any drama.

Interests: Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, Open to Whatever, Open to long-distance relationships

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Margaret , 28

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Peace of mind all I want with good vibes and fun to be with

Peace of mind all I want with good vibes and fun to be with

Interests: Anal Sex, Social Events, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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Lady Lola, 34

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Command and surrender intertwine where power meets devotion.

The mere sight of me excites you yet fills you with fear. Picture yourself kneeling naked and collared before me, quaking in anticipation of the pain and humiliation I, your dominatrix, may inflict. Your exquisite pain will become my exquisite pleasure as I effortlessly crush your ego. Offer yourself to me and I shall actualise your submissive fantasies. Be warned: I will not tolerate any indiscipline whatsoever. I expect absolute obedience from the moment you cross my threshold. My dungeon, my rules. No excuses.

Interests: Anal Sex, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Soft Swap, Full Swap, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, Swinging, New Friends / Platonic, Open to long-distance relationships

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Colge, 61

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Let's chat and see what happens.

Being controlled by someone else gets me really excited.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Sub, Collaring, gags, Pegging

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Sweetflore, 39

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm looking for a man who makes me feel like the most special woman in the world, not only because of his treatment, but also because of the values that we both share.

I don't want to seem too self-confident, but I think, I am a woman you need. I am beautiful, intelligent, educated, sporty, open-minded and have a good sense of humor. I have a gentle character and a kind heart. I am looking for a man, husband, future father of my children, and a passionate lover. I don't pay much attention to physical beauty as it is not very important. I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. I have an intention to build a happy family and have a respectful and honest relationship. A strong relationship is like a delicate flower,

Interests: Social Events, Parties, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Open to Whatever

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Romanticfirsttimer, 53

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm fascinated and enthralled by trans ladiesBut my first love is a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it xx

I'm sporty straight(ish) and wanting to meet greet and have a relationship in this world teach me help me and show me the best of the best xxx

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Erotic Fiction, Transfan, F2M, M2F, TS-Friendly, Short-term Fun, Open to Whatever, New Friends / Platonic, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory, Open to long-distance relationships

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steve69bas, 62

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Adventurous guy looking for new experiences with femdoms or CD/TV/TS

Mainly straight guy but also like having fun with CD/TV/TS. Like femdons as well but can switch roles and play dom. Happy to experiment sexually but oral is what I do best. For CD/TV happy to meet in your male persona but if you want sex then it must be dressed up in your female persona. Doesn't have to be ultra feminine or slutty but reasonably convincing and smooth not hairy. Can give and receive oral, anal top only. For TS pre and post op happy to have dates as boyfriend.

Interests: Dominatrix, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Pegging

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IndependentPrincess, 49

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Hi, I'm new here lover of BDSM and seeking a submissive partner.

Kind, honest, and generous Woman looking for a lover with lots of old-fashioned values. I'm seeking someone who enjoys being tied and dressed up in lovely clothes. Let's explore together!

Interests: Toys, Cuckold, Roleplay, Dom, Discreet Meets, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Mature, Bondage, Oral, Local Only, Available This Weekend, Ready Now

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Susan, 35

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Elegant, intelligent, and unapologeticall y in control. I’m a woman who knows exactly what she wants—and how to get it. I appreciate confidence, discretion, and those who understand the art of anticipation.

I don’t rush, I don’t chase, and I certainly don’t entertain time-wasters. If you’re here, you’re seeking something more than ordinary… and I expect the same level of intention in return. What I Offer A refined dynamic built on trust, respect, and chemistry. I enjoy guiding, teasing, and creating an atmosphere where boundaries are understood and desires are explored with sophistication. Every interaction is tailored—your attention, effort, and attitude determine the experience. What I Expect Manners, consistency, and a willingness to follow my lead. If you appreciate a woman who values control, elegance, and a touch of mystery, you’ll find yourself exactly where you belong.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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Happy leo, 58

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Happy caring understanding love going out and dinner Dates love cooking walking very easy going

Love listening to all types of music makes me happy good funny films romantic films lovely summer day walks or even in the winter can be nice and romantic

Interests: Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Short-term Fun, Swinging, Open to Whatever, Available This Weekend, Open to Double Dates, Polyamory

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Sophialees, 27

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm 26 years old, living in the Basingstoke region.

I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 39 and 85. Fun 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈

Interests: Dom, Sub

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Shaft50, 50

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

Looking to meet fun, new naughty people in the area for some mutual NSA fun

Easy going, GOSH, enjoy an active life on and off of here..

Interests: Anal Sex, Full Swap, Threesomes, Cuckold, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Short-term Fun, Swinging

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Dave, 64

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm 63 years old, living in the Basingstoke region.

Submissive guy in Basingstoke craving a commanding Queen to mould me into her perfect, obedient sissy. Love lace, discipline & total surrender. Lead the dance—I’ll follow in frills. #FemLed #SissyInTraining #sissy

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Dungeon Parties, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Chasity, gags, Pegging, Open to Whatever

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Georgina, 33

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I believe true power lies not in cruelty, but in understanding, trust, and the art of guiding another through a carefully negotiated dynamic.

I appreciate individuals who are articulate, self-aware, and sincere about what they seek. Whether you desire structure, mentorship, discipline, or simply an escape from the demands of everyday life, I create an environment where boundaries are honored and expectations are clear.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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Wruby, 39

Basingstoke, England: Hampshire, UK

I'm brand new here and looking for a wild adventure and a lot of fun.

I am a woman who believes that real connection is built not only on attraction, but on depth, energy, and the ability to truly see each other beyond the surface. I can be soft and warm, but at the same time I have a strong inner core and a clear understanding of what I want from life. I appreciate meaningful conversations, emotional intelligence, and those rare moments when two people feel comfortable even in silence. I enjoy the beauty of simple things: a slow morning with coffee, a genuine smile, a look that says more than words. I am not here for games or endless chatting without purpose. I value honesty, consistency, and emotional presence. Life has taught me to stay feminine but not naive, open but not careless. There is passion in me, but it reveals itself only to the right person, someone who knows how to treat a woman, who respects her individuality and is ready to build something real.

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, Dom, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Mature, Short-term Fun, Anal, Dirty Talk, Electro Play, Open to Whatever

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