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Tp118, 51

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Message me - I will probably be up for it.

I’m easy going and very open to suggestions. Let me know what you want and let’s see what happens.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, BDSM, Short-term Fun, spank me, tie me up, Pegging

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Megan, 25

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Trans Dom Seeking Sub

I'm lookin for a sub to Dom and for me to use and to be my sub and to do as I say.

Interests: Toys, Fetish & Kink, Dom, BDSM

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Brisyeda, 28

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Hello I’m looking for fun trying BDSM fun things. Looking to see if we have a connection

Excited to perform my normal duties everyday of my life

Interests: Bondage & Discipline, Fetish & Kink, Dom, Dungeon Parties, BDSM

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MidnightFun, 32

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Looking for some fun with people

We like to be exciting and playful; the risk of being caught is a turn on or doing it in front of others.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Full Swap, Clubs, Parties, Threesomes, Bukkake, Fetish & Kink, Group Meets, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Couples, Swinging, Open to Whatever

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antondec69, 57

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Looking for a subslut that needs discipline

Looking for a submissive that wants and needs to be disciplined. I’m very discreet, so hotel hookups only. Happy to travel within northern England/southern Scotland. More details and pics for genuine inquiries. In stable but sexless relationship, looking for discrete Sub female for hotel BDSM sessions. I have experience of several subs, some more submissive than others, some on loan from their regular Masters, some bored housewives or business women who want and need discipline and a firm hand. I prefer to get in touch prior to our first meeting to talk over likes, dislikes, wants, expectations, and to agree ground rules and boundaries. But whoever you are, as soon as you enter and submit I demand total obedience and devotion. And if you’ve read this far and want to send me a message, then don’t just use one of the standard chat up lines from the drop down menu, use your imagination and tell me why you want to get in touch. Then I’ll reply.

Interests: Toys, Threesomes, Roleplay, S&M, Dom, BBW / BHM, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Lingerie, Mature, Bondage, Curves, Oral, Gilf

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CindyBitch666, 56

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Fairly convincing cross dresser looking for convincing cross dresser or a man/woman/coupl e.

Goth CD. I like to dress up, feel like a sexy woman and fulfil various sexual fantasies. Looking for various things: - Man: Can you be my man and me your slut? -Woman: I can be your lesbian lover, your dom, your bestie to share makeup tips and cloting, girly nights out. - CD: I can be your slut and you my man then swap roles. Would love to find a CD friend to share tips and have girly encounters. Must be convincing. - Couples: Interest in threesome with any couple (MM, MF, FF). Also enjoy BDSM. Not interested in people older than me unless you really don't look your age. Also, no ready to travel hundreds of miles.

Interests: Anal Sex, Lace, Sissy, Threesomes, BDSM, Lingerie, Crossdress, Trans, suspenders, Transgender, Transexual, Men dressing as women, Admire me

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Awegreatness, 61

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I'm a dominant mistress looking for a true submissive

I'm an active and powerful woman looking for a true sub who's ready to worship under my feet.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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Luanna, 30

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Dominance is not all about overpowering it's all about empowering

The dominant role is to guide cherish or cherish submissive hoping to a serious mind person.

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Pony Play, Breast Play, Collaring, Contract, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging

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Berry, 49

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I seek a monogamous relationship filled with positive energy.

I would say the real word is companion. I find soul-mate is a bit over the top. The whole “finding your soul-mate” thing has been so hyped up by popular culture, I doubt it really exists. But finding someone to spend my life with, yes. And of course, have fun together, that’s a given. I seek a monogamous relationship filled with positive energy toward each other, and manifest in kindness, gratitude, forgiveness, holding hands, hugging, gazing into each other's eyes, slow dancing in the kitchen (and what follows) and I’m a fun loving woman who cherishes friends and family, am always eager to explore new things, also, I cherish quiet parties, intimate moments over dinner, walking in the sand on the beach. I admire men with great humor because my sense of humor is glamorous with my very beautiful smile.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Dilf, Gilf, Nudism

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solok855, 59

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Looking for friends with benefits

No strings fun open too most things with the right partner

Interests: Toys, Massage, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Friendship, Ladyboy, Transwoman, Transman, Trans, Transexual, Intergender

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Billy , 49

Durham, England: Durham, UK

im looking for friends with benefits

looking for friends with benefits fun nothing more

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Massage, Lace, Roleplay, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Anal, Curves, Dirty Talk, Nylons, Oral, Naughty Games, Gilf

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Cloud9fairy, 27

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I'm not your regular. I'm that rare gem you fantasize of

I'm 27 years old, living in the Durham region. I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 45 and 80. I'm White / Caucasian with an Athletic body shape and Black hair. I don't drink.

