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Members looking for connections near Santa Monica

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Sunrise, 45

Santa Monica, California, USA

We both love women, and enjoying them together. Looking for someone to join us for FFM threesome 🦄

)’( We have 2 amazing dogs, love the outdoors, and going out dancing all night to House and Techno

Interests: Threesomes, Hookups, Casual Dating

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sissyslutboy, 22

Santa Monica, California, USA

new but wanting to be pegged, get me used to it then you can use me like any other toy

getting treated like a sissy and dressing up like a girl

Interests: Sex Toys, Sub, Chasity, Pegging

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424NicandroH70, 54

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hola que tal. Soy UN caballero. Mexicano. Honesto. Y directo. Amable. Y muy cariñoso. I'm a Gentleman. Honest and cool

Mexicano. / Tranquilo. / Honesto /. Activo me gusta reir. Me gusta El deporte y la playa I'm Mexican / very smood. Man. And. Very friendly and. I love to. Smile

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Elegancydom, 37

Santa Monica, California, USA

An honest, caring and experienced dom looking for a male sub

Let’s see what’s going to go down in my dungeon, lots of exciting stuffs and experience to share.

Interests: Fisting, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, Dom, CBT, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Foot Fetish, Collaring, gags, Pegging

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Sexyzoe, 33

Santa Monica, California, USA

looking for discreet relationship

I’m compassionate, affectionate, inquisitive, sexy, clean with no diseases. I’m looking into meeting someone for quality fun.

Interests: Discreet Meets, Hookups, BDSM, Mature, Feet, LGBTQIA+

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Smoothdaddypnp, 48

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm 47 years old, living in the Santa Monica region.

love, long sessions and couples and dom females and trans girls and groups!

Interests: Sex Toys, Group Sex, Voyeurism, Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Lace, Threesomes, Cuckold, Bukkake, Fetish, S&M, Dom, Sub, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Friends With Benefits, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Crossdress, Couples, Mature, Casual Dating, Pegging, Swinging, Age Gap, Anal, Bondage, Curves, Dirty Talk, Edging, Electro Play, Impact Play, Leather / Latex, LGBTQIA+, Oral, Petite, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Temperature Play, Open to Anything!

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Niceme99, 47

Santa Monica, California, USA

Everyone can relate to astrology in their own way, but if you want to know more about my character, you can read the characteristics of an Aries woman.

I am positive and I believe that if we give positive energy to others, they will respond in kind.

Interests: Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Roleplay, MILF, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, A Relationship, Friendship, BDSM, Outdoor Fun, Casual Dating, Curves, Dirty Talk, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Open to Anything!

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ImaginativeGentl09d0, 57

Santa Monica, California, USA

We are searching for the perfect unicorn. Could that be you?…

I’m happy knowing that my partner is having a good time with another and sharing him with someone that I like and that we all can trust each other 😊

Interests: Friends With Benefits, Outdoor Fun, Casual Dating

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Investortype , 70

Santa Monica, California, USA

SWM seeks sensual domme female for long-term relationship

I'm 69, retired, divorced, no children, living in Southern California. I seek a passionate, very sensual domme woman for a long-term relationship. I'm a sensual sub, not a domestic one.

Interests: Sex Toys, Sub

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Zac, 52

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hello all, I'm Zac. I'd love to meet unique, adventurous, and fun people.

Dressing up in sweaterfetish and bondage. Headshaving turns me into a bright beam of light

Interests: Sissy, Exhibitionism, Friends With Benefits, Webcam, BDSM, Lingerie, Transfan, Queer, Crossdress, Casual Dating, Anal, Bondage, Sex Talk, Open to Anything!

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Pussylikr, 47

Santa Monica, California, USA

Hi looking to have fun I'm 47 years old I'm fun size

I love foreplay toys watching others oral sex live tongue massages

Interests: Oral Sex, Sex Toys, Voyeurism, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Roleplay, Outdoor Fun, Couples, FFF, FMF

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Elena, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

I'm looking for hardcore fetish worship

Fetish worship lifestyle & BDSM wine dungeon DX worship

Interests: Sex Toys, Fisting, Latex, Cuckold, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Dom, CBT, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Foot Fetish, Trampling, Pony Play, Breast Play, Chasity, Collaring, Contract, Electro-Play, gags, suspenders, Pegging, Findom

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Hailie, 22

Santa Monica, California, USA

💕If you know me in real life just a rose trying to blossom in a world full of thorns🌹

I’m the type who excited with new things, tell me what you thinking.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sexual Massage, Threesomes, Dom, Hookups, Erotic Fiction, Casual Dating, Anal, LGBTQIA+, Petite, Sex Talk, Open to Anything!

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Sweetnessalla, 25

Santa Monica, California, USA

Heyy I’m sweetness based in Monica and I’m on here seeking for a serious reason I don’t want to be heartbroken 💔 and if better I find a meetup 🍆🍑

I’m a free lady and I don’t like it if I chat up with an dishonest man I'm totally an trustworthy lady

Interests: Masturbation, Sex Toys, Sexual Massage, Sub, MILF, Hookups, A Relationship, Friendship, Mature, Casual Dating, Anal, Dirty Talk, Oral, Sex Games, Sex Talk, Temperature Play, Tickle Play

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Daddy1babygirl, 65

Santa Monica, California, USA

We are a Dom/sub couple looking for girls, men and couples to play with in So Cal

W/we love to meet intelligent couples and singles for kinky play. Into many kinks and bdsm play. Don't see a place for couples on this site.

Interests: Fisting, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Dom, Medical Play, Dungeon Parties, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, Friendship, BDSM, Erotic Fiction, Casual Dating, Breast Play, Collaring, Electro-Play, suspenders, Swinging

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Kennethkylie17, 34

Santa Monica, California, USA

I am a disciplined woman in all areas of my life and hardworking. I like to share with my family, my dogs and cats. I'm a animal lover. I enjoy good company, love going out to eat, and seeing new places. I love tranquility and peace.

I want to be approached by an attentive, thoughtful, romantic man, committed to a relationship, with whom I can make family plans. A man who likes to walk, enjoy the places in the world, willing to change. A man respectful, kind, who cares about his physique and his personality.

Interests: A Relationship, Dirty Talk

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KinkyRicky, 59

Santa Monica, California, USA

Experienced dominant Master, looking for a woman who enjoys exploring her submissive side. I’m skilled at BDSM role-play and giving discipline/ punishment, as well as sensual and sexual pleasure. I’m in the LA area so if you’re interested respond.

Hi, I live on the west side of LA on the Santa Monica/Brentwood border. I’m a a mental health professional, athletic love outdoor activities, but also appreciate urban culture. I’m a gentleman who loves and respect women, but the primal dynamic of being dominant when it comes to sexual intimacy.

Interests: Sex Toys, Bondage & Discipline, Roleplay, Spanking / Whipping, Fetish, S&M, Dom, BDSM, Breast Play, Collaring, Wax Play

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g-lover, 30

Santa Monica, California, USA

A Man who has seen the other side and is looking to understand a new life as he realizes he is a girl trapped inside the body of a boy.

I am a writer an editor. Real down to earth girls who understand the mysteries of life make me happy. Engaging in powerful conversation, going deep, and 4/20 friendly.

Interests: Clubs, Parties & Socials, Sissy, Petticoating Roleplay, Roleplay, Discreet Meets, Hookups, Group Meets, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Online, Friendship, BDSM, Admirer, Transfan, Trans, Casual Dating, LGBTQIA+, Sex Talk

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Debbiewilson, 42

Santa Monica, California, USA

It is not easy to be described to one itself, because you are the reflection of what you cause in other persons, because of it this reflection will explain. I am a calm, hard-working woman, of good feelings. For my voucher mas the being that to have.

It is not easy to be described to one itself, because you are the reflection of what you cause in other persons, because of it this reflection will explain. I am a calm, hard-working woman, of good feelings. For my voucher mas the being that to have. I surround myself with good persons. I am a comprehensive and intelligent woman to handle difficult situations. I am honest and nice.

Interests: Webcam, A Relationship, Friendship

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Ardura, 45

Santa Monica, California, USA

Erotismo, sexy, y educacion, sin los 3 pilares que nos definen

Nos encanta observar y ser observados, tocar y ser tocados, las miradas, la seducción, lo demás ya llegará....

Interests: Adult Chat, Anal Sex, Bukkake, Friends With Benefits, A Relationship, Couples

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