Interests: Fisting, Latex, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom, Open to Whatever, New Friends / Platonic, Open to long-distance relationships

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Goddess Rosie , 44

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Mistress seeking a genuine submissive man who understands that true submission is built on trust, respect, consistency, and open communication.

I take pride in leading with confidence while expecting dedication, respect, and authenticity in return.

Interests: Roleplay, Dom, Sub, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Oral

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Comesuckme, 53

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I guess I'm just good at coming up with bad ideas and actually going for them.

I have been into the BDSM lifestyle for a long time, I am looking for a new sub, someone who is into kink and looking to take their experiences to the next level. I am open to whatever you are into and I am willing to satisfy your needs, but remember once you enter my realm I am the one who make the rules and will not take any arguments.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Groups, Watching, Massage, Lace, Cuckold, Bukkake, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, BBW / BHM, Exhibitionism, Discreet Meets, MILF, Hookups, A Relationship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Lingerie, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Anal, ASMR, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Feet, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Nylons, Oral, Petite, Naughty Games, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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Pamela, 26

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I'm A Pure Dom Seeking For a Loyal Sub

I'm A Pure Dom Looking For A Loyal And Honest Sub And I'll Be Open For Other Things

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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RrulerBearer, 32

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Confident Dom. Control is part of who I am. I don’t settle for half measures. I expect intensity, honesty, and unwavering presence

I know how to command attention without raising my voice. Leadership is my nature. With me you won’t find confusion only certainty.

Interests: Masturbation, Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Crossdress, Mature, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Anal, Bondage, Edging, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Open to Whatever

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Pamela, 26

Durham, England: Durham, UK

I'm A Pure Dom Seeking For a Loyal Sub

I'm A Pure Dom Looking For A Loyal And Honest Sub And I'll Be Open For Other Things

Interests: Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Switch, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, Wax Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Michelle, 41

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Ready to explore some naughty adventures? 😉

I'm a sassy 41-year-old with a penchant for fun and a desire for chemistry that sparks. Height doesn’t matter when it comes to passion, and I’ve got a few tattoos that tell my story. From playful roleplay to thrilling encounters, I’m here to find someone who can keep up with my adventurous spirit. If you’re looking for a partner who enjoys a bit of spice, let’s chat and see where the night takes us!

Interests: Toys, Groups, Watching, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Massage, Threesomes, Cuckold, Roleplay, Fetish & Kink, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, Video Chat, A Relationship, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, Short-term Fun, Pegging, Age Gap, Body Hair, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Feet, Oral, Naughty Games, Tickle Play, Open to Whatever, Open to long-distance relationships, Passion & Chemistry

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2025Mischief, 53

Durham, England: Durham, UK

First time flyer….see how turbulent the site is.

Very easy going and easy to chat to, looking to meet new fun people online and hopefully find a connection for a bit of mischief….

Interests: Toys, Watching, Threesomes, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Video Chat, Online, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Erotic Fiction, Couples, Short-term Fun, Bondage, Oral

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Passionate Goddess, 55

Durham, England: Durham, UK

Looking for a genuine submissive man

I am in my 40’s, from the Newcastle upon Tyne region. I'm interested in meeting a submissive man aged between 45 and 75. I have a good body at my age, no smoking. I enjoy being a Dom. Experienced.

Interests: Toys, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Cuckold, Roleplay, Sub, Discreet Meets, A Relationship, BDSM, Couples, Mature, Anal, Oral

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Welcome to BDSMloverz.com, your go-to platform for connecting with like-minded BDSM enthusiasts in Durham, UK. Whether you identify as a Dom or a sub, our community offers the perfect space to meet others who share your interests. Explore the thrill of role play and indulge in your deepest fantasies, from playful spankings to the allure of whips. Durham is rich with opportunities for adventurous souls looking to dive into the world of BDSM. Join us today and unlock a treasure trove of experiences.

Our members are eager to connect and share their passions, making Durham an exciting hub for BDSM activities. Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned player, you will find a welcoming community ready to embrace your desires. Engage in discussions, plan meet-ups, or collaborate on role play scenarios. BDSMloverz.com is dedicated to fostering a respectful and safe environment for all kinksters in Durham, UK. Your adventure starts here!

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